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Day 19 - Coping with emotions 
28 April 2020 
─ 
Prabodh Sirur 
sirurp@gmail.com 
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What is Coping with emotions? 
Emotions are biological states brought on by thoughts, feelings, behavioural 
responses, and a degree of pleasure or displeasure.  
The basic emotions are  
1. joy/ sadness,  
2. acceptance/ disgust,  
3. fear/ anger,  
4. surprise/ anticipation.  
The word "emotion" dates back to 1579, when it was adapted from the French word 
émouvoir, which means "to stir up". Emotions create responses in the brain called 
feelings.  
Coping with emotions is -  
a. understanding the patterns of emotions,  
b. understanding our responses to emotions and  
c. taking corrective and preventive actions 
My learning for the day 
While studying the science of emotions, I had the opportunity to read about 
something called the ​endocrine system​.  
The endocrine system is a chemical messenger system in our body. It is a 
collection of ductless glands​ that secretes ​hormones​ directly into the 
blood. 
A hormone is a chemical that moves throughout the body to help regulate 
emotions and behaviours. 
What I found interesting was -  
a. each endocrine gland is ​associated with emotions 
b. each endocrine gland is ​associated with a Chakra​ (nerve bundle) 
2 
3 
 
c. each Chakra is ​associated with a Yoga posture 
Here’s the mapping of the endocrine glands, emotions, nerve bundles 
(Chakras) and Yoga poses 
1. Adrenal gland​ (The Base Chakra or ​Mooladhar​) - Associated with survival, 
fear and insecurity. When this chakra is in balance (i.e. when the associated 
gland is healthy), we feel stable, confident, independent and strong. The Yoga 
posture to manage the emotions related to this gland - Mountain Pose 
(​Tadasan​) 
2. Reproductive glands​ (The Sacral Chakra or ​Svadhishthan​) - Associated 
with pleasure, guilt and sexuality. When this chakra is in balance, we feel 
positive, satisfied and intuitive. The Yoga posture to manage the emotions 
related to this gland - Triangle Pose (​Trikonasan​) 
3. Pancreas​ (The Solar Plexus Chakra or ​Manipur​) - Associated with control, 
anger, helplessness, inner worth, will and personal power. When this chakra 
is in balance, we feel confident, productive and focussed. The Yoga posture 
to manage the emotions related to this gland - Cobra Pose (​Bhujangasan​) 
4. Thymus​ (The Heart Chakra or ​Anaahat​) - Associated with love and 
compassion. When this chakra is in balance, we feel compassionate, friendly 
and caring. The Yoga posture to manage the emotions related to this gland - 
Camel Pose (​Ushtraasan​) 
5. Thyroid​ (The Throat Chakra or ​Vishuddha​) - Associated with 
communication, trust and faith. When this chakra is in balance, we 
communicate positively and listen to others actively. The Yoga posture to 
manage the emotions related to this gland - Shoulderstand (​Sarvangasan​) 
6. Pituitary gland​ (The Third Eye or ​Aadnyaa​) - Associated with foresight, 
conflict, duality, intuition. When this chakra is in balance, we feel free of fear 
and free of attachment to material things. The Yoga posture to manage the 
emotions related to this gland - Child’s Pose (​Baalaasan​) 
7. Pineal gland​ (The Crown Chakra or ​Sahasraar​) - Associated with unity, 
separation, peace and tranquility. When this chakra is in balance, we feel 
3 
4 
 
enlightened. The Yoga posture to manage the emotions related to this gland 
- Headstand (​Shirshasan​) 
There is an amazing meditation practice called the Chakra meditation that 
helps bring all these chakras in balance. Here’s a ​48 minute video​ for you. 
Hope you can practice all these Yoga poses and do the Chakra meditation to 
master your emotions.  
 
I am grateful to all who enriched me in this study. Here’s what I studied -  
Chakra Therapy​ by ​Dr Meenal Sohani 
Balance Your Chakras and Create Higher Self-Esteem​ by ​Karen Chaston 
The Biology of the Chakras and the Vagus Nerve​ by Institute of light and 
sound 
Vagus nerve​ by Encyclopaedia Britannica 
The 7 Chakras – A Guide about their Attributes, Strengths and weaknesses, 
related yoga postures​ by Ram Jain 
Grateful to Subhash Sondkar and Trupti Pandit who opened doors for me to 
new knowledge of meditation and the Chakras  
How to improve your coping skills? 
Set a goal to ​become a go-to person​ by mastering the art and science of ​coping 
with emotions​.  
Follow the ​LAST model​ to build your personal brand as a Guru of ​emotions 
management​.  
1. Learn​ - Invest time in learning different frameworks/ models/ techniques of 
coping with emotions  
2. Apply​ -  
a. Identify a model suitable to you 
b. Create a template to document the flow of the process 
c. Find opportunities to use the selected method/ template 
4 
5 
 
