Disappointments come whether you're young or old. Teaching children to deal with disappointments can be helped by teaching them to use their Internal Guidance system. They will always know what is important and what is not.

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Helping Your Children Find Success
Inside Disappointment:
Leveraging disappointment to achieve goals.

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From Life Coach & Parenting Coach
Sharon Ballantine

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No parent wants to see their children
suffer through disappointment.

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Given the opportunity,
many parents would
gladly wave a magic wand
and make all
disappointments
disappear from their
children’s lives.

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While it might seem like it would
be wonderful to protect our
children from disappointment,
rejection and hurt, it is not only
impossible, it can also be
unhealthy and detrimental to
their growth.

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Rather than shielding your
children from
disappointments, you can
guide them towards turning
them into successes.

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Disappointment can be used as an
effective tool for helping your children
achieve success. It can be leveraged in
a way that enables them to refine and
reach their goals.

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Like expectation,
disappointment comes in
all shapes and sizes. Maybe
your son or daughter didn’t
get the roll they wanted in
the school play, or they
didn’t make the varsity
sports team or they didn’t
get accepted to their first
choice college.

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Whatever disappointment your child
meets, don’t just minimize the
problem, expect them to sweep it
under the rug, and to move on with
their lives. Give them some time to
experience their feelings and to mourn.

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It is difficult to say how
long exactly is the right
amount of time to allow
for mourning. Every
situation is different, but if
you can open your heart
and tune into your child,
you will get a good sense
of how long is long
enough, and you can
support them through it.

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Every hurt is different. It might
take a few minutes or a few days.
Once you feel that your child is
ready to process their upset in a
different way, you can help them
to tune into their own Internal
Guidance System (IGS) to
examine other ways that they
might choose to experience their
situation.

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You can help your children to focus on what they
hoped for. Encourage them to tap deeply into the
feeling that they would have experienced by
realizing their desired achievements. This will
help them to tune into their IGS and it will help
them to uncover the motives driving their desires.

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By tapping into their Internal
Guidance System, they can decide if
what they wanted was about having a
level of prestige, if it was about
connecting deeper with a peer group,
or maybe they thought it would bring
them popularity.

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Whatever the motivating factor is, once
energy is shifted away from
disappointment and focussed on the
desired positive feeling, your child can
choose to be proactive about creating
that feeling in other ways. By aligning
with the positive instead of the negative,
your child will actually allow for these
experiences to come to them.

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By clarifying their motives, your
children can then use their internal
guidance system to determine
other ways of achieving the same
type of feelings .

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Perhaps a desire to get on the varsity team
was about being with buddies and building a
deeper camaraderie. There might be an
opportunity here to build another type of
team or to become a supporting member
without actually playing.

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Rejection can be used as a motivator to
train harder with efforts to make the team
next season, or to try out for another team.

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By tuning into their IGS, your child can
repurpose disappointment into a tool that
can help them realize and achieve what they
really want. Any disappointment can be
converted into a stepping stone toward
greater success.

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Inside you will learn:
· What is your Internal Guidance System & how you can benefit from it.
· Learn the value of trusting your IGS
· Tips to help your children use their IGS
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