SlideShare a Scribd company logo
THE ULTIMATE
SECRETS OF TOTAL
SELF- CONFIDENCE

          By
  DR. ROBERT ANTHONY
• You can’t change the world, but
  you can change yourself.
• “ We know what we are, but not
  what we may be.” W. Shakespeare




21 Days
Secret #1
 DEHYPNOTIZING
 YOURSELF
• WE ARE LIMITED BY
  OUR “MISTAKEN
  CERTAINTIES”
• “Once a person
  believes that
  something is true,
  (whether it is true
  or not) he then acts
  as if it were.”
Secret #2

• DEVELOPING SELF-RELIANCE
• RECOGNIZING AND BREAKING THE
  DEPENDENCY HABIT
• OVERCOMING THE NEED TO
  MANIPULATE
• LEARNING THAT COMPARISON
  BREEDS FEAR
• FREEING YOURSELF FROM OTHERS
Secret #3
THE ART OF SELF-
ACCEPTANCE
• Positive self-esteem
THE MOST COMMON
CHARACTERISTICS OF
LOW SELF-ESTEEM
Emotional  Physical                        Psychological
Aggressive, False      Sloppy              Anxious, Dislikes,
laughter, Boasting,    Appearance,         hates, rejects
Impatient, Tries to    Wilted handshake,   himself. Needs to be
be“better than                             liked and accepted
                       Lackluster eyes,
Others. Competitive,                       by everyone.
Arrogant, People       Grossly             Unsure.Thinks he is a
Pleaser, Name          Overweight,         loser. Ridden with
Dropper, Critical,     Turned down         shame, guilt , blame.
Rebels against         Mouth, Tense and    Needs approval. Must
Authority,                                 be “right” all the
Perfectionist,         Nervous, Weak
                                           time. Needs to win.
Domineering,           voice, Can’t look
                                           Need for money,
Dominates              others in the       prestige, and power.
Conversation, Cannot   eye.                Does what others
admit, Mistakes,                           want him to do. Lives
Drinker, Smoker,                           through his children,
Talker.                                    TV or hero worship.
Secret #4
YOUR
AWARENESS


• YOU ALWAYS DO YOUR
  BEST
• DO NOT VALUE-JUDGE
• UNDERSTAND YOUR
  MOTIVATION
• TAKE RESPONSIBILITY
WISE OR UNWISE?

• Is this a wise or an unwise act?
• Will it contribute to my basic needs?
• Will it harm me or someone else?
• What is the total price I must pay?
• Is it in harmony with Laws of the
  Universe, as I understand them?
• Am I willing and able to pay this
  price and accept the consequences?
POSITIVE HABIT
CONDITIONING PROGRAM

• YOU CANNOT GIVE UP
  ANYTHING YOU REGARD AS
  DESIRABLE
Secret #5
I’M NOT GUILTY,
YOU’RE NOT GUILTY
THE SEVEN MAJOR FORMS OF
  GUILT:
1)PARENT – CHILD GUILT
2)CHILD-PARENT GUILT
3)GUILT THROUGH LOVE
4)SOCIETY-INSPIRED GUILT
5)SEXUAL GUILT
6)RELIGIOUS GUILT
7)SELF-IMPOSED GUILT

• REMEMBER:
~GUILT ALWAYS BRINGS
  PUNISHMENT
~YOU ARE NOT YOUR ACTIONS
MAKE A GUILT DIARY
Secret #6
THE POSITIVE POWER
OF LOVE
• STOP LOOKING
  FOR OTHERS TO
  LOVE YOU
• REMAIN CALM
  AND LOVE
  REGARDLESS OF
  THE
  CIRCUMSTANCES
Secret # 7
MIND - YOUR OWN
BUSINESS
• THE LAW OF MENTAL MAGENTISM




                    •MIND



SUPERCONSCIOUS               SUBCONSCIOUS
                 CONSCIOUS
Secret #8
THE GOLDEN KEY
OF CREATIVE IMAGATION

• IMAGINATION
  CONTROLS THE
  WORLD
• THE CORRECT
  THINKING PROCESS:
1. Go to the
  Superconscious Mind for
  inner guidance.
2. Use the conscious mind
  to program this
  information into the
  subconscious.
3. Command the
  subconscious to carry
  out this information.
HOW TO PROGRAM
 YOUR GENIE

1. VERBALIZING
2. FEELING AND EMOTION
3. VISUALIZATION
Secret #9
CHOOSING YOUR
DESTINATION

• GIVE YOURSELF A FIVE-
  YEAR PLAN FOR
  GROWTH
• START WHERE YOU ARE
• TRUST YOUR INTUITION
• RESPOND TO LIFE WITH
  ACTION
• THE SECRECY
  PRINCIPLE
Look forward to the future with
expectations, and then act
enthusiastic.

