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The document discusses different types of modern families and how families influence identity. It describes nuclear, extended, single-parent, and reconstituted families. It also discusses how families shape values and behavior through expectations and group dynamics. The author explains how their own family, including parents, sister, aunts, uncles and cousins, has contributed to their identity, values, and self-image.
Jennifer McNally created a family collage consisting of photos of her parents, siblings, boyfriend, and daughter. Her family includes her parents, who divorced after 12 years of marriage. Her mother remarried Frank, who Jennifer considers a father figure. Jennifer's family also includes her boyfriend and daughter, though they are not biologically related or married. The collage photos show close relationships and rituals that are important to maintaining family bonds, such as annual 4th of July celebrations on her father's side. Communication styles and roles differ between family members, but overall the family provides strong support for one another.
The author describes their family as being like a crazy game of Twister, with ever-changing rules and relationships. Growing up in a large family of origin with 10 siblings influenced the communication patterns in their current family. While family relationships can be strained, sharing stories from the past helps the family feel connected. Over the years, the rules of communication in the author's families have changed as the composition of the families changed through divorce, remarriage, and children moving away. The author hopes the strong bonds formed will help the family adapt to future changes.
Early marriage refers to any marriage where one or both spouses are children, usually defined as under 18 years of age. Child marriage removes the ability of children to freely consent to marriage and can negatively impact their health, education and development. While both love marriages and arranged marriages can work, the key to a successful marriage is understanding and respect between partners, regardless of how the couple met.
What is marriage? Know how it is in the Philippines and on different cultures. This ppt also includes information about wedding rituals of different countries and of different religions. It also includes a list of the different types of marriages.
This document discusses gender roles and expectations within families. It notes that the traditional nuclear family model of a father who works and a mother who cares for the home and children is an ideal that few families actually achieve. Gender roles are taught from a young age, with girls socialized as caretakers and boys as leaders. However, families and relationships are changing as divorce has increased, single parenthood is more common, and expectations around gender and relationships have become more fluid. The document also addresses the prevalence of domestic violence and abuse within families.
The document summarizes the author's family structure and communication patterns. It describes the author's family as a two-parent biological family with open communication. Family members are very supportive of each other and spend a lot of time together. Major decisions are made as a group through consensus and compromise. Conflicts are rare and addressed through collaboration or compromise.
The document discusses different types of modern families and how families influence identity. It describes nuclear, extended, single-parent, and reconstituted families. It also discusses how families shape values and behavior through expectations and group dynamics. The author explains how their own family, including parents, sister, aunts, uncles and cousins, has contributed to their identity, values, and self-image.
Jennifer McNally created a family collage consisting of photos of her parents, siblings, boyfriend, and daughter. Her family includes her parents, who divorced after 12 years of marriage. Her mother remarried Frank, who Jennifer considers a father figure. Jennifer's family also includes her boyfriend and daughter, though they are not biologically related or married. The collage photos show close relationships and rituals that are important to maintaining family bonds, such as annual 4th of July celebrations on her father's side. Communication styles and roles differ between family members, but overall the family provides strong support for one another.
The author describes their family as being like a crazy game of Twister, with ever-changing rules and relationships. Growing up in a large family of origin with 10 siblings influenced the communication patterns in their current family. While family relationships can be strained, sharing stories from the past helps the family feel connected. Over the years, the rules of communication in the author's families have changed as the composition of the families changed through divorce, remarriage, and children moving away. The author hopes the strong bonds formed will help the family adapt to future changes.
Early marriage refers to any marriage where one or both spouses are children, usually defined as under 18 years of age. Child marriage removes the ability of children to freely consent to marriage and can negatively impact their health, education and development. While both love marriages and arranged marriages can work, the key to a successful marriage is understanding and respect between partners, regardless of how the couple met.
What is marriage? Know how it is in the Philippines and on different cultures. This ppt also includes information about wedding rituals of different countries and of different religions. It also includes a list of the different types of marriages.
This document discusses gender roles and expectations within families. It notes that the traditional nuclear family model of a father who works and a mother who cares for the home and children is an ideal that few families actually achieve. Gender roles are taught from a young age, with girls socialized as caretakers and boys as leaders. However, families and relationships are changing as divorce has increased, single parenthood is more common, and expectations around gender and relationships have become more fluid. The document also addresses the prevalence of domestic violence and abuse within families.
This document proposes techniques for automatically ranking the results of database queries. It introduces IDF Similarity, which adapts the TF-IDF concept from information retrieval to database attributes by calculating IDF scores based on attribute value frequencies. It also introduces QF Similarity, which determines attribute value importance based on frequency in a query workload log. An Index-based Threshold Algorithm is developed to efficiently retrieve the top-K results by exploiting these similarity functions. The algorithm performs sorted and random accesses to tuples to iteratively refine the top results until a stopping condition is met.
