The author describes their family as being like a crazy game of Twister, with ever-changing rules and relationships. Growing up in a large family of origin with 10 siblings influenced the communication patterns in their current family. While family relationships can be strained, sharing stories from the past helps the family feel connected. Over the years, the rules of communication in the author's families have changed as the composition of the families changed through divorce, remarriage, and children moving away. The author hopes the strong bonds formed will help the family adapt to future changes.