2. Let me start by saying that I understand most of my readers are very busy people who do not have too much time to spend reading an instruction manual.
So, I have come up with something that requires just a single glance to get the gist of it, like reading the headlines of the newspaper. Don’t let that mislead you; this is a comprehensive guide that will almost guarantee your success.
This may be the most important 10 - 15 minutes of your life. Even if you only take away one tip, you will learn something you probably hadn’t thought about.
3. Contents
Are You Tired of Looking For Love and Not Having Any Luck? .......... 4
The Online Dating Profile ........................................................... 8
When You Start Talking ............................................................. 9
4 Ways To Tell If Someone Is Lying ........................................... 10
Meeting For the First Time ....................................................... 12
Places to Take Your Date ......................................................... 13
Things to Talk About On A First Date ......................................... 14
Body Language ...................................................................... 16
Getting That Second Date ........................................................ 18
Credits .................................................................................. 22
4. Are You Tired of Looking For Love and Not Having Any Luck?
First you will have to forget what you think you know about a few things.
You have to keep moving forward, don’t dwell on past failures.
Your life as you know it is about to change for the better and you will find that relationship you’re looking for. Love is something different to everyone but getting what you want and need from a relationship is at it’s core.
Let’s examine your approach.
Are you still using cheesy or insulting pick-up lines?
- These may have worked at one time, but today’s woman is looking for much more from a man.
5. Do you have an online dating profile?
- Today’s world is centered around the online social and dating sites.
Are you texting girls? Maybe even getting shot down over and over?
- Even those that don’t answer the phone will respond to a text. If you’re not texting, it’s time to start.
Do you get the first date but can’t seem to get a second?
- It should only take a few small changes to help make your 1st date enjoyable enough to easily get the second.
Let’s polish up your act with simple tips that will get you results.
These tips will not only help you with the first date but also with getting that fulfilling dating life or romantic relationship that you are looking for. These are changes that won’t take a lot of time or effort but will have a major impact on your results.
You can’t just sit back and hope that love will find you. You need to put yourself out there and do it in the right ways.
6. Staying at home in front of the computer or television won’t work.
Sitting in a bar and hoping that that beautiful girl comes to you won’t work.
Setting up your online dating profile the wrong way is going to get a lot of unwanted results or none at all.
Step outside of your comfort zone with confidence and open yourself to new opportunities. No one will know that you have been a dating loser unless you tell them. The things you are going to learn right here in this report are simple but powerful. They will change your way of thinking and get results quickly.
There is no check off list to finding the true key to seducing a woman. This report is an easy to follow guide with tips that should help you be more successful. Unfortunately, we cannot guarantee that you will be; there is no step by step guaranteed method.
7. Getting the woman you want may not be as difficult as you think. We see couples all the time that may not look like they belong together and wonder what they see in each other.
Develop The Guts To Talk To Anyone…
8. The Online Dating Profile
Rewrite your dating profile to make yourself more attractive no matter how good your picture is. The hardest part of this is, capturing the interest of a woman and it is also your biggest challenge.
You need to set yourself apart from the crowd.
The user name is the one thing that you cannot usually change so, consider it carefully and have fun building your online dating profile.
It’s okay to use a profile picture that is a couple of years old, if you say that it is not current
Be upbeat and positive when describing yourself
Talk briefly about things that you’re very interested in not about everything you’ve ever done
If you have trouble coming up with things that you have done that are interesting, talk about the things that you would like to do.
Be honest and be brief, don’t write a novel
9. When You Start Talking
You have captured her attention and she contacts you. How do you know she’s for real or if she is really someone that you are interested at all?
Unfortunately, there are a lot of people that prey on the weakness of others. People who are just “looking for love” are among the most targeted. Many people are fooled into thinking that every picture is real or that every person is telling the truth.
Talk a little more about some of the interests you listed in your profile
Talk about the interests she has listed on her profile
If it’s a long distance meeting describe your town and talk about current events
Share pictures of you enjoying your favorite things
If she’s for real, she should be able to respond to each of these items with something similar about herself, including additional pictures that include her.
