This document discusses shifting leadership from a "cop" model of telling people what to do to a "coach" model of facilitating change. It advocates using motivational interviewing techniques to have collaborative conversations that elicit people's own reasons for change instead of imposing solutions. Key aspects of this approach include listening without judgment, reflecting on ambivalence, and guiding discussions to increase "change talk" and commitment rather than resistance. The goal is to help people resolve ambivalence and take ownership of changes by finding their own motivations, rather than just compliance with external directives.