The document discusses the similarities and differences between two families (or groups) in technology - one focused on IT service management and one focused on agile/DevOps. Both groups have their own languages, processes, and ways of working. However, they also have two things in common - a desire to provide value to businesses from technology and a love for technology. In the end, the document suggests that the two groups have more similarities than differences and should work to blend their approaches and find common ground in order to have a successful relationship.