Getting to know someone and seducing a woman should be an enjoyable process for both of you. Being in a rush could make you seem needy and discourage her.
10. 4 Ways To Tell If Someone Is Lying
It’s easy to be taken advantage of online. The person that you are talking to is anonymous so it’s easy for them to say anything that comes to mind. Be careful not to be their next victim.
1. Talk about their interests and goals
- If you don’t get an answer or if they change the subject you should be cautious since their intentions are probably not good. People love to talk about themselves. Usually, when you give them an opening, they have a lot to talk about.
- Take notes on the answers that you get and check your notes. It’s easy to get caught up in the moment and lose track of what is actually being said.
2. If they are in a foreign country or a different state from their profile and need help getting back.
- Someone that is honest and needs money certainly isn’t going to be asking anyone they just met online.
- If they act like you are the best thing that has ever happened to them from first the day they stumbled on your profile, they are either extremely desperate or phony. Most likely, phony.
11. 3. If your profile picture is an everyday guy and hers is that of a supermodel.
- If this is the case, you can be pretty sure that this profile is a fake.
- Guys get easily impressed with the “model” profile and are targeted with profiles that are sure to suck them in.
- These are the profiles of young, beautiful women that have been developed especially to try to get men to fall in love with the idea of this woman. Usually, just enough to get you to sympathize and send her money for one thing or another… a broken down car, tires, a visa, schooling or any number of other items.
4. Act like you have chatted before and you remember her.
- If she easily goes along with it instead of questioning you, this is yet another clue that you should be cautious.
- Anyone that is honest will ask questions to try to figure out where or when you “met”.
- If she’s quick to “remember” you, this may be another of the scam profiles. They may be hoping that you haven’t quite given up yet.
12. Meeting For the First Time
You really want to put your best foot forward here. She will be just as nervous as you are so try to relax a little.
Shower and pay special attention to your fingernails be sure they are neat and trim. Make your hands more touchable by using lotion.
Don’t overdo it on the cologne but don’t go without it. Scent is the strongest sense linked to memory so, leave something for her to remember you by.
Dress appropriately for the season and the destination.
It is important that you are a gentleman but don’t overdo it.
Keep the conversation light and changing, try to make her laugh. They say if you can make a woman laugh she will do just about anything for you. It’s no fun to be around a person that is always complaining and doesn’t have anything positive to add to a conversation
Confidence is a very attractive quality for both men and women. Careful preparation for your first date will give you the confidence you need and leave your date wanting to see you again; it is also a shortcut to help decide if you want a second date.
13. Places to Take Your Date
It’s always difficult to decide where to take someone when your on your first date. This is just a few ideas that should help get you started finding some interesting things to do that you will both enjoy. The best part about these simple ideas is that they offer plenty of opportunity to get to know one another.
This is usually someone that you have talked with, at least a bit. Finding something that you have in common should be fairly easy from these conversations.
If you met online and just can’t remember, now would be a good time to check your notes if you took them.
- If you both like to cook, you could prepare a favorite meal together
- If you both enjoy the outdoors, how about a picnic at a local park, or a stroll through a scenic area if there is one nearby.
- If you both happen to be dog lovers, you could take the dogs to a dog park.
You should get the idea here. Something simple that allows quiet time for talking and a light activity to help fill any gaps in the conversation. Nothing overwhelming.
14. Things to Talk About On A First Date
Most people are more than willing to talk a little about themselves and, asking the right questions will give you the information you need to decide if you are interested in a second date.
To get a good conversation flowing, you should ask open ended questions. Ask questions that invite a response then listen to the answer. Your goal should be a fun conversation that let’s you get to know each other a little. Don’t ask questions that could start a heated debate or ones that are too personal, at least not the first couple of times you meet.
15. Learning to talk to anyone is something that we learn as babies. There’s nothing wrong with planning what to say. Carefully crafted questions will supply you with a lot of insight and help you avoid awkward moments of silence. Confidence is attractive, but don’t overdo it.
