The document compares the initial handling of Anibal's problems to the realization that he needs more support from his parents. Initially, the author tried different communicative approaches to understand Anibal and help with his lack of study skills and responsibility. However, the author realized they were not Anibal's parent and he needed the long-term support that only his parents, especially his mother who lives with him, can provide. While teachers and tutors can help, Anibal spends more time with his family outside of the 5 hours he is in school each day.