Motivation comes and goes like other emotions and should not be seen as something wrong if you don't always feel motivated. While motivation feels out of your control, focusing on what you truly want and challenging negative stories that are holding you back can help you do things even when unmotivated. Success is about focus, not motivation, so don't let distracting stories prevent you from pursuing your goals.
A short guide on why detachment is important to happiness and how to detach on a background of beautiful artwork by Alvarez and with content based on detachment principles of al-anon.
Happiness lessons for when you are in denial. Denial can be an important coping mechanism but used too long it can lead to unhappiness and unhappy situations.
Feeling depressed? All the happiness lessons not working for you. Maybe that is exactly where you should be. Important lessons on how to deal with depression
How are you feeling? Sometimes it is helpful to know what feelings are to know how you feel. Part one of the Doctor Bliss Doctrine. Dr. Bliss is a medical doctor with over 23 years experience in family medicine. He is a 13th generation Bliss in the United States.
Many people mistakenly assume that people are rational beings. They are not. On the surface, rationale seems to be behind our decisions, but the source from which the decisions originate speak only the language of emotion.
Two basic types of elemental energies move each of us: pain - happiness.
A short guide on why detachment is important to happiness and how to detach on a background of beautiful artwork by Alvarez and with content based on detachment principles of al-anon.
Happiness lessons for when you are in denial. Denial can be an important coping mechanism but used too long it can lead to unhappiness and unhappy situations.
Feeling depressed? All the happiness lessons not working for you. Maybe that is exactly where you should be. Important lessons on how to deal with depression
How are you feeling? Sometimes it is helpful to know what feelings are to know how you feel. Part one of the Doctor Bliss Doctrine. Dr. Bliss is a medical doctor with over 23 years experience in family medicine. He is a 13th generation Bliss in the United States.
Many people mistakenly assume that people are rational beings. They are not. On the surface, rationale seems to be behind our decisions, but the source from which the decisions originate speak only the language of emotion.
Two basic types of elemental energies move each of us: pain - happiness.
Here's how to stop obsessing over an ex girlfriend.
These slides reveal 3 keys that eliminate your obsession
with your ex and help put you in the right mind state to
re-attract her back.
You'll also learn a simple re-attraction process that gets
her running back into your arms.
I’m fine has become an automatic response to being asked, “how are you?” It’s a safe answer that does not typically illicit further questions or comments. Furthermore, it is often asked almost in passing as if any other response would be startling. Thus, most of us walk around saying we are “fine” every day. But what do we really mean?
1. I’m not sure how I really feel.
a. “Fine” is the safety blanket of feelings. We fall back on this response so often that many of us have difficulty describing how we are actually feeling. So we say “fine” to avoid further questions or making the asker feel uncomfortable.
2. Nobody would understand how I’m really feeling.
a. Most people who are hurting are protective of not projecting their hurt onto others. Depression and pain often come with shame. To talk about this would show our vulnerability which can feel uncomfortable and threatening.
3. I don’t want to talk about it.
a. Talking about feelings can feel like tearing off wounds. Sharing with someone who lacks empathy or understanding (real or perceived) can be very discouraging and further feed into the above feelings of shame. The risk of exposure for their true feelings compounded with the risk of receiving an uninformed response can result in just avoiding talking about feelings.
4. I feel awful/scared/ashamed/confused/hurt….
a. But how do I share this? These feelings can lead to feeling overwhelmed and truly not knowing how to answer a simple question such as, “how are you?”
5. <sigh>
a. For those living with a mental illness or survivors of trauma, the question itself can feel daunting. A sigh is defined as, “to emit a long, deep, audible breath expressing sadness, relief, tiredness, or a similar feeling.” According to Psychology Today, sighs are associated with a negative mood—a sign of disappointment, defeat, frustration, boredom, and longing. The internal tiredness, disappointment and/or sadness that a person is feeling somehow gets summed up, “I’m fine”
The next time you ask someone how they are, think about the response you’re already anticipating. What if we didn’t settle for “fine”. What if we stop, take a moment and ask with true sincerity how someone is doing. Or better yet, ask how they are feeling. We could all benefit from slowing down, taking an earnest interest in others as well as honestly evaluating how we ourselves are doing.
How to keep yourself well after a break upworkinglife
Break-up means separation of relationship A lot of times people stay in a relationship for a long time, deeply immersing themselves in that relationship Then suddenly for some reason, when that relationship breaks down, a great deal of exhaustion engulfs people This is normal But today I will discuss with you how you can free yourself from that fatigue and live a good life as normal as ten people.