1. Where did they grow up?
2. What kind of work have they done?
3. How many brothers and sisters?
4. How many children do they have?
5. What do they do in their spare time?
6. Where do they like to vacation?
7. Do they have any pets and what kind?
8. Mention something that makes you really happy and ask what they do that makes them instantly happy?
9. If they have trouble falling asleep what do they do?
These are all questions that will give you a bit of insight into a person without getting too personal. Based on their answers you will quickly be able to decide if you have anything in common. Every question is designed to allow for more conversation and every answer should require more than just a one word answer. A conversation should be two sided and these questions will allow you to talk a little about yourself also.
16. Body Language
It is important to relax, have fun and be yourself. Use good humor and clean jokes to leave a lasting impression. Being able to talk about a variety of things and make people laugh will leave them looking forward to their next conversation with you.
There are many confident male body language signals that you can learn to easily master. Practice these steps and you will find they actually come quite naturally when you relax.
1. Be calm and composed, even if you really aren’t, don’t over react to her signals, be calm and smile this will let her know that you are confident and she will naturally follow your lead
2. Move slowly and with confidence, pay attention to how you sit, stand and move in general, showing that you are confident and composed will help her relax. If you act nervous she will pick up on that too.
3. Don’t let yourself be hidden by those around you, claim your personal space with your body but, don’t be sloppy about it
4. Smile and be friendly
17. 5. When you speak always speak clearly but, speaking more softly will force her to listen closely. 6. Don’t laugh when you shouldn’t, or too much 7. Smile when you make eye contact but don’t stare 8. Not too much touching Confident body language and well directed conversation can create a sexual tension that is as intense as the satisfaction. If you don’t contact her soon after the date, it’s possible the damage can’t be reversed. Many of our fears are unfounded and we often hold ourselves back because of them. Have you ever seen a man laughed at or embarrassed for talking to a woman? We only seem to notice the guys that are successful not the ones that aren’t. The goal is to seem confident and relaxed, even if you aren’t and the better you master the skill of confident body language the more natural it will become. Remember that women are nervous too. Your goal right now is to create interest and conversation.
18. Getting That Second Date
The easiest way to assure that your date is interested enough for a second date is to make a good impression. When you plan for success it’s easy to achieve it.
Planning a good first date can be nerve wracking, but it will help you be more relaxed if you know what the plans are for the evening. A word of advice: don’t plan the evening so well that you become pressed for time.
Trying to fit too many things into a date can cause stress for you both. Allow for relaxing conversation instead. It’s a good idea to have a little something extra planned in case you need it, but make sure that it’s nothing that can’t be skipped.
We all have busy lives, and unfortunately, we all have bad days. Just because you have selected a day and time to go out, it doesn’t mean that your date will be in a great mood when you show up.
If this happens, don’t take it personally. Keep in mind that you are still going out, so they must be looking forward to getting to know you better.
19. Act nonchalant about it and keep the conversation light. This will help draw them into a lighter mood and give you an opportunity to shine. Any time that you get the chance to improve someone’s day, they remember that you made them smile.
Being spontaneous at this point will add fun to the relationship and increase your chances of success. It may take a few tries to get them out of the mood, but your efforts will be well worth it.
If you are not sure if she is interested enough to accept a second invitation, or are hesitant about asking, there is a solution…
You can “arrange” a meeting at another time. Simply pick an evening that you will be out (or plan to be out - just for this) and let her know where you will be. You can mention that if she’s interested she is welcome to drop by.
This method leaves you wondering and waiting, so it may not be suitable for everyone, but it can work very well.
20. Recommended Resources
Learn to capture her attention and have her chasing after you.
Inside the course, you will learn things like:
How to attract gorgeous women
How to make small talk
Never run out of things to say to her
The secret to making her laugh
What to say to get her thinking about you in a sexual way
Conversation topics to use to build sexual tension
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This is the most comprehensive report on improving your dating that you will ever read! Not only does it include timely tips and advice on understanding why romance is so important to successful dating but it will also provide you with tons of specific ideas.
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21. Learn to talk to anyone.
There are only a few things you need to know in order to speak effectively with just about anyone. The most important of them, of course, is confidence.
