The document discusses the four identities mentioned in John 3:16. It states that the first is God, who loves the world so much that he gave his only begotten Son. The third identity is God's son, who was given by God as an undeserved gift to pay the price for humanity's sins. The fourth identity is "whosoever believes"; God wants everyone to have the opportunity to be saved through belief in his son.
Agape is godly love, phileo is brotherly love, Storge is family love, Eros is sexual love, Eros is not used in the bible. Peter and his denying the Lord three times and he is asked by Jesus two times if he loves Him with Agape love. Peter responds with phileo love. The third time Jesus asked him if he loved him with phileo love. It grieved Peter that he asked him the third time with phileo rather than agape. Why is agape love so difficult for us?
Agape love is difficult for us. It does not come easily. God commands Agape love. Agape love does not change with feelings or depend on feelings. Agape love is a decision. God never command something of us that he will not see that we can accomplish it
Agape is godly love, phileo is brotherly love, Storge is family love, Eros is sexual love, Eros is not used in the bible. Peter and his denying the Lord three times and he is asked by Jesus two times if he loves Him with Agape love. Peter responds with phileo love. The third time Jesus asked him if he loved him with phileo love. It grieved Peter that he asked him the third time with phileo rather than agape. Why is agape love so difficult for us?
Agape love is difficult for us. It does not come easily. God commands Agape love. Agape love does not change with feelings or depend on feelings. Agape love is a decision. God never command something of us that he will not see that we can accomplish it
A look into the Biblical passages that focus on "one another". This is a reflection tool to help you understand the context of your relationships as well as review God's call for us to like together.
A look into the Biblical passages that focus on "one another". This is a reflection tool to help you understand the context of your relationships as well as review God's call for us to like together.
1. Four persons, or people groups, are mentioned in John 3:16. The first person mentioned
is God. Hebrews 11:6 says, “Anyone who comes to God must first believe that He exists,
and that He rewards those who seek Him.”
What do you believe about God? To believe in God’s supreme power demands that we
surrender since it would be futile to resist the irresistible! Why resist Him since He loves
us enough to send His innocent Son to die for guilty us! To believe God created us
demands that we belong to Him. We are possessed by love, since God is love (1st John
4:16)? To believe God is wise demands that we trust Him. Trust is proven by obedience
and expressed in peace of mind. To believe God is holy demands that we love Him! He is
not vain, proud, selfish, aloof, and never lies or betrays a trust, and paid the ultimate price
to prove His love for you. He does not put you down. He lifts you up! God demonstrated
His love for you in that while you were yet a sinner, Christ died for you!
Do not think that you can comprehend, with your finite mind, the infinite God! No
philosophy, human religion or personal epiphany can totally define Him. Most opinions
against God use intellectual arguments to mask a hidden agenda of excusing immorality
or promoting human supremacy. The only things we can really know about God are those
things He has revealed concerning Himself. The most defining revelation of God is that
He loves you.
The common Greek language in which the New Testament was written uses four words
to express love. Stergein describes a love based on one’s own nature, standard equipment
for parents to love their children. We love them because they are our children, not based
on their performance or beauty. Eran describes passion and forms the basis for our word
“erotic” love. Philein describes fondness and friendship and is actually part of the name
“Philadelphia”, the city of “brotherly love”. God loves you with an altogether better love.
Agape’ describes a love that places a high value on something, causing it to become
priceless! God has made you of equal value to His Son, by paying the price of His Son
for you!
Respond to Him!
The third person mentioned in John 3:16 is God’s “only begotten son”. The Bible
states simply that He was given. Consider what it means to “give”. If something is owed
we call it a debt, not a gift. A true gift does not obligate the one who receives to any kind
of repayment. We would call that a trade. Such a gift cannot be worthless. A worthless
gift is no gift at all, but trash! Romans 5:8 explains that God demonstrated His love for
us, in that, while we were yet sinners, Christ died for us. God’s love for us places
astounding value on us by giving His Son for us. Ephesians 2:8 explains that we are
saved by God’s grace (undeserved favor), through faith.
Suppose that you had no microwave oven, and someone gave one to you. Would that gift
change the way you cook? Should not this greatest of gifts change your life? God has
removed valuable treasure from His account and deposited it into ours without any
reimbursement to himself. Jesus was called, “the Lamb of God, which takes away the
2. sins of the world.”
Philippians 2:5-8 reveals that Jesus existed in the form of God, but did not greedily hang
on to His equality with God. John 1:1 bluntly states that in the beginning was the Word,
and the Word was with God, and the Word was God. That Word, who is Jesus, made
Himself of no reputation, becoming a servant of His creatures, and even took on Himself
the likeness of men (Hebrews 2:9 –18) that He might taste death for every person and
destroy him that had the power of death and deliver from bondage those who feared
death. Jesus humbled Himself even to the tortures and death on the cross! Only a person
who had no sins of his own for which to pay could effectively pay for the sins of others
and set them free (Hebrews 7:25-28)! Does this great gift obligate you to live for God?
For God so loved the world that He gave His only begotten Son, that whosoever believes
on Him should not perish, but have everlasting life. God gave His Son. Now God waits
for you to believe on Him. Don’t make excuses! Many Christians and ministers have
failed, fallen, lied, cheated, stolen, and more. God is not asking you to trust THEM, but to
trust HIM!
The fourth identity we encounter in John 3:16 is “whosoever”. God tells us that
“whosoever believes” shall have everlasting life. In Matthew 24:14 we are told that this
good news must be preached in the entire world, showing that God wants everyone to
hear it. 2nd Peter 3:9 shows that God is patient toward us and is not willing that any
should perish, but that all should come to repentance. It is not in God’s heart to hate us or
hurt us. He sent NOT His Son to condemn the world, but that the world through Him
might be saved! An evil and unloving God would not break His own heart by
condemning His own Son with the guilt of people He seeks to rescue! All that is asked of
you is that you are persuaded and confident (believe) in Jesus. That single requirement is
explained in Romans 10:9-10, “If you confess with your mouth that Jesus is Lord, and
believe in your heart that God raised Jesus from the dead, you shall be saved. For with
the heart man believes unto righteousness (trusting God makes you righteous in God’s
sight), and with the mouth confession is made unto salvation (confession equals
commitment, as when one confesses to a crime!).
The final understanding is that God excludes no one from this everlasting life. People
may exclude themselves by their own unbelief! Hebrews 3:18-19 asks, then answers, this
question. “To whom did He swear that they should not enter into His rest, but to them
that believed not? So we see that they could not enter in because of unbelief.”
I know that many bad things happen in life, and that very often God gets blamed. After
all, if God is in charge, couldn’t He have prevented these many bad events? Few people
consider the fact that people make bad choices and that the consequences affect not only
themselves but can damage others who are miles or years distant. God, however, can
redeem for good what others meant for harm. That redemption for good begins in Jesus
redeeming us from sin. If you are among those who angrily accuses God, please consider
that He is the only one to whom you can go for help! All is lost and wasted without Him!
3. I urge you to rest yourself in the God who loves you so much as this. Call on Him in
faith.
John 3:16 – 17
For God so loved the world, that he gave his
only begotten Son, that whosoever believeth in
him should not perish, but have everlasting life.
For God sent not his Son into the world to
condemn the world; but that the world through
him might be saved.