Slide notes from HFTN webinar "How to Have Difficult Conversations," complete with some additional context, talking points, and links to other resources.
This working paper, based on the work of the Inter-Agency Working Group on Community Involvement in Adolescent Sexual and Reproductive Health, presents a framework that links community involvement interventions to desired adolescent health outcomes. The publication includes a set of social change indicators as well as several case studies that evaluate relevant programming.
Christine Washington Davis of the Christian HIV and AIDS Network of Liberia and Seventh Day Adventist Church discusses the prevalence of teenage pregnancy and HIV infection among Liberian adolescents and how her organization is addressing the challenge.
Make birth better training prejudice and pride jan smith suzanne munroeMake Birth Better
Prejudice & Pride Making it Right & Saying Sorry
Suzanne Munroe
Director & Head of Clinical Negligence- Switalskis Solicitors
Dr Jan Smith
Chartered Psychologist & Clinical Lead at Make Birth Better
This presentation will describe how early childhood home visiting programs can support the reduction of family risk factors and the strengthening of protective factors to reduce the likelihood of child abuse and neglect.
This file is for educational purposes only and is not meant for reproduction.
This working paper, based on the work of the Inter-Agency Working Group on Community Involvement in Adolescent Sexual and Reproductive Health, presents a framework that links community involvement interventions to desired adolescent health outcomes. The publication includes a set of social change indicators as well as several case studies that evaluate relevant programming.
Christine Washington Davis of the Christian HIV and AIDS Network of Liberia and Seventh Day Adventist Church discusses the prevalence of teenage pregnancy and HIV infection among Liberian adolescents and how her organization is addressing the challenge.
Make birth better training prejudice and pride jan smith suzanne munroeMake Birth Better
Prejudice & Pride Making it Right & Saying Sorry
Suzanne Munroe
Director & Head of Clinical Negligence- Switalskis Solicitors
Dr Jan Smith
Chartered Psychologist & Clinical Lead at Make Birth Better
This presentation will describe how early childhood home visiting programs can support the reduction of family risk factors and the strengthening of protective factors to reduce the likelihood of child abuse and neglect.
This file is for educational purposes only and is not meant for reproduction.
This presentation about the development of the Conversations Matter community resources was presented in Tahiti in June 2014 as part of the 6th Asia Pacific Suicide Prevention Congress.
Symposium presentation by Dr Greer Bennett, Hunter Institute of Mental Health, for the Society of Mental Health Research Conference 2016.
For more information visit www.himh.org.au
Presentation by Hunter Institute of Mental Health Projects Coordinator Ellen Newman for Thrive 2016, weaving wellness and wellbeing conference. This presentation is about mental health literacy and strategies for supporting children’s mental health and wellbeing.
Infertility can be either in male, female, or in both. Dealing with the fact that either of the partner is struggling with infertility, is a difficult task to do. Infertility counselling helps those couples to feel comfortable, accept the fact, and move on with new hope. It help intended parents to understand infertility reasons, further methods to tackle this situation, and finally to become parents.
Supporting the mental health and wellbeing of Anaesthetists. What can the workplace do? Presentation by Hunter Institute of Mental Health Director, Jaelea Skehan.
This workshop was presented at the Queensland Mining Industry Health and Safety Conference 2014 and presents progress on the Working Well Program and ways to support mental health in the workplace.
Counseling: Parental, Breavement, Family Planning, Infertility.Sandhya Kumari
Family planning counselling is the process whereby the counselor helps clients and people to make informed and voluntary choices about the number of children and the spacing of the children within their family. ... Method-specific counselling is provided once a person has chosen a specific family planning method.
This presentation about the development of the Conversations Matter community resources was presented in Tahiti in June 2014 as part of the 6th Asia Pacific Suicide Prevention Congress.
Symposium presentation by Dr Greer Bennett, Hunter Institute of Mental Health, for the Society of Mental Health Research Conference 2016.
For more information visit www.himh.org.au
Presentation by Hunter Institute of Mental Health Projects Coordinator Ellen Newman for Thrive 2016, weaving wellness and wellbeing conference. This presentation is about mental health literacy and strategies for supporting children’s mental health and wellbeing.
