This document provides advice on how to get a girl to notice you. It suggests that while some men spend a lot of time and money on their appearance, like working out or buying expensive clothes, the best way is to simply talk to her. The document advises that most men are afraid to talk to women they are interested in, but that with practice talking to more women without an end goal of getting their number or going out, men can become more relaxed and enjoyable to talk to. This increased conversation skill will lead to women naturally showing interest in the man.

2. If you want to get a girl to notice you,
it's pretty easy.

3. Now some guys will go to great lengths
to make this happen.

4. They'll spend hours a week in the gym.

5. Deprive themselves of their favorite
foods so they can get that six pack that
allegedly attracts women in droves.

6. They'll drop half their paycheck on
clothes to hopefully get one or two
ladies to turn their heads when they
walk in the place.

7. Some will even wear big goofy hats
that you can't help but notice.

8. Of course, if you're a peacock, this
works pretty well.

9. But in the world of peacocks the dude
just shows up with all the other dudes,
and the ladies pick the guy with the
brightest feathers.

10. If this is the way it worked for humans,
all those billboards and magazine ads
you see wouldn't be for women's
clothes, they'd be for men's clothes.

11. And men would be the ones paying
twice as much for dry cleaning, and
worrying about what shoes to go with
what outfit.

12. Luckily, we're not peacocks.

13. We can do more than change our
appearance, and then sit on the bar
stool hoping we get noticed.

14. So, what's the secret?

15. Well, you already know this, so it's not
much of a secret.

16. Walk over there and talk to her!

17. See, as much as guys pound their
chests about how they're super hero
alphas who slay the ladies at every
turn, most guys are TERRIFIED of
talking to girls.

18. Especially girls they are interested in.

19. Sure, they do a good job of covering
this up, even to themselves.

20. Some guys even choose entire
CAREERS based on the women they
think it will get them.

21. But if you can talk a good game, NONE
of that other stuff matters.

22. And what's the best way to get good at
talking to girls?

23. Well, this isn't a trick question.

24. Talk to more girls!

25. Here's a mind experiment.

26. Really think about this one.

27. What if you made a commitment right
here, right now, to NEVER try and "pick
up" a girl.

28. You NEVER asked for a phone number.

29. You NEVER made any kind of
suggestions about getting together.

30. From now on, no matter what, all you
wanted to do was talk to girls and
enjoy the conversation, ANY WAY you
could.

31. Now think about this for a minute.

32. If you were really serious, and decided
to NEVER close a girl in any way shape
or form, what would happen?

33. Well, you'd talk to a lot more girls
since there would be no pressure, only
fun.

34. Which means you'd get more relaxed.

35. Which means you'd enjoy their
company, and they yours.

36. And your subconsciously driven,
natural feedback loop would kick in.
Just like a little kid learns to walk
based on natural feedback, your ability
to make her laugh, smile and feel good
would naturally and consistently
improve.

37. And pretty soon, girls would start
closing you.

38. Remember, the ONLY RULE of this
"mind experiment" is that you can't
close them.

39. If they close you, and you're into her,
then let her have you.

40. What would your life be like in six
months?

41. All the girls in your life would be
TOTALLY INTO YOU.

42. You'd never worry about flakes, never
worry about how long to wait until she
called you back etc.

43. All the nonsense would take care of
itself.

44. Now ask yourself this honest question:

45. How much action have you gotten in
the last six months?

46. Would you be willing to do this
experiment for the next six months?

47. Try and see what happens.

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