Remember love is a state of being. It makes you content and happy. You become delighted in your own being. You automatically live in the present. Most important of all, you lose that emotion which always used to make you unhappy- your ego. When you are loved by someone, you get the feeling that you are not alone in this world. You are by needed by someone. At least there is one person who will be with you for your support, who will feel sad and miss you in your absence. That means you are now accepted by the universe, the existence, the God. Now a very a comforting thought enters your mind that you came to this world because you are needed by the existence. Your life becomes more meaningful and purposeful. This gives a tremendous feeling of well being.

1. Realize Your Dream Through Meditative Love
Love givesyoua great feelingof well being.How?Whenyouare lovedbysomeone, yougetthe feeling
that youare not alone inthisworld.Youare by neededbysomeone. Atleastthere isone personwho
will be withyouforyour support,whowill feel sadandmissyouinyour absence.Thatmeansyouare
nowacceptedby the universe,the existence,the God.Now avery a comfortingthought entersyour
mindthat youcame to thisworldbecause youare needed bythe existence. Yourlife becomesmore
meaningful andpurposeful.Thisgivesatremendousfeelingof wellbeing.
Rememberlove isastate of being.Itmakesyoucontentand happy.You become delightedinyourown
being.Youautomaticallyliveinthe present.Mostimportantof all,youlose that emotion whichalways
usedto make youunhappy- yourego.
Love is notan act. When youstart doinglove,yougettiredandbored.For that matterwithanyact you
become exhaustedandyouneedtorelax.Itislike breathing.If yourequire efforttodothe breathing
thenyouwill gettiredof it aftersome time andyouneedto relax.Youwill know whatwill happenthen.
You will die.Thatiswhybreathing issoeffortlessandyouare notevenaware of it. So if you are doing
love,youneedtorelax inhate,justthe opposite.There isnootherway.That iswhyloversare in intense
love - hate relationship.
Whenyouare in deeplove,thenyourlove becomesadoorto an unbelievablybeautiful world,aworld
where you experience contentment,peace andhappiness. Inthisstate of mind youlive onlyinthe
presentandyouwill be able todissolve yourperpetual tormentor - yourego.
You mighthave noticedsome personswhoare perpetuallyinangrymood.Notangryat someone but
justplain angry.For such people love becomesand effort.Onthe contraryif your love isyournatural
state of mind, thenangerwill be aneffort. Fore.g.a Jesus Christor a Mahavira or a Bodhi Dharma or a
Budhacannot be angry or hate anyone.The overflowinglove withinthemwill notallow themtobe in
that mental state.
One beautiful thingaboutlove isthatwhenyouare indeeplove,yourobjectof love becomesdivine.
You treat himwithreverence.Thenthe love relationbetweenmanandwomanbecomessacred.If you
are intrue love,thenyoucantreat that relationshipthatwayonly.Otherwise the loveyoudeclare to
your loverisjustan act, make-believeandfalse one- aworldlyone wherebothof youuse eachother.If
youcannot see the divinityinyourlover,thenthatlove isjustlust.Once yousee the divinityinthe
personyoulove,thenlove flowersandmeditationhappens.Thatiswhylove iscalledmeditation.
To be ina permanentstate of love or to love withoutanyeffortispretty easy.If youcan love ina single
moment,youhave achievedlovingstate of mindforyourentire life.How?Because youare nevergiven
twomomentstogether.Youhave onlyone momentata time.Whenthat isgone,thenonlya second
momentisgiven toyou. If youfill thatsingle momentwithfeelingof love,thenthatisthe secret of
beingineternal love.Youare welcomingeachmomentwithlove.Youhave enteredeternitywithloving

2. state of mind.A Jesusliveseachmomentinastate of love – A Budhalivesinthe NOWwithlove and
compassion.DittoMahaviraand Sarathushtrawholive thisverymomenthere andnow.Livingeach
single momentbymomentisa‘present’toyou. Thuslove makesyoulive inthe presentmomentwith
contentment.Thisiswhatexactlymeditationisdoing.The onlydifference isthatlove isthe natural
methodwhere asformeditationwe use artificial methods.
THERE IS A FALLACY THAT MEDITATION ISCONCENTRATION.Itistotallywrong.The strange factis that
concentrationmakesone violent.How?Whenyouconcentrate,youbecome tense because effortis
neededtofocusonone thingexclusivelybracketingoutall otherthings.Thisresultsinviolence with
your consciousnessandwhenyouare violentwithyourself,youwill be violentwith othersalso. Thisis
because whateveryouare inside,youcanshow that onlyto others.Forexample,peoplewhodonot
love themselveswillnotbe able tolove others.Youcan onlygive tootherswhat youalreadyhave inside
you.Thisis the fundamental rule of life:if youwanttolove others,thenlove yourself first.
In a meditative state of mind, youare full of compassion.Unlike passion,compassioniscool andjust
warm. Passionishot andfeverish.Passionisasearch forhappinessandcompassionisanexpressionof
happiness.Thatiswhylike love,meditationwill fill youwithoverflowingcompassion.Itfillsyouwith
sheerdelight.Youare happy forno reason at all.Rememberyouneedacause to be unhappy.Forbeing
happyyou neednoreasonbecause youare part of the existenceandthe existence itselfismade of the
stuff calledjoy. Meditation helpsyoutouncoverthishappiness.Now youcanimmerse yourself inthis
eternal joy.The problemisthatmindcannotbelieveinuncaused.Itcannotcontrol the uncaused.Then
mindfeelsimpotentanddead.Hence mindtriestofindsome reasontomake youunhappy.The only
solutionthenistodetach you fromthe mindand be withthe being.Onlymeditationoroverflowinglove
can get youto detachyour consciousnessfromthe mind. Thenyouwillbe in ecstasy permanently.
Rememberthe drugs,alcohol orsex cangive a temporaryliftor joy.Butthis joy which isout of love or
meditationispermanent.Youdon’tneedany chemicals toreachthisstate of joy.This intoxicationis
milliontimesheadier,stronger,cleanerandbetterthandruginducedstupor.Drinkthisnectar,this
NOW to yourheart’scontent.Immerse init.Enjoyyourselftothe full. Thatishow life isto be lived.