Infertility can be either in male, female, or in both. Dealing with the fact that either of the partner is struggling with infertility, is a difficult task to do. Infertility counselling helps those couples to feel comfortable, accept the fact, and move on with new hope. It help intended parents to understand infertility reasons, further methods to tackle this situation, and finally to become parents.
Supporting the mental health and wellbeing of Anaesthetists. What can the workplace do? Presentation by Hunter Institute of Mental Health Director, Jaelea Skehan.
This workshop was presented at the Queensland Mining Industry Health and Safety Conference 2014 and presents progress on the Working Well Program and ways to support mental health in the workplace.
Counseling: Parental, Breavement, Family Planning, Infertility.Sandhya Kumari
Family planning counselling is the process whereby the counselor helps clients and people to make informed and voluntary choices about the number of children and the spacing of the children within their family. ... Method-specific counselling is provided once a person has chosen a specific family planning method.
Know and avoid the biggest mistake in difficult conversations 181114Sonia Gill
The single biggest reason a difficult conversation fails is because we don’t clearly tell the other person what the problem is. In this webinar Sonia Gill will be sharing how you can get clear on the issue and say it so that you can create the positive change that is needed.
As businesses mature, the nature of their problems change. Gone are the days when the founders have to do everything. Teams deliver on everything from Engineering, Sales, Marketing, HR, Finance, Investor Relations, New Product Development so no one has a true picture of the organization. Running a growth business requires different people and skills to make it work. By the time a company is large, mature, profitable, cash and profit rich, the problems change again – how do you find the ‘next thing’ or stop the inevitable decline of the empire? Paul considers how you manage the conflicts that inevitably rise as businesses grow and become successful. How can you manage conflicting incentives and priorities across departments? What happens if you fall out with your founders? How can you nurture a new generation of leaders within a business that will be capable of taking the business to the next level? How can you re-energise an organisation that is running efficiently in order that you don’t miss out on the next wave of growth? Paul will share practical insights into how you manage the often difficult conversations that such change requires.
Difficult Conversations is based on the book Difficult Conversation and is a methodology of how to engage anyone successfully through a difficult conversation. It is a method I work with in instructing clients how to work with those that they have typically been challenged with. It works as well in your personal life as it does your work life.
These are the slides from a workshop I am running, it definitely doesn't quite translate to self paced online, but you get an idea of some of the stuff. Please provide comments if you have any feedback!
How to have successful dialogue when stakes are high, opinions vary, and emotions run strong. Whether it's with a friend, a co-worker, or a loved one, how can you be 100% honest and yet 100% respectful?
Good family engagement in NHS death investigations George Julian
Some thoughts and evidence about good family engagement in NHS death investigations - questions for reflection, what families experience, what good looks like and some practical ideas for improvement
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The history of Eastern painting is as old as the civilization of China. It is historically comparable to Western painting. Eastern countries continued to influence each other’s production of arts over the centuries.
The "Fetal Assault Law" is Done: Resources for Treatment ProvidersDana Asbury
In July 2016, Tennessee's "Fetal Assault Law" officially ended. This short resource provides context and explanation for how the law harmed pregnant people and families, a short outline regarding current challenges in treating pregnant individuals and supporting their families, and some recommendations for future action from the Tennessee Association of Alcohol, Drug, and Other Addiction Services (TAADAS).
The "Fetal Assault Law" is Done: Resources for LawyersDana Asbury
Tennessee's "Fetal Assault Law" (Public Chapter 820) has sunset and is no longer law. Pregnant people can no longer be prosecuted or held under these charges. This brief introductory resource explains how the law harmed pregnant people, babies, and families and provides information for defense attorneys in need of pro bono counsel.
A resource list of individuals and organizations to explore that understand art as a powerful way to push for positive change. Just a few to get our wheels turning.
Pregnancy, Drug Use, and The Law Report and RecommendationsDana Asbury
In October of 2015, more than 250 participants from around the country came together in Nashville, TN for a series of events looking at the legal and medical responses to pregnant women and drug use. Today, we are releasing a report examining pregnancy and drug use and providing a comprehensive set of recommendations in a range of areas including state medical protocols, health coverage and the licensing of treatment facilities.