This document proposes techniques for automatically ranking results from database queries. It extends TF-IDF models from information retrieval to databases by developing IDF and QF similarity measures. IDF similarity adapts inverse document frequency to databases by calculating frequency of attribute values. QF similarity leverages query frequency from workload logs. An index-based threshold algorithm is used to efficiently retrieve top-K results by sorting on attribute values.
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This document proposes techniques for automatically ranking the results of database queries. It introduces IDF Similarity, which adapts the TF-IDF concept from information retrieval to database attributes by calculating IDF scores. It also introduces QF Similarity, which determines attribute importance based on query frequency in a workload rather than collection frequency. An index-based threshold algorithm is developed to efficiently retrieve the top-K results by exploiting these similarity functions. The algorithm performs sorted and random access to database tuples to iteratively refine the top results.
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This document proposes techniques for automatically ranking the results of database queries. It introduces IDF Similarity, which adapts the TF-IDF concept from information retrieval to database attributes by calculating IDF scores based on attribute value frequencies. It also introduces QF Similarity, which determines attribute value importance based on frequency in a query workload log. An Index-based Threshold Algorithm is developed to efficiently retrieve the top-K results by exploiting these similarity functions. The algorithm performs sorted and random accesses to tuples to iteratively refine the top results until a stopping condition is met.
This document proposes techniques for automatically ranking the results of database queries. It introduces IDF Similarity, which adapts the TF-IDF concept from information retrieval to database attributes by calculating IDF scores based on attribute value frequencies. It also introduces QF Similarity, which determines attribute value importance based on frequency in a query workload log. An Index-based Threshold Algorithm is developed to efficiently retrieve the top-K results by exploiting these similarity functions. The algorithm performs sorted and random accesses to tuples to iteratively refine the top results until a stopping condition is met.
This document proposes techniques for automatically ranking results from database queries. It extends TF-IDF models from information retrieval to databases by developing IDF and QF similarity measures. IDF similarity adapts inverse document frequency to databases by calculating frequency of attribute values. QF similarity leverages query frequency from workload logs. An index-based threshold algorithm is used to efficiently retrieve top-K results by sorting on attribute values.
This chapter discusses how youth use new media technologies like mobile phones, instant messaging, and social media in their dating practices and intimacy. It explores how these technologies have changed courtship rituals, allowing youth to get to know each other online before meeting in person, but also how they make breaking up more difficult by leaving digital remnants of past relationships. While new media provides benefits of privacy and easier communication, it can also make youth more vulnerable if too much personal information is shared publicly online.
This document discusses using jQuery and Google App Engine to create cross-domain web mashups in 3 sentences or less:
The document introduces techniques for creating cross-domain web mashups using jQuery to make AJAX calls across domains and Google App Engine for hosting, discussing JSONP and proxies to overcome the same-origin policy limitation. It then provides an example mashup that displays tweets tagged with a hashtag on a map by geocoding hashtag names to locations and querying Twitter, Google Maps, and other domains.
This document proposes techniques for automatically ranking the results of database queries. It introduces IDF Similarity, which adapts the TF-IDF concept from information retrieval to database attributes by calculating IDF scores. It also introduces QF Similarity, which determines attribute importance based on query frequency in a workload rather than collection frequency. An index-based threshold algorithm is developed to efficiently retrieve the top-K results by exploiting these similarity functions. The algorithm performs sorted and random access to database tuples to iteratively refine the top results.
The document mentions additional transformation support was added in Advanced Document Transformation Services 6.7 but does not provide details on what specific additional transformations were supported.
This document proposes techniques for automatically ranking the results of database queries. It introduces IDF Similarity, which adapts the TF-IDF concept from information retrieval to database attributes by calculating IDF scores based on attribute value frequencies. It also introduces QF Similarity, which determines attribute value importance based on frequency in a query workload log. An Index-based Threshold Algorithm is developed to efficiently retrieve the top-K results by exploiting these similarity functions. The algorithm performs sorted and random accesses to tuples to iteratively refine the top results until a stopping condition is met.
2. Due to the lack of photos of the entire family
together, and the discomfort exhibited by my
parents when taking photos, there will be
limited photos of the whole family, but many
photos with different parts of the family
together. This is my family, this is our crazy.
3. “Connected. Family members experience
emotional independence as well as some
sense of involvement and belonging”
(Brommel, Bylund, and Galvin 2004).
Our family is involved with one another
(we all live next to each other) but we
also enjoy some emotional
independence. We can rely on each other
in times of crisis, but we don’t always
have to be near each other.
Regardless, we all feel a sense of
belonging within the family-of-origin
structure.
4. In my family, our relationships are always up and down. My sister karissa
and I certainly move through phases of strong cohesion, and phases
where we can’t stand to be around one another for any length of time.
Overall, we are both learning how to have a “normal” adult relationship
and leave adolescence and the childhood years behind.
5. “Sibling ties represent the longest lifetime relationships for most people…” (Brommel, Bylund, and
Galvin 2004).
