This document discusses how to become marriageable. It begins with a scriptural reference and introduces the topic of becoming marriageable as being a matter of attitude and strategy. The greatest challenge in relationships is someone who is not marriageable. Becoming marriageable follows laws of attraction, reciprocity, and correspondence. Some keys to becoming marriageable include developing spiritual success, having a destiny-oriented disposition, finding purpose, becoming your best self, developing personal security, accepting responsibility, and cultivating emotional intelligence and a lifelong learning attitude. It also discusses having an enterprising spirit and understanding that singleness is for life.

1. BECOMING MARRIAGEABLE
PRESENTED
BY
SCOTT ODIGIE

2. … Our SCRIPTURAL REFERENCE is
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3. Genesis 24:62-67

4. … Let's begin with our
INTRODUCTION…

5. Becoming marriageable is part attitude
and part strategy.

6. The best thing you can offer your spouse
or the institution of marriage is yourself
and not your assets, your body, your
money, your properties etc

7. The greatest challenge in relationship is
not "relationship" nor "marriage" but
someone not marriageable.

8. Several people say or belief that there are
no people to marry or to go into
relationship with. But experience and
knowledge has taught us that the problem
is with people that are not marriageable.

9. …The concept of Becoming
marriageable obeys the following
LAWS…

10. The law of attraction (power of
imagination)

11. The law of reciprocity (golden rule)

12. The law of correspondence (your outer
world experience harmonizing with
inner world of goals)

13. HOW TO BECOME
MARRIAGEABLE?

14. 1. Spiritual success: There is nothing
more vital to the life-line of a healthy
person than being rooted in relationship
with Jesus. Through this, we learn what it
means to really love, and are enabled to
pour that same kind of love into our
romantic relationships as well. I

15. 2. Destiny-oriented disposition:
marriage is about two covenant partners
that are matured coming together to
a common destiny.

16. 3. Finding purpose; who you are or
the sense of significance:

17. 4. Strive to Become the best
version of yourself: this entails
understanding who you are, your
distinctiveness and exploring it..

18. 5. Personal security: It is said that a
person’s level of security is actually more
attractive to the opposite sex than their
physical appearance. A person of
confidence knows that their value is not
rooted in their relationship status, but
rather, their identity in Christ.

19. 6. Accepting responsibility for your
outcomes: this means been responsible
for your failures or successes. It entails
discipline against excuses, complaining
and procrastination.

20. 7. Emotional intelligence

21. 8. Life-long learning attitude: it has
been said that, the day you stop learning,
you start dying and losing relevance.
Learners don't see themselves as perfect
but as a project in progress.

22. 9. Enterprising spirit: An enterprising
person is one who comes across a pile of
scrap metal and sees the making of a
wonderful sculpture. An enterprising
person is one who drives through an old
decrepit part of town and sees a new
housing development. An enterprising

23. 10. Understanding that singleness
is for life: singleness means, to be
complete, unique and whole.

24. … as we CONCLUDE…

25. What you know is what you believe and
what you believe is what you become.
Thank you for listening.