In real life, there are so many extra influences that could drive the whole family to disintegration. Here are the two most common problems occurred in families with ageing parents and suggested preventive measure and solutions by the Home Instead Senior Care network for each of them.

1. OVERCOME FAMILY CONFLICTS
BY PLANNING WITH SIBLINGS
& AGEING PARENTS

2. The Perfect Scenario
Family members get along well with
each other and willing to sit down
calmly to have serious discussion
regarding caregiving for older parents.

3. Reality
 Parents refuse to tell children that
they need help
 Fighting among siblings
 Disagreements between family
members
 High risk for family disintegration

4. Common Problems
The Problem
Parents’ savings for old age are
treated as potential inheritance for
future generation
 Fighting among siblings
Problem #1: What’s yours is mine – Family’s inheritance and
mementos

5. The Solution
 Parents should decide how the money
will be used or split clearly
 Siblings should try to communicate with
each other
 Ask for help from trusted friends, relatives
or a professional (financial advisor)
Problem #1: What’s yours is mine – Family’s inheritance and
mementos
Common Problems

6. Problem #2: Communication breakdown
Common Problems
The Problem
 “The Silent One” – refuse to
discuss about anything
 “The Rebel One” – neglect others’
opinions

7. The Solution
 Communication should be
regulated as much as possible
 Do careful research to get the
big picture
 Employ the help of a 3rd party
Problem #2: Communication breakdown
Common Problems

8. Too Close For Comfort?
Inside this guide:
 psychological aspects and emotional
issues of living together
 creating a senior-friendly home
 financial considerations
 additional resources for you and your
loved one

9. For more information or service inquiries
+61 3 9754 4861
http://zee.homeinstead.com.au/outereast