• THE LAW OF
  EXPECTANCY
“What you expect, that you
  shall find.” Aristotle.

• ENTHUSIASM - God in
  You.
(Greek, ‘en’ meaning ‘in’
  and ‘theos’ meaning
  ‘God’)
Secret #10
YOU DESERVE A BREAK
TODAY
MEDITATION:
(1) Relax and let go.
(2) Reach out and
  listen.
(3) Visualize.


Finally, mentally
  give thanks that
  it is so.
Secret #11
 THE TIME OF YOUR
 LIFE
• Write down the
  six most
  important
  things you want
  to do the next
  day.
• Do the most
  unpleasant
  assignments and
  activities first.
Secret #12
OVERCOMING FEAR AND
WORRY
• DO NOT REHEARSE,
  YOUR FAILURES
• CHANGE COMES
  WITH BEING
  DIFFERENT
Secret #13
MOVE AHEAD THROUGH POSITIVE
COMMUNICATIONS
•   LISTEN
•   TAKE AN INTERST IN OTHER
    PEOPLE
•   HOLD ONLY POSITIVE
    CONVERVATIONS
•   USE PLAIN LANGUAGE
•   LET THE OTHER PERSON
    KNOW THEY ARE IMPRESSING
    YOU GIVE SINCERE
    RECOGNITION
•   WAIT UNTIL THE
    CONVERSATION GETS
    AROUND TO YOU
•   BE ON TIME FOR
    APPOINTMENTS
•   REMEMBER PEOPLE’S NAMES
•   What you are speak so loudly, I
    cannot hear what you are saying. -
    Ralph Waldo Emerson
Secret #14
ACHIEVING TOTAL SELF-
CONFIDENCE THROUGH A POSITIVE
MENTAL ATTITUDE

• POSITIVE
  STATEMENTS
  RELEASE CREATIVE
  POWER
• CONCENTRATE ON
  WHAT’S RIGHT WITH
  YOU
• MOVE AHEAD WITH
  AFFIRMATIVE
  THOUGHTS
THE NEW YOU
As you apply the principles in this book, a
  successful NEW YOU will emerge

More Related Content

What's hot

Non violent communication
Non violent communicationNon violent communication
Non violent communication
Pratiksha Rai
 
20 habits for growth
20 habits for growth 20 habits for growth
20 habits for growth
Jyotiprasanna Panigrahi
 
Jealousy and Envy
Jealousy and EnvyJealousy and Envy
Jealousy and Envy
Jasmin Cruz
 
Making the talk to convince
Making the talk to convinceMaking the talk to convince
Making the talk to convince
Annie Ramos Alpanta
 
Effective Communication Skills
Effective Communication SkillsEffective Communication Skills
Effective Communication Skills
Hj Mohamad Idrakisyah
 
11 surprising habits of truly powerful people
11 surprising habits of truly powerful people11 surprising habits of truly powerful people
11 surprising habits of truly powerful people
Sandeep Gupta
 
The Big Leap Book Exploration by Laurie Hawkins
The Big Leap Book Exploration by Laurie HawkinsThe Big Leap Book Exploration by Laurie Hawkins
The Big Leap Book Exploration by Laurie Hawkins
Laurie Hawkins
 
Spiritual Warfare 9
Spiritual Warfare 9Spiritual Warfare 9
Spiritual Warfare 9
Jamey Baird
 
How to win friends & influence people
How to win friends & influence peopleHow to win friends & influence people
How to win friends & influence people
Aditya Todi
 
Me, myself and I
Me, myself and IMe, myself and I
Me, myself and IJoão Lima
 
He had such quite eyes revision - meanings
He  had such quite eyes  revision - meaningsHe  had such quite eyes  revision - meanings
He had such quite eyes revision - meanings
Nuurunnuha Md Hatta
 
The Loving Well Series; Part Two -Loving When in Conflict
The Loving Well Series; Part Two -Loving When in ConflictThe Loving Well Series; Part Two -Loving When in Conflict
The Loving Well Series; Part Two -Loving When in Conflict
Abundant Life Fellowship
 
Cognitive bias in code
Cognitive bias in codeCognitive bias in code
Cognitive bias in code
William Jeffries
 
Putting the NIP in maNIPulation
Putting the NIP in maNIPulationPutting the NIP in maNIPulation
Putting the NIP in maNIPulationJody Bryant
 
The four components of nonviolent communication
The four components of nonviolent communicationThe four components of nonviolent communication
The four components of nonviolent communicationNonviolent Communication
 