d. Maintain record/ process flow of every important activities you did to 
cope with emotions 
e. Maintain notes of your thoughts/ insights/ failures/ challenges…. to be 
used for sharing/ training others 
3. Share​ - Share the insights captured in step 2 above in a planned manner 
(social media posts, blogs, videos, study notes…) 
4. Train​ - Generate opportunities to train your peers and team members so 
that, over time, your organization benefits from your efforts 
Purpose of this document 
I took a 66 day challenge​ to study Life Skills last year (10 April 2019). To my 
astonishment, I succeeded in studying for 66 days one skill a day.  
My objectives of learning these skills were - To strengthen my mind to face life’s 
challenges with ease, To use these skills in my worklife for a better performance, To 
use these skills in my personal life for enriching my relationships, To open new 
possibilities to surprise myself.  
This is my next 66 day challenge​ (from 10 April 2020) - To share my Life Skills 
learning with my social media friends.  
I pray that my toil helps you in your success journey. 
What are Life Skills? 
UNICEF​ defines Life skills as - ​psychosocial abilities​ for adaptive and positive 
behaviour that enable individuals ​to deal effectively with the demands and 
challenges of everyday life​. They are loosely grouped into three broad categories 
of skills 
- cognitive skills​ for analyzing and using information,  
- personal skills​ for developing personal agency and managing oneself,  
- inter-personal skills​ for communicating and interacting effectively with 
others. 
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Which LifeSkills are covered? 
The ​World Health Organisation​ identified these basic areas of life skills that are 
relevant across cultures:  
1. Decision-making 
2. Problem-solving 
3. Creative thinking 
4. Critical thinking 
5. Communication 
6. Interpersonal skills 
7. Self-awareness 
8. Empathy 
9. Coping with emotions 
10.Coping with stress. 
Some trivia 
‘Life skills’ was never part of the school curriculum. WHO/ UNESCO mandated 
academia to teach these skills in all schools across the globe in 1993. 
Different countries educate their children in these skills with different objectives 
- Zimbabwe and Thailand - prevention of HIV/AIDS 
- Mexico - prevention of adolescent pregnancy 
- United Kingdom - child abuse prevention 
- USA - prevention of substance abuse and violence 
- South Africa and Colombia - positive socialization of children. 
 