I think that my sister and I learned a lot from our parents about what it means to be a sibling. Our
dad has an awkward relationship with his brother that is still living, our mom has a good relationship
with one aunt, wont speak to or speak of another aunt, and has an awkward relationship with her
mentally handicapped sister. In seeing this relationships play-out over the course of our lives, we
have determined that we don’t want to grow that far apart where a normal relationship is impossible
and the most we can muster is an awkward encounter. As a result, we have a yearly ritual where we
go to Salem, MA together the weekend before Halloween.
6. “…female sibling use relational
maintenance behaviors at a higher
rate than males…”
(Brommel, Bylund, and Galvin 2004).
I completely agree with this finding!
I see my sister and I using a lot of
the strategies, especially humor and
confirmation and validation. We
learned from our dad that
sometimes, humor can lighten any
situation, and other times, it’s just
fun to laugh. Together, if in the
mood, we can both be found
laughing at something someone else
might find strange. We also
confirm/validate the
other, especially if we need to vent
about work and school (both of our
lives are pretty identical as far as
work and school environments go).
The one venting will be validated by
the other with reassurances that it
will get better, and that her problem
is certainly nothing to be scoffed at.
7. “As parent and child relationships move from being highly veritcle to much more
horizontal, responsibility for relational maintenance becomes shared”
(Brommel, Bylund, Galvin 2004).
As I got older, my parents always supported me, with whatever I chose to pursue. They have
always counted my sister and I as huge sources of pride, and as a result, we have always
strived to be the people they see us as. It is awkward to have some conversations with
either parent, but I have seen that my sister and I can rely on them (their relational
currency in many ways is and likely will always be, caring for their children (including much
more adult children)). They support us, and we both work to keep an open communicative
relationship.
8. “Roles are inextricably bound to the
communication process”
(Brommel, Bylund, and Galvin 2004).
“Family roles and communication are
strongly interrelated because each
contributes to the maintenance or change of
the other”
9. For much of my life, the role of my mom has been constantly changing!
She was a stay at home mom until my sister and I were old enough to
take care of ourselves. Now she works and uses the money she earns for
things she would like to do. She cares for the family as a traditional
housewife, making dinner, cleaning the house, and doing the
laundry, but she also has her own job and her own independence., she
does not depend solely on my dad financially. My mom is also the one
that provides the MOST nurturing and emotional support.
10. My sister and I both look to our dad for
emotional support, but less than our
mom. Our dad does provide the basic
resources, as the “bread-winner” in the
family. He is also the one that has the
most authority over large purchasing
decisions. Both parents will discuss the
purchase, but ultimately, what my dad
wants is what he gets.
11. “Other times people misunderstand the privacy agreement or forget that the information should be
kept private” (Brommel, Bylund, and Galvin 2004).
This is something that my mom (center) has trouble negotiating. In adolescance both my sister and I
wanted to disclose information about our lives to her, just to have her telling our dad. Her rule was,
he is your dad and deserves to know everything, and my husband, I will not lie to him. This made my
sister and I (and still does a lot of the time) uncomfortable openly sharing more private information
with her simply because we would rather our dad not know about it.
12. “One important maintenance function involves maintaining kinship ties with the extended
family network” (Brommel, Bylund, and Galvin 2004).
My older sister Bev (back right) and her three youngest daughters (front left) are rarely at
our house. Bev’s husband likes to keep him and his family to himself, so my dad and mom
both strive to keep up kinship maintenance with Bev so that she and her youngest children
will know us. My sister and I both work to maintain a relationship with the girls, so they
might remember us from visit to visit and not feel so shy at first. So far, this plan has
worked well. They are terrified of dogs, especially big ones, but here they are pictured with
my 74lb boxer, Levi, because they trusted us that nothing would happen.
13. Another important reason for my sister
and I to maintain kinship ties with one of
our nieces who has been subject to
cyber-bullying and an unfortunately
unpleasant high school experience.
“Cyberbullying victims were almost twice
as likely to have attempted or considered
suicide compared to youth who had not
experienced cyberbullying”
(Brommel, Bylund, and Galvin 2004). We
hope that due to our relatively close
ages, we can be there for her, and she
will be able to recognize that she is far
from alone, despite how it she might feel
at times.
14. “They need to be able to engage in
difficult consations on current concerns”
(Brommel, Bylund, and Galvin 2004).
In this case, my family has had to have
the difficult conversations about my
aunt’s health. She was recently
diagnosed with cancer. Fortunately it is
the survivable type, but regardless, as a
family we have had to discuss how we
can help her get to her appointments and
possible outcomes of her treatment.
15. “In any crisis stage, members go through a process of managing the loss, grief, or chaos”
(Brommel, Bylund, and Galvin 2004).
In our lives, my sister and I grew up with one grandparent. We lost her when we were both
young. Then, as adolescence began to hit me, and my sister not being far behind, we lost
our aunt and uncle within months of each other. We were devastated. Our Mom and Dad had
to help navigate us through the stages of grief, while dealing with the loss themselves.
Today, we remember our lost family members with stories of the past, a celebration of the
memories we were able to make. My sister and I both like to believe that our Gram would
be proud of us if she were here today.