What's hot (20)

Non violent communication
Non violent communicationNon violent communication
Non violent communication
 
Think the best
Think the bestThink the best
Think the best
 
Good and evil
Good and evilGood and evil
Good and evil
 
20 habits for growth
20 habits for growth 20 habits for growth
20 habits for growth
 
Jealousy and Envy
Jealousy and EnvyJealousy and Envy
Jealousy and Envy
 
Making the talk to convince
Making the talk to convinceMaking the talk to convince
Making the talk to convince
 
Effective Communication Skills
Effective Communication SkillsEffective Communication Skills
Effective Communication Skills
 
11 surprising habits of truly powerful people
11 surprising habits of truly powerful people11 surprising habits of truly powerful people
11 surprising habits of truly powerful people
 
The Big Leap Book Exploration by Laurie Hawkins
The Big Leap Book Exploration by Laurie HawkinsThe Big Leap Book Exploration by Laurie Hawkins
The Big Leap Book Exploration by Laurie Hawkins
 
Spiritual Warfare 9
Spiritual Warfare 9Spiritual Warfare 9
Spiritual Warfare 9
 
How to win friends & influence people
How to win friends & influence peopleHow to win friends & influence people
How to win friends & influence people
 
From good to great
From good to great From good to great
From good to great
 
Fear of Man
Fear of ManFear of Man
Fear of Man
 
Personality types at work
Personality types at workPersonality types at work
Personality types at work
 
Me, myself and I
Me, myself and IMe, myself and I
Me, myself and I
 
He had such quite eyes revision - meanings
He  had such quite eyes  revision - meaningsHe  had such quite eyes  revision - meanings
He had such quite eyes revision - meanings
 
The Loving Well Series; Part Two -Loving When in Conflict
The Loving Well Series; Part Two -Loving When in ConflictThe Loving Well Series; Part Two -Loving When in Conflict
The Loving Well Series; Part Two -Loving When in Conflict
 
Cognitive bias in code
Cognitive bias in codeCognitive bias in code
Cognitive bias in code
 
Putting the NIP in maNIPulation
Putting the NIP in maNIPulationPutting the NIP in maNIPulation
Putting the NIP in maNIPulation
 
The four components of nonviolent communication
The four components of nonviolent communicationThe four components of nonviolent communication
The four components of nonviolent communication
 

Viewers also liked

EFC - Oz Leadership in Current Times1
EFC - Oz Leadership in Current  Times1EFC - Oz Leadership in Current  Times1
EFC - Oz Leadership in Current Times1SKYLINEEFC
 
Efc fear the ultimate sin!x
Efc   fear the ultimate sin!xEfc   fear the ultimate sin!x
Efc fear the ultimate sin!xSKYLINEEFC
 
EFC - Oz Leadership In Current Times 2
EFC - Oz Leadership In Current Times 2EFC - Oz Leadership In Current Times 2
EFC - Oz Leadership In Current Times 2SKYLINEEFC
 
EFC - The Importance of Aggressive Perceptions to Success in Life and Business
EFC - The Importance of Aggressive Perceptions to Success in Life and BusinessEFC - The Importance of Aggressive Perceptions to Success in Life and Business
EFC - The Importance of Aggressive Perceptions to Success in Life and BusinessSKYLINEEFC
 
Efc fear the ultimate sin!x
Efc   fear the ultimate sin!xEfc   fear the ultimate sin!x
Efc fear the ultimate sin!xSKYLINEEFC
 
Benefits and Challenges of Using Open Educational Resources
Benefits and Challenges of Using Open Educational ResourcesBenefits and Challenges of Using Open Educational Resources
Benefits and Challenges of Using Open Educational Resourceskcanales
 

Viewers also liked (6)

EFC - Oz Leadership in Current Times1
EFC - Oz Leadership in Current  Times1EFC - Oz Leadership in Current  Times1
EFC - Oz Leadership in Current Times1
 
Efc fear the ultimate sin!x
Efc   fear the ultimate sin!xEfc   fear the ultimate sin!x
Efc fear the ultimate sin!x
 
EFC - Oz Leadership In Current Times 2
EFC - Oz Leadership In Current Times 2EFC - Oz Leadership In Current Times 2
EFC - Oz Leadership In Current Times 2
 
EFC - The Importance of Aggressive Perceptions to Success in Life and Business
EFC - The Importance of Aggressive Perceptions to Success in Life and BusinessEFC - The Importance of Aggressive Perceptions to Success in Life and Business
EFC - The Importance of Aggressive Perceptions to Success in Life and Business
 