Having Compassion is known to be one of the ways to increase your happiness. Let's define compassion as taking action when you see others or yourself hurting. Mindfulness practice is the fast track to expanding compassion. There are tons of mindfulness practices, but no one size fits all practice. Choose a mindfulness practice based on your personality
5 Stages of Grief and How to Overcome ThemMicheal James
Death of a loved one is a difficult process for everyone. Although you can pay tribute to the deceased by buying the perfect headstones from Companies such as EasternMemorials.com as part of funeral process, you are still vulnerable of falling into depression after a little while. To be able to overcome this depression, you need to understand the different stages of depression first. Here are 5 grief stages shared to help you understand the entire depression process which a person can go through.
Self-Love sounds so simple and yet, how do we get there? How do we understand and overcome the negative habits that sabotage our potential and happiness? This presentation will provide you with gentle and practical insights and visualisations to set you on your way to finding self-love.
I’ve received multiple emails from readers sharing what triggers their self-criticism. Self-criticism can be one of the most MASSIVE obstacles to tackle, because it underlies everything. What you’re telling yourself will determine the way you feel, the behaviors and actions you take and the words you say to others. Your “invisible scripts” shape your experience of your world. They are the paintbrushes on your life canvas (ok, that was slightly cheesy, but you get the point).
For a FREE video course to help overcome binge eating and overeating, visit http://www.bingeeatingbreakthrough.com.
Here's how to stop obsessing over an ex girlfriend.
These slides reveal 3 keys that eliminate your obsession
with your ex and help put you in the right mind state to
re-attract her back.
You'll also learn a simple re-attraction process that gets
her running back into your arms.
I’m fine has become an automatic response to being asked, “how are you?” It’s a safe answer that does not typically illicit further questions or comments. Furthermore, it is often asked almost in passing as if any other response would be startling. Thus, most of us walk around saying we are “fine” every day. But what do we really mean?
1. I’m not sure how I really feel.
a. “Fine” is the safety blanket of feelings. We fall back on this response so often that many of us have difficulty describing how we are actually feeling. So we say “fine” to avoid further questions or making the asker feel uncomfortable.
2. Nobody would understand how I’m really feeling.
a. Most people who are hurting are protective of not projecting their hurt onto others. Depression and pain often come with shame. To talk about this would show our vulnerability which can feel uncomfortable and threatening.
3. I don’t want to talk about it.
a. Talking about feelings can feel like tearing off wounds. Sharing with someone who lacks empathy or understanding (real or perceived) can be very discouraging and further feed into the above feelings of shame. The risk of exposure for their true feelings compounded with the risk of receiving an uninformed response can result in just avoiding talking about feelings.
4. I feel awful/scared/ashamed/confused/hurt….
a. But how do I share this? These feelings can lead to feeling overwhelmed and truly not knowing how to answer a simple question such as, “how are you?”
5. <sigh>
a. For those living with a mental illness or survivors of trauma, the question itself can feel daunting. A sigh is defined as, “to emit a long, deep, audible breath expressing sadness, relief, tiredness, or a similar feeling.” According to Psychology Today, sighs are associated with a negative mood—a sign of disappointment, defeat, frustration, boredom, and longing. The internal tiredness, disappointment and/or sadness that a person is feeling somehow gets summed up, “I’m fine”
The next time you ask someone how they are, think about the response you’re already anticipating. What if we didn’t settle for “fine”. What if we stop, take a moment and ask with true sincerity how someone is doing. Or better yet, ask how they are feeling. We could all benefit from slowing down, taking an earnest interest in others as well as honestly evaluating how we ourselves are doing.
How to keep yourself well after a break upworkinglife
Break-up means separation of relationship A lot of times people stay in a relationship for a long time, deeply immersing themselves in that relationship Then suddenly for some reason, when that relationship breaks down, a great deal of exhaustion engulfs people This is normal But today I will discuss with you how you can free yourself from that fatigue and live a good life as normal as ten people.
Having Compassion is known to be one of the ways to increase your happiness. Let's define compassion as taking action when you see others or yourself hurting. Mindfulness practice is the fast track to expanding compassion. There are tons of mindfulness practices, but no one size fits all practice. Choose a mindfulness practice based on your personality
5 Stages of Grief and How to Overcome ThemMicheal James
Death of a loved one is a difficult process for everyone. Although you can pay tribute to the deceased by buying the perfect headstones from Companies such as EasternMemorials.com as part of funeral process, you are still vulnerable of falling into depression after a little while. To be able to overcome this depression, you need to understand the different stages of depression first. Here are 5 grief stages shared to help you understand the entire depression process which a person can go through.
