Allowing your kids some room for mistakes is allowing them to use their Internal Guidance System to grow. Give them healthy independence.

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From Life Coach & Parenting Coach
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As they age, children
have a natural tendency
to pull away from their
parents in order to
explore who they are
independently.

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Many factors including birth
order, genetics, and socialization
contribute to when this will occur
and to what degree.

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Some kids will model
themselves after
another person while
differentiating
themselves from their
parents. They may
choose a sibling, a
hero, or a close friend
as their model.

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Seeing kids change before their eyes
can be disconcerting for some
parents, especially if the change
goes against how a kid might have
previously been representing
themselves.

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When a previously clean-cut son grow his
hair long and wears shoddy clothes, or a
little girl starts wearing thick makeup
and “immodest” clothes, parents can
easily grow disconcerted.

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Some kids will shift styles quickly or
adopt a style with the specific intent
of shocking or alarming a parent.
Changes can be temporary or lasting.

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While some kids may choose to express
individuality through altering their
physical appearance, others may do so
by venturing into different kinds of
social and creative activities.

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It is not uncommon for some kids to
change up their peer groups or drop
their old friends and take up with new
ones. They could potentially choose to
explore joining in with a crowd that
you may not approve of.

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You may find
yourself asking,
“What can I do?”

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It is important to
recognize that you can
only control your
children to a certain
point. Also, you want to
empower your children
to grow into independent
adults.

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You may not always like the choices
that your kids make, but recognize
that growing up is a time for kids to
try new things. By trying new styles,
social activities, sports, classes, and
friendships, your kids will learn more
about who they are and who they
hope to become.

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Your challenge as a parent is to embrace
and support your kids for who they are.
This could mean giving up your dreams
about who you thought they might grow
up to be.

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You might be called to step back
and hold space for them, while
they test out what it feels like to be
growing into early adulthood.

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Cultivate a strong practice of tuning into
your Internal Guidance System (IGS) to
determine when you need to step in and
provide guidance and when it is best to
let your kids work things through on
their own.

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Above all else,
children need and
crave love. They may
roll their eyes when
you ask for a hug in
front of their friends,
but don’t let that fool
you.

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Use your IGS to help you determine
where the line is between unconditional
love and smothering your kids.

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Encourage your kids to communicate
with you openly. Give them the space
they need to express themselves deeply
and you will have more opportunity to
know who they truly are.

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You can help them tap into
their own IGS and the whole
family can rest in the
knowledge that the unique
qualities that emerge in
your kids are authentically
theirs, whether they are
short lived or remain long
term.

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Go the extra mile to support and
celebrate uniqueness in other people.
This will help you to create a culture of
safety for your children and it will enable
them to be more comfortable exploring
all the nuances of their own emergent
individuality.

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Inside you will learn:
· What is your Internal Guidance System & how you can benefit from it.
· Learn the value of trusting your IGS
· Tips to help your children use their IGS
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