Efc fear the ultimate sin!x
Efc   fear the ultimate sin!xEfc   fear the ultimate sin!x
Efc fear the ultimate sin!x
 
Benefits and Challenges of Using Open Educational Resources
Benefits and Challenges of Using Open Educational ResourcesBenefits and Challenges of Using Open Educational Resources
Benefits and Challenges of Using Open Educational Resources
 

Similar to The ultimate

Identitycharacteremotions1 110203095626-phpapp01
Identitycharacteremotions1 110203095626-phpapp01Identitycharacteremotions1 110203095626-phpapp01
Identitycharacteremotions1 110203095626-phpapp01kdcsdross
 
Teachers as guidance counselors
Teachers as guidance counselorsTeachers as guidance counselors
Teachers as guidance counselorsRolando Malafu
 
Working and learning well with each other moving to lateral kindness cnur 305...
Working and learning well with each other moving to lateral kindness cnur 305...Working and learning well with each other moving to lateral kindness cnur 305...
Working and learning well with each other moving to lateral kindness cnur 305...
griehl
 
Guidance PPT.pdf
Guidance PPT.pdfGuidance PPT.pdf
Guidance PPT.pdf
HananeelJayCabiling
 
Crucial conversations: Talking when stakes are high
Crucial conversations: Talking when stakes are highCrucial conversations: Talking when stakes are high
Crucial conversations: Talking when stakes are high
PeopleWiz Consulting
 
How to Win Friends & Influence People – Part 3 & 4
How to Win Friends & Influence People – Part 3 & 4How to Win Friends & Influence People – Part 3 & 4
How to Win Friends & Influence People – Part 3 & 4
Asad Ali
 
Dealing with difficult people
Dealing with difficult people Dealing with difficult people
Dealing with difficult people
Evelyn Neale
 
Temperaments power point marriage love language
Temperaments power point marriage love languageTemperaments power point marriage love language
Temperaments power point marriage love language
Unicep Centro Universitário
 
DV section 5.pptx
DV section 5.pptxDV section 5.pptx
DV section 5.pptx
MirzaArslaan
 
Assertiveness
AssertivenessAssertiveness
Assertiveness
rupanaik86
 
Success through Interpersonal skills
Success through Interpersonal skillsSuccess through Interpersonal skills
Success through Interpersonal skills
Manu Melwin Joy
 
Boundaries - Biblical Wisdom from the book of Proverbs
Boundaries - Biblical Wisdom from the book of ProverbsBoundaries - Biblical Wisdom from the book of Proverbs
Boundaries - Biblical Wisdom from the book of Proverbs
Cybermissions
 
Lateral kindness
Lateral kindness Lateral kindness
Lateral kindness
griehl
 
Togetherness presentation
Togetherness presentationTogetherness presentation
Togetherness presentation
Mike Hansen
 
Success through interpersonal skills - Management Concepts - Manu Melwin Joy ...
Success through interpersonal skills - Management Concepts - Manu Melwin Joy ...Success through interpersonal skills - Management Concepts - Manu Melwin Joy ...
Success through interpersonal skills - Management Concepts - Manu Melwin Joy ...
manumelwinjoy
 
Winning mindset
Winning mindset Winning mindset
Winning mindset
Pratik Upadhya
 
Identify difficult people.ppsx
Identify difficult people.ppsxIdentify difficult people.ppsx
Identify difficult people.ppsx
Vinay Singh
 
Day 2 entrepreneurship skills 2012
Day 2 entrepreneurship skills 2012Day 2 entrepreneurship skills 2012
Day 2 entrepreneurship skills 2012
iain.verigin
 
7 habits
7 habits7 habits
The 15 Invaluable Laws of Growth by John Maxwell
The 15 Invaluable Laws of Growth by John MaxwellThe 15 Invaluable Laws of Growth by John Maxwell
The 15 Invaluable Laws of Growth by John Maxwell
Katerina Kalantzi
 

Similar to The ultimate (20)

Identitycharacteremotions1 110203095626-phpapp01
Identitycharacteremotions1 110203095626-phpapp01Identitycharacteremotions1 110203095626-phpapp01
Identitycharacteremotions1 110203095626-phpapp01
 
Teachers as guidance counselors
Teachers as guidance counselorsTeachers as guidance counselors
Teachers as guidance counselors
 
Working and learning well with each other moving to lateral kindness cnur 305...
Working and learning well with each other moving to lateral kindness cnur 305...Working and learning well with each other moving to lateral kindness cnur 305...
Working and learning well with each other moving to lateral kindness cnur 305...
 
