Do not define success and failure for your child based on winning and losing. Any activity should be about growth through exploration and learning, not outcomes. Help your child understand success comes from doing their best, not results, so they are always a winner if they try their potential.

1. DO NOT DEFINE SUCCESS AND
FAILURE IN TERMS OF WINNING
AND LOSING
Any activity in your child’s developmental life has only
one true purpose that is to grow through
exploration, learning and development, thus it is very
important for your child to judge him/her-self in this
context rather than on the basis of the outcome of
win/loss.

2. Remember, if you define success
and failure in terms of winning and
losing, you're always at the losing
end!
Help your child make the important
separation between success/failure
and winning/losing.

3. If your child has done his/her
level best (to his/her potential)
than he/she is a winner
irrespective of the outcome,
while vice versa is also true.