Self-Love sounds so simple and yet, how do we get there? How do we understand and overcome the negative habits that sabotage our potential and happiness? This presentation will provide you with gentle and practical insights and visualisations to set you on your way to finding self-love.
I’ve received multiple emails from readers sharing what triggers their self-criticism. Self-criticism can be one of the most MASSIVE obstacles to tackle, because it underlies everything. What you’re telling yourself will determine the way you feel, the behaviors and actions you take and the words you say to others. Your “invisible scripts” shape your experience of your world. They are the paintbrushes on your life canvas (ok, that was slightly cheesy, but you get the point).
For a FREE video course to help overcome binge eating and overeating, visit http://www.bingeeatingbreakthrough.com.
You do NOT have to have knowledge in
all areas
NO age is important (you can be
between 0 and 100 years old ...)
Why is this transformational process
important?
You start to know yourself - if you don't
know yourself, you can't expect the
people around you to do it for you.
How to raise your success rate of approaching females by 75%!CashKing2
Ever wanted to learn how to successfully approach females? Well, look no more! This presentation will tell you everything you need to know from what to , and what NOT to do!
How to overcome selfishness the a to z guideChen Yee
A comprehensive guide on how to overcome selfishness: both short term and long term techniques to help you overcome selfishness a be a better person overall.
My major inspiration for writing the book was to give back something to the society which I felt is necessary. Everyone is born to win and has his life is progressing he loses track of this and in due course due he is being made to change directions which lead him to the unexpected outcomes for which he is not ready.
Key Focus:
You can find what actually makes you unhappy.
Provide clarity of your unhappiness and it's reason.
You can say good by to worry about future ,stress anxiety, frustration from your life.
How can you live life fullest with lot of energy and enjoyment.
What to do When Your Crush Likes Another Guy More Than YouFrankie Cola
It can really hurt when you're obsessed with a girl who doesn't like you back.
It gets worse when she starts giving all her attention to another guy.
This presentation reveals what to do when your crush likes another guy more than you... and 4 TIPS to turn things around.
I also share with you my "SECRET" trick to figure out if a girl likes you. Just do this innocent move on her, and she'll give you the sign.
5 Ways to Create Sexual Tension With a Girl Over TextFrankie Cola
Here are 5 ways to create sexual tension with a girl over text.
Use these texting "tactics" to add a "SPARK" to your text conversations when they're going COLD.
These texting techniques allow you to ramp up the tension and
make a woman want to get physical with you.
Go through the slideshow to learn how.
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You know that spending half the night mulling over possible to solutions to work/family/life issues is definitely not the best use of your sleep time. You wake up tired; you don’t handle things as well and your worry and grumpiness just compound. You are caught in a negative stress spiral, being sucked down and it’s hard to break.
Welcome to the Program Your Destiny course. In this course, we will be learning the technology of personal transformation, neuroassociative conditioning (NAC) as pioneered by Tony Robbins. NAC is used to deprogram negative neuroassociations that are causing approach avoidance and instead reprogram yourself with positive neuroassociations that lead to being approach automatic. In doing so, you change your destiny, moving towards unlocking the hypersocial self within, the true self free from fear and operating from a place of personal power and love.
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In addition to their physical benefits, reborn dolls can also offer emotional support. For many people, having something to care for and nurture can bring a sense of purpose and fulfillment. Reborn dolls can also serve as a reminder of happy memories or loved ones who have passed away.
2. Not always motivated? Think there’s something wrong
with you because you’re not “up” all the time?
3. If you keep on thinking from that flawed
framework, life will continue to both a mystery
and a misery. “Feeling motivated” is an emotion,
and like other emotions, it comes and goes.
4. However, when you accept the fact, that motivation,
just like happiness and sadness, comes and goes, then
you can start to look at different ways to make yourself
do the things that you don’t "feel" like doing.
5. Your primary motivational filter should be this
question… “Is this what I want?” If the answer
is “Yes,” then your next question should be… “So what
story I am I telling myself, that’s stopping me from doing
it?”
6. Once you realise that you’re fusing to that useless
story, and that it is pushing you away from your valued
life, then you need to defuse from that story – you need
to stop taking it literally.
7. Getting what you want has to do with focus and not
listening to distracting stories that push you off the road
to success – it has nothing to do with motivation.