Guidance PPT.pdf
Guidance PPT.pdfGuidance PPT.pdf
Guidance PPT.pdf
 
Crucial conversations: Talking when stakes are high
Crucial conversations: Talking when stakes are highCrucial conversations: Talking when stakes are high
Crucial conversations: Talking when stakes are high
 
How to Win Friends & Influence People – Part 3 & 4
How to Win Friends & Influence People – Part 3 & 4How to Win Friends & Influence People – Part 3 & 4
How to Win Friends & Influence People – Part 3 & 4
 
Dealing with difficult people
Dealing with difficult people Dealing with difficult people
Dealing with difficult people
 
Temperaments power point marriage love language
Temperaments power point marriage love languageTemperaments power point marriage love language
Temperaments power point marriage love language
 
DV section 5.pptx
DV section 5.pptxDV section 5.pptx
DV section 5.pptx
 
Assertiveness
AssertivenessAssertiveness
Assertiveness
 
Success through Interpersonal skills
Success through Interpersonal skillsSuccess through Interpersonal skills
Success through Interpersonal skills
 
Boundaries - Biblical Wisdom from the book of Proverbs
Boundaries - Biblical Wisdom from the book of ProverbsBoundaries - Biblical Wisdom from the book of Proverbs
Boundaries - Biblical Wisdom from the book of Proverbs
 
Lateral kindness
Lateral kindness Lateral kindness
Lateral kindness
 
Togetherness presentation
Togetherness presentationTogetherness presentation
Togetherness presentation
 
Success through interpersonal skills - Management Concepts - Manu Melwin Joy ...
Success through interpersonal skills - Management Concepts - Manu Melwin Joy ...Success through interpersonal skills - Management Concepts - Manu Melwin Joy ...
Success through interpersonal skills - Management Concepts - Manu Melwin Joy ...
 
Winning mindset
Winning mindset Winning mindset
Winning mindset
 
Identify difficult people.ppsx
Identify difficult people.ppsxIdentify difficult people.ppsx
Identify difficult people.ppsx
 
Day 2 entrepreneurship skills 2012
Day 2 entrepreneurship skills 2012Day 2 entrepreneurship skills 2012
Day 2 entrepreneurship skills 2012
 
7 habits
7 habits7 habits
7 habits
 
The 15 Invaluable Laws of Growth by John Maxwell
The 15 Invaluable Laws of Growth by John MaxwellThe 15 Invaluable Laws of Growth by John Maxwell
The 15 Invaluable Laws of Growth by John Maxwell
 

Recently uploaded

Supporting (UKRI) OA monographs at Salford.pptx
Supporting (UKRI) OA monographs at Salford.pptxSupporting (UKRI) OA monographs at Salford.pptx
Supporting (UKRI) OA monographs at Salford.pptx
Jisc
 
June 3, 2024 Anti-Semitism Letter Sent to MIT President Kornbluth and MIT Cor...
June 3, 2024 Anti-Semitism Letter Sent to MIT President Kornbluth and MIT Cor...June 3, 2024 Anti-Semitism Letter Sent to MIT President Kornbluth and MIT Cor...
June 3, 2024 Anti-Semitism Letter Sent to MIT President Kornbluth and MIT Cor...
Levi Shapiro
 
Home assignment II on Spectroscopy 2024 Answers.pdf
Home assignment II on Spectroscopy 2024 Answers.pdfHome assignment II on Spectroscopy 2024 Answers.pdf
Home assignment II on Spectroscopy 2024 Answers.pdf
Tamralipta Mahavidyalaya
 
"Protectable subject matters, Protection in biotechnology, Protection of othe...
"Protectable subject matters, Protection in biotechnology, Protection of othe..."Protectable subject matters, Protection in biotechnology, Protection of othe...
"Protectable subject matters, Protection in biotechnology, Protection of othe...
SACHIN R KONDAGURI
 
The basics of sentences session 5pptx.pptx
The basics of sentences session 5pptx.pptxThe basics of sentences session 5pptx.pptx
The basics of sentences session 5pptx.pptx
heathfieldcps1
 
Welcome to TechSoup New Member Orientation and Q&A (May 2024).pdf
Welcome to TechSoup   New Member Orientation and Q&A (May 2024).pdfWelcome to TechSoup   New Member Orientation and Q&A (May 2024).pdf
Welcome to TechSoup New Member Orientation and Q&A (May 2024).pdf
TechSoup
 
Acetabularia Information For Class 9 .docx
Acetabularia Information For Class 9  .docxAcetabularia Information For Class 9  .docx
Acetabularia Information For Class 9 .docx
vaibhavrinwa19
 
