Harmony in family

Harmony in the Family By: Priya Jaidka

Basic Human Aspiration = Happiness, Prosperity and its Continuity Program = To Understanding Harmony To Live in “ 1. Harmony in the Human Being 2. Harmony in the Family 3. Harmony in the Society 4. Harmony in Nature / Existence At all 4 Levels

Program RELATIONSHIPS (with human beings) PHYSICAL FACILITIES (with rest of nature) RIGHT UNDERSTANDING (in the self) MUTUAL HAPPINESS MUTUAL PROSPERITY 3 2 Human Conciousness Animal Conciousness 1

Harmony in the Family ,[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],1- Trust 2- Respect 3- Affection 4- Care 5- Guidance 6- Reverence 7- Glory 8- Gratitude 9- Love

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Trust ,[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object]

[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],Trust Intention – Natural Acceptance What I really want to be Competence What I am √ ? ? ? ?? ? √ √

[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],Trust ,[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],Natural Acceptance, ie Intention What we really want to be Competence What we are √ ? ? ? ?? ? √ √ Why this much difference? Is the other not like me? Observe that 3a & 4a are but a reflection of 1a & 2a. The other is a reflection of me

[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],Trust Natural Acceptance, ie Intention What we really want to be Competence What we are √ ? ? ? ?? ? √ √ I evaluate my self on my intention (2a) I consider myself to be good because I have good intention When I lack competence, I want to develop my competence. I expect the other will understand this, and help me… with affection

[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],Trust Natural Acceptance, ie Intention What we really want to be Competence What we are √ ? ? ? ?? ? √ √ I evaluate the other on his competence (4b) Since the other does lack competence, I assume the other does not have the intention – I doubt his intention (4a) I conclude the other is bad Irritation, anger, condemning the other are indications of doubt on intention Doubt on intention is a major reason for problems in relationships

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[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],Opposition Trust

[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],Reaction Response

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Feelings (or Expectation of Feelings) in Relationships ,[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object]

Respect ,[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],Disrespect

Differentiation (Disrespect) ,[object Object],[object Object],Body Physical Facilities Beliefs Gender Age Post Wealth Isms Physical Strength Race Sects Differentiation = Disrespect

Respect : Right Evaluation – on the basis of the Self (I) ,[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object]

[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],Differentiation Respect

The feeling of being related ,[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],Affection Love

The feeling of being related ,[object Object],[object Object]

The feeling of being related ,[object Object],[object Object],[object Object]

[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],Excellence at all 4 levels

[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],Excellence at all 4 levels

[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],Harmony in Family – From Family to World Family (Undivided Society) 1. Relationship is – between the self (I) and the other self (I) 2. There are feelings, or expectation of feelings, in relationship – of one self (I) for the other self (I) 3. These feelings can be recognized – they are definite 4. Their fulfillment and evaluation leads to mutual happiness 1 - Trust  FOUNDATION VALUE 2- Respect 3 - Affection 4 - Care 5 - Guidance 6 - Reverence 7 - Glory 8 - Gratitude — 9 - Love  COMPLETE VALUE

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