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Day 19 coping with emotions

  • 1.        Picture credit - ​Pixabay  Day 19 - Coping with emotions  28 April 2020  ─  Prabodh Sirur  sirurp@gmail.com  1 
  • 2. 2    What is Coping with emotions?  Emotions are biological states brought on by thoughts, feelings, behavioural  responses, and a degree of pleasure or displeasure.   The basic emotions are   1. joy/ sadness,   2. acceptance/ disgust,   3. fear/ anger,   4. surprise/ anticipation.   The word "emotion" dates back to 1579, when it was adapted from the French word  émouvoir, which means "to stir up". Emotions create responses in the brain called  feelings.   Coping with emotions is -   a. understanding the patterns of emotions,   b. understanding our responses to emotions and   c. taking corrective and preventive actions  My learning for the day  While studying the science of emotions, I had the opportunity to read about  something called the ​endocrine system​.   The endocrine system is a chemical messenger system in our body. It is a  collection of ductless glands​ that secretes ​hormones​ directly into the  blood.  A hormone is a chemical that moves throughout the body to help regulate  emotions and behaviours.  What I found interesting was -   a. each endocrine gland is ​associated with emotions  b. each endocrine gland is ​associated with a Chakra​ (nerve bundle)  2 
  • 3. 3    c. each Chakra is ​associated with a Yoga posture  Here’s the mapping of the endocrine glands, emotions, nerve bundles  (Chakras) and Yoga poses  1. Adrenal gland​ (The Base Chakra or ​Mooladhar​) - Associated with survival,  fear and insecurity. When this chakra is in balance (i.e. when the associated  gland is healthy), we feel stable, confident, independent and strong. The Yoga  posture to manage the emotions related to this gland - Mountain Pose  (​Tadasan​)  2. Reproductive glands​ (The Sacral Chakra or ​Svadhishthan​) - Associated  with pleasure, guilt and sexuality. When this chakra is in balance, we feel  positive, satisfied and intuitive. The Yoga posture to manage the emotions  related to this gland - Triangle Pose (​Trikonasan​)  3. Pancreas​ (The Solar Plexus Chakra or ​Manipur​) - Associated with control,  anger, helplessness, inner worth, will and personal power. When this chakra  is in balance, we feel confident, productive and focussed. The Yoga posture  to manage the emotions related to this gland - Cobra Pose (​Bhujangasan​)  4. Thymus​ (The Heart Chakra or ​Anaahat​) - Associated with love and  compassion. When this chakra is in balance, we feel compassionate, friendly  and caring. The Yoga posture to manage the emotions related to this gland -  Camel Pose (​Ushtraasan​)  5. Thyroid​ (The Throat Chakra or ​Vishuddha​) - Associated with  communication, trust and faith. When this chakra is in balance, we  communicate positively and listen to others actively. The Yoga posture to  manage the emotions related to this gland - Shoulderstand (​Sarvangasan​)  6. Pituitary gland​ (The Third Eye or ​Aadnyaa​) - Associated with foresight,  conflict, duality, intuition. When this chakra is in balance, we feel free of fear  and free of attachment to material things. The Yoga posture to manage the  emotions related to this gland - Child’s Pose (​Baalaasan​)  7. Pineal gland​ (The Crown Chakra or ​Sahasraar​) - Associated with unity,  separation, peace and tranquility. When this chakra is in balance, we feel  3 
  • 4. 4    enlightened. The Yoga posture to manage the emotions related to this gland  - Headstand (​Shirshasan​)  There is an amazing meditation practice called the Chakra meditation that  helps bring all these chakras in balance. Here’s a ​48 minute video​ for you.  Hope you can practice all these Yoga poses and do the Chakra meditation to  master your emotions.     I am grateful to all who enriched me in this study. Here’s what I studied -   Chakra Therapy​ by ​Dr Meenal Sohani  Balance Your Chakras and Create Higher Self-Esteem​ by ​Karen Chaston  The Biology of the Chakras and the Vagus Nerve​ by Institute of light and  sound  Vagus nerve​ by Encyclopaedia Britannica  The 7 Chakras – A Guide about their Attributes, Strengths and weaknesses,  related yoga postures​ by Ram Jain  Grateful to Subhash Sondkar and Trupti Pandit who opened doors for me to  new knowledge of meditation and the Chakras   How to improve your coping skills?  Set a goal to ​become a go-to person​ by mastering the art and science of ​coping  with emotions​.   Follow the ​LAST model​ to build your personal brand as a Guru of ​emotions  management​.   1. Learn​ - Invest time in learning different frameworks/ models/ techniques of  coping with emotions   2. Apply​ -   a. Identify a model suitable to you  b. Create a template to document the flow of the process  c. Find opportunities to use the selected method/ template  4 
  • 5. 5    d. Maintain record/ process flow of every important activities you did to  cope with emotions  e. Maintain notes of your thoughts/ insights/ failures/ challenges…. to be  used for sharing/ training others  3. Share​ - Share the insights captured in step 2 above in a planned manner  (social media posts, blogs, videos, study notes…)  4. Train​ - Generate opportunities to train your peers and team members so  that, over time, your organization benefits from your efforts  Purpose of this document  I took a 66 day challenge​ to study Life Skills last year (10 April 2019). To my  astonishment, I succeeded in studying for 66 days one skill a day.   My objectives of learning these skills were - To strengthen my mind to face life’s  challenges with ease, To use these skills in my worklife for a better performance, To  use these skills in my personal life for enriching my relationships, To open new  possibilities to surprise myself.   This is my next 66 day challenge​ (from 10 April 2020) - To share my Life Skills  learning with my social media friends.   I pray that my toil helps you in your success journey.  What are Life Skills?  UNICEF​ defines Life skills as - ​psychosocial abilities​ for adaptive and positive  behaviour that enable individuals ​to deal effectively with the demands and  challenges of everyday life​. They are loosely grouped into three broad categories  of skills  - cognitive skills​ for analyzing and using information,   - personal skills​ for developing personal agency and managing oneself,   - inter-personal skills​ for communicating and interacting effectively with  others.  5 
  • 6. 6    Which LifeSkills are covered?  The ​World Health Organisation​ identified these basic areas of life skills that are  relevant across cultures:   1. Decision-making  2. Problem-solving  3. Creative thinking  4. Critical thinking  5. Communication  6. Interpersonal skills  7. Self-awareness  8. Empathy  9. Coping with emotions  10.Coping with stress.  Some trivia  ‘Life skills’ was never part of the school curriculum. WHO/ UNESCO mandated  academia to teach these skills in all schools across the globe in 1993.  Different countries educate their children in these skills with different objectives  - Zimbabwe and Thailand - prevention of HIV/AIDS  - Mexico - prevention of adolescent pregnancy  - United Kingdom - child abuse prevention  - USA - prevention of substance abuse and violence  - South Africa and Colombia - positive socialization of children.    6