The approach at University of Liverpool.pptx
The approach at University of Liverpool.pptxThe approach at University of Liverpool.pptx
The approach at University of Liverpool.pptx
Jisc
 
special B.ed 2nd year old paper_20240531.pdf
special B.ed 2nd year old paper_20240531.pdfspecial B.ed 2nd year old paper_20240531.pdf
special B.ed 2nd year old paper_20240531.pdf
Special education needs
 
Overview on Edible Vaccine: Pros & Cons with Mechanism
Overview on Edible Vaccine: Pros & Cons with MechanismOverview on Edible Vaccine: Pros & Cons with Mechanism
Overview on Edible Vaccine: Pros & Cons with Mechanism
DeeptiGupta154
 
The French Revolution Class 9 Study Material pdf free download
The French Revolution Class 9 Study Material pdf free downloadThe French Revolution Class 9 Study Material pdf free download
The French Revolution Class 9 Study Material pdf free download
Vivekanand Anglo Vedic Academy
 
Honest Reviews of Tim Han LMA Course Program.pptx
Honest Reviews of Tim Han LMA Course Program.pptxHonest Reviews of Tim Han LMA Course Program.pptx
Honest Reviews of Tim Han LMA Course Program.pptx
timhan337
 
Biological Screening of Herbal Drugs in detailed.
Biological Screening of Herbal Drugs in detailed.Biological Screening of Herbal Drugs in detailed.
Biological Screening of Herbal Drugs in detailed.
Ashokrao Mane college of Pharmacy Peth-Vadgaon
 
A Strategic Approach: GenAI in Education
A Strategic Approach: GenAI in EducationA Strategic Approach: GenAI in Education
A Strategic Approach: GenAI in Education
Peter Windle
 
Model Attribute Check Company Auto Property
Model Attribute  Check Company Auto PropertyModel Attribute  Check Company Auto Property
Model Attribute Check Company Auto Property
Celine George
 
The geography of Taylor Swift - some ideas
The geography of Taylor Swift - some ideasThe geography of Taylor Swift - some ideas
The geography of Taylor Swift - some ideas
GeoBlogs
 
How to Make a Field invisible in Odoo 17
How to Make a Field invisible in Odoo 17How to Make a Field invisible in Odoo 17
How to Make a Field invisible in Odoo 17
Celine George
 
The Challenger.pdf DNHS Official Publication
The Challenger.pdf DNHS Official PublicationThe Challenger.pdf DNHS Official Publication
The Challenger.pdf DNHS Official Publication
Delapenabediema
 
Phrasal Verbs.XXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXX
Phrasal Verbs.XXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXPhrasal Verbs.XXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXX
Phrasal Verbs.XXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXX
MIRIAMSALINAS13
 
Francesca Gottschalk - How can education support child empowerment.pptx
Francesca Gottschalk - How can education support child empowerment.pptxFrancesca Gottschalk - How can education support child empowerment.pptx
Francesca Gottschalk - How can education support child empowerment.pptx
EduSkills OECD
 

Recently uploaded (20)

Supporting (UKRI) OA monographs at Salford.pptx
Supporting (UKRI) OA monographs at Salford.pptxSupporting (UKRI) OA monographs at Salford.pptx
Supporting (UKRI) OA monographs at Salford.pptx
 
June 3, 2024 Anti-Semitism Letter Sent to MIT President Kornbluth and MIT Cor...
June 3, 2024 Anti-Semitism Letter Sent to MIT President Kornbluth and MIT Cor...June 3, 2024 Anti-Semitism Letter Sent to MIT President Kornbluth and MIT Cor...
June 3, 2024 Anti-Semitism Letter Sent to MIT President Kornbluth and MIT Cor...
 
Home assignment II on Spectroscopy 2024 Answers.pdf
Home assignment II on Spectroscopy 2024 Answers.pdfHome assignment II on Spectroscopy 2024 Answers.pdf
Home assignment II on Spectroscopy 2024 Answers.pdf
 
"Protectable subject matters, Protection in biotechnology, Protection of othe...
"Protectable subject matters, Protection in biotechnology, Protection of othe..."Protectable subject matters, Protection in biotechnology, Protection of othe...
"Protectable subject matters, Protection in biotechnology, Protection of othe...
 
