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From good to great
The document discusses developing emotional intelligence (EQ) through maintaining a positive attitude and adjusting your behavior based on how others respond. It provides tips for improving EQ, such as active listening, never giving up, communicating effectively, showing empathy, setting priorities, thinking positively, forgiving others, embracing differences, smiling often, and learning to live in the present moment. Developing high EQ is important as research shows it is a better predictor of life and career success than IQ alone.
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- 1. { From Good To Great Be Positive and Develop your EQ
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- 5. ATTITUDE 1)is an internal characteristic that influences both how you see things and how you react to events. It plays a major role in determining both your actions and the reactions you get from others. 2) Person point of view towards something. Belief: is a person opinion about something.
- 6. SO AS YOU GIVE AS YOU GET
- 7. If you are aggressive If you are arrogant If you are nervous People become defensive People will get annoyed people will take advantage.
- 8. If you are friendly If you are enthusiastic If you are positive people will respond accordingly people will share in your enthusiasm people will be positive in return.
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- 11. If You Are Positive You Become Emotionally Intelligent In Return
- 12. 12 Do you know? People with higher levels of Emotional intelligence...... • Make beBer and faster decisions.
- 13. 13 • Are generally more effective in their roles. • And are less likely to be derailed in their careers.
- 14. 14 The analysis revealed, People with strong EQ were more likely to succeed than those who were strongest in IQ.
- 15. IQ v/s EQ |15 GETS YOU HIRED THE PROFESSIONAL SUCCESS Th e im ag e The image cannot be displayed. Your computer may not have enough memory to open the image, or the image may have been corrupted. Restart your computer, and then open the file again. If the red x still appears, The image cannot be displayed. Your computer may not The image cannot be displayed. Your computer may not have enough memory to open the image, or the image may have GETS YOU FIRED/ PROMTED
- 16. IQ v/s EQ Theresearch shows that IQ can help you to be successful to the extent of 20 percent only in life. The rest of 80 percent success depends on your EQ. | 16 80% EQ 20% IQ
- 17. “Anyone can beangry—that is easy. But to be angry with the right person, to the right degree, at the right time, for the right purpose, and in the right way — that is not easy.” | 17
- 18. What Does EQ mean ?
- 19. Emotional intelligence Emotional Intelligenceis the ability of an individual to deal successfully with other people , to motivate other people, understand their own feelings and appropriately respond to the everyday environment . | 19
- 20. 20 Doesn't mean beingsoft – it means being intelligent about emotions – a different way of being smart. Ability to acquire and apply knowledge from your emotions and the emotions of others. Emotional intelligence
- 21. Characteristics of aHigh EQ Person Ñ A time to wait and a time to watch, Ñ A time to be aggressive and a time to be passive, Ñ A time to be together and a time to be alone, Ñ A time to fight and a time to love, Ñ A time to work and a time to play, Ñ A time to cry and a time to laugh, Ñ A time to speak and a time to be silent, Ñ A time to be patient and a time to decide. | 21
- 22. Characteristics of alow EQ Person “If only I had a different job … …” “If only I had finished graduation … …” “If only I had been handsome/beautiful …” “If only my spouse had stopped drinking …” “If only I had been born rich and famous…” “If only I had good contacts…” “If only I had better friends …” “If only I had married someone else …” | 22
- 23. CAN EQ BEDEVELOPED? YES. You can develop your EQ by upgrading your emotional skills. The popular thinking that EQ is entirely inherited is incorrect. There is no emotional intelligence genes as such . It is something you Learn. | 23
- 24. 11 Steps To Develop Your EQ
- 25. LEARN TO LISTEN! is a structured form of listening and responding that focuses the attention on the speaker. The listener must take care to attend to the speaker fully, and then repeats, in the listener-s own words, what he or she thinks the speaker has said. The listener does not have to agree with the speaker--he or she must simply state what they think the speaker said. This enables the speaker to find out whether the listener really understood. If the listener did not, the speaker can explain some more. # 1
- 26. Membaca situasi Dengan memperhatikanlingkungan sekitar, kita akan mampu mengetahui situasi sebenarnya dan mengetahui apa yang sebenarnya terjadi sehingga mampu mengambil keputusan dengan emosi yang terkendali. “Life is change. Growth is optional. Choose wisely” # 2
- 27. NEVER GIVE UP! "Our greatest glory is not in never failing, but in rising up every time we fail". - Ralph Waldo Emerson - # 3
- 28. komunikasi Ñ Komunikasi à jalankeluar untuk menyelesaikan masalah Dengan membiasakan mengkomunikasikan masalah dengan baik, dapat meningkatkan kecerdasan emosi dan menghindarikan dari kesalah pahaman yang tidak penting Be honest with yourself and the way you act when you hear music. That way, when people watch, they'ʹll see something from your heart and soul, and as a result will communicate your feeling and thought much be?er. -‐‑ Billy Sheehan -‐‑ # 4
- 29. Emphaty to Others Abilitywith many different definitions. They cover a broad spectrum, ranging from caring for other people and having a desire to help them, to experiencing emotions that match another person's emotions, to knowing what the other person is thinking or feeling, to blurring the line between self and other. Hodges, S.D., & Klein, K.J. (2001) # 5
- 30. # 6 SettingPriorities
- 31. Berpikiran positif # 7 “Givethe world the best that you have, and the best will come back to you.” - Madeline Bridges
- 32. Forgiveness # 8 The weak can never forgive. Forgiveness is the a45ibute of the st5ong. -‐ Gandhi
- 33. Living in Different #9 Stephen Covey “St$eng(h lies in differences, not in similarities.”
- 34. Keep Smile # 10 If at times you feel you want to cry, And life seems such a trial; Above the clouds there'ʹs a bright blue sky, So make your tears a smile. As you travel on life'ʹs way, With its many ups and downs; Remember its quite true to say, One smile is worth a dozen frowns. Among the world'ʹs expensive things, A smile is very cheap; And when you give a smile away, You get one back to keep. Happiness comes at times to all, But sadness comes unbidden; And sometimes a few tears must fall, Among the laughter hidden. So when friends have sadness on their face, And troubles round them piled; The world will seem a be?er place, And all because you smiled! ~ Author Unknown ~
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