Welcome to “Pregnancy, Drug Use, and the Law”, a one day public policy conference examining Tennessee law as it relates to pregnant women and new mothers, people who use and are sometimes dependent on drugs, and how we can create fair and effective policies that will support all Tennessee women and families.
Statement on the National HIV/AIDS Strategy for the United StatesDana Asbury
The National HIV/AIDS Strategy for the United States: Updated to 2020 (“NHAS 2020”) is a critically important and compelling review of the status of our nation’s response to the HIV epidemic in America and an action plan for the continuing fight.
From Stress to Success How Oakland's Corporate Wellness Programs are Cultivat...Kitchen on Fire
Discover how Oakland's innovative corporate wellness initiatives are transforming workplace culture, nurturing the well-being of employees, and fostering a thriving environment. From comprehensive mental health support to flexible work arrangements and holistic wellness workshops, these programs are empowering individuals to navigate stress effectively, leading to increased productivity, satisfaction, and overall success.
Is your favorite ring slipping and sliding on your finger? You're not alone. Must Read this Guide on What To Do If Your Ring Is Too Big as shared by the experts of Andrews Jewelers.
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The above-discussed factors are the reason behind an increasing number of millennials opting for candle making events to celebrate their bachelorette. If you are in search of any theme for your bachelorette then do opt for a candle making session to make your celebration memorable for everyone involved.
Johnny Depp Long Hair: A Signature Look Through the Yearsgreendigital
Johnny Depp, synonymous with eclectic roles and unparalleled acting prowess. has also been a significant figure in fashion and style. Johnny Depp long hair is a distinctive trademark among the various elements that define his unique persona. This article delves into the evolution, impact. and cultural significance of Johnny Depp long hair. exploring how it has contributed to his iconic status.
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Introduction
Johnny Depp is an actor known for his chameleon-like ability to transform into a wide range of characters. from the eccentric Captain Jack Sparrow in "Pirates of the Caribbean" to the introspective Edward Scissorhands. His long hair is one constant throughout his evolving roles and public appearances. Johnny Depp long hair is not a style choice but a significant aspect of his identity. contributing to his allure and mystique. This article explores the journey and significance of Johnny Depp long hair. highlighting how it has become integral to his brand.
The Early Years: A Budding Star with Signature Locks
1980s: The Rise of a Young Heartthrob
Johnny Depp's journey in Hollywood began in the 1980s. with his breakout role in the television series "21 Jump Street." During this time, his hair was short, but it was already clear that Depp had a penchant for unique and edgy styles. By the decade's end, Depp started experimenting with longer hair. setting the stage for a lifelong signature.
1990s: From Heartthrob to Icon
The 1990s were transformative for Johnny Depp his career and personal style. Films like "Edward Scissorhands" (1990) and "Benny & Joon" (1993) saw Depp sporting various hair lengths and styles. But, his long, unkempt hair in "What's Eating Gilbert Grape" (1993) began to draw significant attention. This period marked the beginning of Johnny Depp long hair. which became a defining feature of his image.
The Iconic Roles: Hair as a Character Element
Edward Scissorhands (1990)
In "Edward Scissorhands," Johnny Depp's character had a wild and mane that complemented his ethereal and misunderstood persona. This role showcased how long hair Johnny Depp could enhance a character's depth and mystery.
Captain Jack Sparrow: The Pirate with Flowing Locks
One of Johnny Depp's iconic roles is Captain Jack Sparrow from the "Pirates of the Caribbean" series. Sparrow's long, dreadlocked hair symbolised his rebellious and unpredictable nature. The character's look, complete with beads and trinkets woven into his hair. was a collaboration between Depp and the film's costume designers. This style became iconic and influenced fashion trends and Halloween costumes worldwide.
Other Memorable Characters
Depp's long hair has also been featured in other roles, such as Ichabod Crane in "Sleepy Hollow" (1999). and Roux in "Chocolat" (2000). In these films, his hair added a layer of authenticity and depth to his characters. proving that Johnny Depp with long hair is more than a style—it's a storytelling tool.