The basics of sentences session 5pptx.pptx
The basics of sentences session 5pptx.pptxThe basics of sentences session 5pptx.pptx
The basics of sentences session 5pptx.pptx
 
Welcome to TechSoup New Member Orientation and Q&A (May 2024).pdf
Welcome to TechSoup   New Member Orientation and Q&A (May 2024).pdfWelcome to TechSoup   New Member Orientation and Q&A (May 2024).pdf
Welcome to TechSoup New Member Orientation and Q&A (May 2024).pdf
 
Acetabularia Information For Class 9 .docx
Acetabularia Information For Class 9  .docxAcetabularia Information For Class 9  .docx
Acetabularia Information For Class 9 .docx
 
The approach at University of Liverpool.pptx
The approach at University of Liverpool.pptxThe approach at University of Liverpool.pptx
The approach at University of Liverpool.pptx
 
special B.ed 2nd year old paper_20240531.pdf
special B.ed 2nd year old paper_20240531.pdfspecial B.ed 2nd year old paper_20240531.pdf
special B.ed 2nd year old paper_20240531.pdf
 
Overview on Edible Vaccine: Pros & Cons with Mechanism
Overview on Edible Vaccine: Pros & Cons with MechanismOverview on Edible Vaccine: Pros & Cons with Mechanism
Overview on Edible Vaccine: Pros & Cons with Mechanism
 
The French Revolution Class 9 Study Material pdf free download
The French Revolution Class 9 Study Material pdf free downloadThe French Revolution Class 9 Study Material pdf free download
The French Revolution Class 9 Study Material pdf free download
 
Honest Reviews of Tim Han LMA Course Program.pptx
Honest Reviews of Tim Han LMA Course Program.pptxHonest Reviews of Tim Han LMA Course Program.pptx
Honest Reviews of Tim Han LMA Course Program.pptx
 
Biological Screening of Herbal Drugs in detailed.
Biological Screening of Herbal Drugs in detailed.Biological Screening of Herbal Drugs in detailed.
Biological Screening of Herbal Drugs in detailed.
 
A Strategic Approach: GenAI in Education
A Strategic Approach: GenAI in EducationA Strategic Approach: GenAI in Education
A Strategic Approach: GenAI in Education
 
Model Attribute Check Company Auto Property
Model Attribute  Check Company Auto PropertyModel Attribute  Check Company Auto Property
Model Attribute Check Company Auto Property
 
The geography of Taylor Swift - some ideas
The geography of Taylor Swift - some ideasThe geography of Taylor Swift - some ideas
The geography of Taylor Swift - some ideas
 
How to Make a Field invisible in Odoo 17
How to Make a Field invisible in Odoo 17How to Make a Field invisible in Odoo 17
How to Make a Field invisible in Odoo 17
 
The Challenger.pdf DNHS Official Publication
The Challenger.pdf DNHS Official PublicationThe Challenger.pdf DNHS Official Publication
The Challenger.pdf DNHS Official Publication
 
Phrasal Verbs.XXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXX
Phrasal Verbs.XXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXPhrasal Verbs.XXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXX
Phrasal Verbs.XXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXX
 
Francesca Gottschalk - How can education support child empowerment.pptx
Francesca Gottschalk - How can education support child empowerment.pptxFrancesca Gottschalk - How can education support child empowerment.pptx
Francesca Gottschalk - How can education support child empowerment.pptx
 

