This document discusses various topics related to modern dating, including: 1) It summarizes different perspectives on what men and women want from dating - women often want a provider and family, while men focus more on youth and beauty. 2) It describes "Chads" who casually date many women without commitment and how this affects relationships. 3) Issues like the changing power dynamics and choices for young women as they age are examined, as well as topics like "incels," cheating behaviors, and effects of technology on dating. 4) The role of birth control in empowering women and changing relationship expectations is covered. The document takes a comparative look at dating customs and challenges in different

1. Modern Dating

2. What do women want from dating?
What do men want?
Women usually want a rich, smart, tall man who
can take care of them and start a family.
Men want a beautiful, healthy young woman.
Money and brains are usually not as important.

3. Chad- The man who gets all the girls.
He doesn’t want to get married.
“Why buy the cow when you can get
the milk for free?”
He gets all the women he wants on
Tinder and dating apps.
The women he dates think that
because they can date him, they can
probably marry him. They may be
disappointed that he doesn’t want
that.

4. Young, beautiful women have a lot of power.
A beautiful young woman has the choice of
almost any man she wants. This power goes
down as she gets older or has children.
It’s important for a young woman to
understand their power and use it correctly.
Don’t waste it. Don’t use it to hurt other
people.
Women often get jealous of a beautiful
woman.

5. Incels
An incel is someone who cannot get a girlfriend or
boyfriend.
They may be ugly, poor, or have no social skills.
Sometimes they give up on dating.

6. Herbivore men
Men in many countries are not manly anymore. This is because feminism and
other changes in culture.

7. The birth control pill
The birth control pill really
changed the world in the
1960’s.
It gave women the freedom to
have sex without having a baby.
Feminism has also given
women more power in dating.

8. Women are finding it harder to get married
and have children
Many women don’t get married and
become “old maids”.
They want to have children, but it is
difficult after age 35.

9. Tinder makes dating easy… or too easy?
It’s so easy to find someone new to date,
that maybe we don’t give someone
enough of a chance.
A lot of people just use it to “hook up”
with someone they don’t really care
about.

10. Why do men cheat? Why do women cheat?
• Men usually cheat because they want to have some fun with a pretty
young woman.
• Women usually cheat because they want to upgrade to a richer or
better man for marriage.

11. Men vs. Women cheating graph

12. Sex on the first date
• Is it a good idea?
• It is probably better to wait and build a relationship first.
• If you don’t really like the person you are having sex with, it will not
be satisfying.

13. Friends with benefits
Being “friends with benefits” means you are
having sex with someone, but you are not “in a
relationship”.
Do you think this is a good idea?

14. Women get attached when they have sex.
If a man has sex with a
woman and then dumps
her, it will break her heart.
This is true for a man too,
but not as strongly.

15. Dating contract
It seems crazy, but now this is
popular.
Should people sign a contract for a
relationship?

16. Sexual consent form
Many people worry about rape and
sexual harassment nowadays.
Now in some places, usually
Universities, people are signing
consent forms before sex so no one
gets accused of rape.

17. texting rules
• Don’t send too many texts without waiting for an answer.
• Don’t think too much about response time.
• Don’t try too hard to be funny and cool.
• Can you think of other rules?

18. Ghosting- disappearing from the relationship
Sometimes people are afraid to say “I want to end this.” so
they just stop answering messages and calls.
This is very cruel.
It is better to tell someone “Sorry, I don’t think I can meet
you anymore. Good luck!”

19. Oxytocin- The love hormone
When people have sex and have
orgasms, oxytocin is released in their
brain.
It makes people fall in love, and it
causes heartbreak when the love
doesn’t work.

20. Prostitutes and sex robots
brothel
Robot brothel
Some people want to
have sex without having
a relationship.
Yes it is probably dirty
and disgusting and
empty of love.
But at least no one gets
a broken heart, and
everyone gets what
they wanted.

21. Teach me about Thai style relationships and
dating
• Work with a partner. On the back of your song lyric sheet, write 3
things you want to tell a foreigner about Thai culture when it comes
to dating, romance, marriage, or relationships.
Also write three things about dating or
romance that you think are true
everywhere in the world.