Off-Screen Influenc
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3. Looking at the Issues &
Tips for Talking About Them
Morgan Meneses-Sheets
Communications and Messaging Strategist
and consultant with Healthy and Free TN
4. Politics and Religion
• Tips for family and friends, our everyday lives and activist work.
• We don’t have to avoid talking about things we care about.
5. So what are we working on?
• Leading the campaign to get rid of the pregnancy criminalization law.
• Modernizing laws dealing with HIV status or that criminalize people
living with HIV or AIDS.
• Opposing limits on abortion access.
• Working in collaboration to build support for comprehensive sex
education.
AND: paid leave, Pregnant Worker Fairness Act, non-discrimination protections
6. Pregnancy Criminalization
• Women are being forced into the criminal justice system simply because they have no other
option. There are not enough programs that are willing or able to treat pregnant women.
• Policies that use fear and coercion to push people to seek treatment go against the
recommendations of health professionals who have worked with women in recovery.
• We should not put our criminal justice system in the position of creating health policy.
• This law does not help women who live in communities where it is difficult and expensive to
seek rehabilitation.
• The cost of treatment is just a fraction of the cost of jailing someone.
• We should urge our decision makers to focus on expanding access to effective treatment
options instead of separating families and jailing mothers.
7. Modernizing Laws Dealing with HIV Status
• Tennessee is has one of the highest rates of new HIV/AIDS diagnoses. We need to focus on
ensuring people have access to the health care and support that they need.
• We need to look at how to make drug protocols more manageable, affordable and ensure that
programs aimed at prevention are not meeting the needs or connecting with many marginalized
communities.
• Tennessee has criminal laws that punish people for exposing another person to HIV, even in the
absence of actual HIV transmission or even a risk that transmission could occur.
• We must eliminate stigma and create strong, integrated health systems to ensure that people living
with and those who are vulnerable to HIV infection receive high quality services for sexual and
reproductive health.
• People affected by HIV and AIDS should also be included in the creation of medical standards,
protocols and public policies related to their health and their lives.
8. Oppose Restrictions on Abortion
• Decisions about pregnancy, relationships, parenting and abortion are personal. It is not our place
to make these decisions for someone else.
• When medically unnecessary restrictions or false accusations result in health centers not being able
to provide services it has a harmful impact on women and families in our state.
• Whether a person chooses adoption, seeks abortion or is ready to become a parent they need to
have access to affordable health services.
• We should make sure that people can access contraception to plan their families and seek abortion
when they need to, as well as advancing policies that help people to become parents and raise their
children
• Abortion is a well-regulated procedure with well established, evidence-based guidelines for care.
Pushing medically unnecessary restrictions on services has nothing to do with safety.
• We know that low-income women, immigrant women, young people and women of color are hit
hardest by the limitations on abortion.
• Some politicians don’t want abortion to be available, so they make erroneous claims about its
safety in order to push for laws that are specifically designed to make care more expensive for
individuals and to make it harder for health professionals to provide services.
9. Comprehensive Health and Sexuality Education in TN Schools
• We believe that all Tennesseans, including and especially young people, should have access
to accurate and complete information about sexual and reproductive health.
• Providing age-appropriate, medically accurate information helps young people manage their
sexual health and prevent unintended pregnancy.
• The evidence shows that comprehensive sex education programs are highly effective, but
Tennessee legislators insist on mandating abstinence-only education.
• Programs that do not provide comprehensive information to young people in order to
support healthy decision making is out of step with national standards.
• We should make sure that young people have the information they need to make the best
choices possible for their health and their relationships.
10. We are proud to work in partnership on a myriad of other issues.
Find out more about the Pregnant Workers’ Fairness Act and the efforts to advance paid leave in
Tennessee by visiting A Better Balance who is leading the efforts.
The Tennessee Equality Project (TEP) and the Tennessee Transgender Political Coalition (TTPC)
are working to advance anti-discrimination protections based on sexual orientation and
gender identity and advance programs and policies to support lesbian, gay, bisexual and
transgender Tennesseans.
11. Telling the larger story.
• We are working to ensure every Tennessean has access to the health care they
need.