The ultimate

  • 1. THE ULTIMATE SECRETS OF TOTAL SELF- CONFIDENCE By DR. ROBERT ANTHONY
  • 2. • You can’t change the world, but you can change yourself. • “ We know what we are, but not what we may be.” W. Shakespeare 21 Days
  • 3. Secret #1 DEHYPNOTIZING YOURSELF • WE ARE LIMITED BY OUR “MISTAKEN CERTAINTIES” • “Once a person believes that something is true, (whether it is true or not) he then acts as if it were.”
  • 4. Secret #2 • DEVELOPING SELF-RELIANCE • RECOGNIZING AND BREAKING THE DEPENDENCY HABIT • OVERCOMING THE NEED TO MANIPULATE • LEARNING THAT COMPARISON BREEDS FEAR • FREEING YOURSELF FROM OTHERS
  • 5. Secret #3 THE ART OF SELF- ACCEPTANCE • Positive self-esteem
  • 6. THE MOST COMMON CHARACTERISTICS OF LOW SELF-ESTEEM Emotional Physical Psychological Aggressive, False Sloppy Anxious, Dislikes, laughter, Boasting, Appearance, hates, rejects Impatient, Tries to Wilted handshake, himself. Needs to be be“better than liked and accepted Lackluster eyes, Others. Competitive, by everyone. Arrogant, People Grossly Unsure.Thinks he is a Pleaser, Name Overweight, loser. Ridden with Dropper, Critical, Turned down shame, guilt , blame. Rebels against Mouth, Tense and Needs approval. Must Authority, be “right” all the Perfectionist, Nervous, Weak time. Needs to win. Domineering, voice, Can’t look Need for money, Dominates others in the prestige, and power. Conversation, Cannot eye. Does what others admit, Mistakes, want him to do. Lives Drinker, Smoker, through his children, Talker. TV or hero worship.
  • 7. Secret #4 YOUR AWARENESS • YOU ALWAYS DO YOUR BEST • DO NOT VALUE-JUDGE • UNDERSTAND YOUR MOTIVATION • TAKE RESPONSIBILITY
  • 8. WISE OR UNWISE? • Is this a wise or an unwise act? • Will it contribute to my basic needs? • Will it harm me or someone else? • What is the total price I must pay? • Is it in harmony with Laws of the Universe, as I understand them? • Am I willing and able to pay this price and accept the consequences?
  • 9. POSITIVE HABIT CONDITIONING PROGRAM • YOU CANNOT GIVE UP ANYTHING YOU REGARD AS DESIRABLE
  • 10. Secret #5 I’M NOT GUILTY, YOU’RE NOT GUILTY THE SEVEN MAJOR FORMS OF GUILT: 1)PARENT – CHILD GUILT 2)CHILD-PARENT GUILT 3)GUILT THROUGH LOVE 4)SOCIETY-INSPIRED GUILT 5)SEXUAL GUILT 6)RELIGIOUS GUILT 7)SELF-IMPOSED GUILT • REMEMBER: ~GUILT ALWAYS BRINGS PUNISHMENT ~YOU ARE NOT YOUR ACTIONS MAKE A GUILT DIARY
  • 11. Secret #6 THE POSITIVE POWER OF LOVE • STOP LOOKING FOR OTHERS TO LOVE YOU • REMAIN CALM AND LOVE REGARDLESS OF THE CIRCUMSTANCES
  • 12. Secret # 7 MIND - YOUR OWN BUSINESS • THE LAW OF MENTAL MAGENTISM •MIND SUPERCONSCIOUS SUBCONSCIOUS CONSCIOUS
  • 13. Secret #8 THE GOLDEN KEY OF CREATIVE IMAGATION • IMAGINATION CONTROLS THE WORLD • THE CORRECT THINKING PROCESS: 1. Go to the Superconscious Mind for inner guidance. 2. Use the conscious mind to program this information into the subconscious. 3. Command the subconscious to carry out this information.
  • 14. HOW TO PROGRAM YOUR GENIE 1. VERBALIZING 2. FEELING AND EMOTION 3. VISUALIZATION
  • 15. Secret #9 CHOOSING YOUR DESTINATION • GIVE YOURSELF A FIVE- YEAR PLAN FOR GROWTH • START WHERE YOU ARE • TRUST YOUR INTUITION • RESPOND TO LIFE WITH ACTION • THE SECRECY PRINCIPLE
  • 16. Look forward to the future with expectations, and then act enthusiastic. • THE LAW OF EXPECTANCY “What you expect, that you shall find.” Aristotle. • ENTHUSIASM - God in You. (Greek, ‘en’ meaning ‘in’ and ‘theos’ meaning ‘God’)
  • 17. Secret #10 YOU DESERVE A BREAK TODAY MEDITATION: (1) Relax and let go. (2) Reach out and listen. (3) Visualize. Finally, mentally give thanks that it is so.
  • 18. Secret #11 THE TIME OF YOUR LIFE • Write down the six most important things you want to do the next day. • Do the most unpleasant assignments and activities first.
  • 19. Secret #12 OVERCOMING FEAR AND WORRY • DO NOT REHEARSE, YOUR FAILURES • CHANGE COMES WITH BEING DIFFERENT
  • 20. Secret #13 MOVE AHEAD THROUGH POSITIVE COMMUNICATIONS • LISTEN • TAKE AN INTERST IN OTHER PEOPLE • HOLD ONLY POSITIVE CONVERVATIONS • USE PLAIN LANGUAGE • LET THE OTHER PERSON KNOW THEY ARE IMPRESSING YOU GIVE SINCERE RECOGNITION • WAIT UNTIL THE CONVERSATION GETS AROUND TO YOU • BE ON TIME FOR APPOINTMENTS • REMEMBER PEOPLE’S NAMES • What you are speak so loudly, I cannot hear what you are saying. - Ralph Waldo Emerson
  • 21. Secret #14 ACHIEVING TOTAL SELF- CONFIDENCE THROUGH A POSITIVE MENTAL ATTITUDE • POSITIVE STATEMENTS RELEASE CREATIVE POWER • CONCENTRATE ON WHAT’S RIGHT WITH YOU • MOVE AHEAD WITH AFFIRMATIVE THOUGHTS
  • 22. THE NEW YOU As you apply the principles in this book, a successful NEW YOU will emerge