• We are committed to meeting the needs of women and families.
• We are working to protect reproductive freedom and the ability for each person
to make their own decisions about pregnancy, parenting and abortion.
• We are urging lawmakers to advance forward thinking policies to address the
serious issues facing our state.
12. Don’t assume it will be a divisive debate.
• Sometimes people just don’t have the information or have never talked to
anyone about these kinds of issues. Ignorance can be mean spirited, but
sometimes it just means a lack of exposure to information or other people.
• How we approach a conversation makes a different in how people respond
and how open they are to listening. If we assume that people will argue with
us or approach with our guard up, that makes a difference.
13. Even if we disagree…
We can all agree..
Some people may be conflicted..
There is a lot of confusion..
I know people are concerned/understand people are..
I hear that you have strong feelings…
I respect that we have different opinions…
Neutralizing Difficulty --- or at least helping to ease conflict
14. • Even if we disagree with the decision to seek abortion, it is important that people have
access to the health care they need to protect their health.
• We can all agree that if someone is struggling with a health problem that they need
support and access to health care, not judgment and certainly not jail.
• There is a lot of confusion about neonatal abstinence syndrome and there are a lot of
myths.
• I hear that you have strong feelings about pregnancy and abortion.
• I respect that we have different opinions about abortion and that we both feel strongly.
• Some people are uncomfortable about drug use during pregnancy, but we have to put
judgment aside and support women and families by pushing for access to treatment.
15. Words Matter
• Educate – Share information.
• Connect – Help people understand why the issue(s) matter.
• Shift – Shape the tone of the discussion.
16. • Stick to values. Don’t jump to statistics. Talk about what the
issues mean to you and what they are really about.
• You do not have to prove you are the smartest person in the
room by using acronyms or too many wonky details).
• Avoid right/wrong wording that makes people feel like they
have to be with you or against you.
• Don’t imply people who disagree with your opinion or belief
are awful or uncaring.
17. Make it personal – for you.
• You and I, we, us, a person, a family
• I believe, what I know, what I feel
• For me the point is, what I try to remember is, what people may
not know
20. Faith and Religion
• The work that we are doing is based in values and has moral value.
• The challenge is how to engage at these intersections of beliefs, opinions,
emotions and at times agendas.
21. Tips on Conversations
for Long-Term Change
Assembled by Rev.
Rob Keithan
Faith Organizing and Training Consultant
23. Believe in the Process
•Slow does not mean unimportant
•Slow does not mean ineffective
These conversations are a critical part of
social change!
24. A Different Attitude
•Take a step back from anger and urgency
•Cultivate patience
•Think of it as an emotional/spiritual
discipline—it requires intention and hard
work
25. How To Get There
1. Show Respect
2. Learn
3. Express your own views well
28. 3. Express Your Own Views Well
• Body Language
• Tone
• Speak for yourself
• Emphasize the why
• Be concise
29. Defining Success:
It’s about what YOU do.
1. Show Respect
2.Learn
3.Express Your Own Views Well
Listen + Body Language + Tone + Ask good questions + Be curious,
not furious + Speak for yourself + Emphasize the why + Be concise
30. When Needed: Assert Yourself
If your conversation partner(s) are not
showing you sufficient respect, gently and
firmly ask for it.
Ex: “Uncle Joe, I listened to you, so could you
please listen to me?”
31. Remember
•These conversations as a critical part of
social change!
•Think of it as an emotional/spiritual
discipline—it requires intention and hard
work
32. Reflection Questions
• Which of these approaches will be easiest for you,
and why?
• Which will be hardest and why?
• What do you need to do to cultivate patience?
• Does any of this guidance not fit in your cultural
context?
33. • Be easy on yourself
• Be patient
• Have love
• Have fun
• Good luck!
Closing Thoughts from Rob
35. Wrapping Up – Allison
• What’s next?
• Announcements and opportunities to get involved.
36. Stay in Touch. Keep the conversation going..
Rob Keithan
robkeithan@gmail.com
Morgan Meneses-Sheets
morgan@steadfaststrategies.com
Allison Glass
allison@healthyandfreetn.org
