Welcome To
Orientation program
for M.Com students
on
Attitude For
Success
3 P’s of Success
PRARTHANA
PRARTHANA
Oh! My God We Love You,
Make Us Good Student,
And Help Us To Study Well
Oh! My God Bless My Parents
Bless My Teachers And Every One
Oh! My Good Save Our County
And Our College
From The Hands Off Enemies
And Give Peace To The World
Oh! My God Help Me To
Love Our Country.
Happy
Morning
IF YOU WANT TO LOOK BEAUTIFUL
BE HAPPY
BE HAPPY
BE HAPPY
IF YOU WANT TO be happy
make others to
BE HAPPY
BE HAPPY
BE HAPPY
There are 3 kind of people in this world
 People who watch the things happen
 People who make the things happen
 People who wonder what happened.?
Which category do you fall into.?
There is very little difference in people,
But that little difference makes a
big difference !
The little difference is ATTITUDE
The big difference is whether it is
Positive Or Negative.
We all grow older and older,
Growing older is not important
Growing upper is important
That’s is intellectual growth
Some pe ople add y e ars t o li fe
Some pe ople add li fe t o y e ars
Age less body
Time less mind
Attitude
Happiness is good medicine to look YOUNGER
MA
PMA
NMA
Negative Attitude People
•They always look at negative side
•They are fault finders and pessimists
•They spend most of their time in complaining,
condemning and criticizing others
•Turn out the lights to see how dark it is
•Count their troubles forget their blessing
•Can not enjoy their health because they think
they may be sick tomorrow
Crazy people create History
Wise people normally read
History
Video 2
Start Your Day With Winning Attitude
Teaching is the Profession,
that teaches and prepares
all other professions.
Every Educational Institution, colleges,
We teachers, parents, are all preparing
Doctors, Engineers, Managers, Business
People.
Parents are expecting their children should
become Doctors, Engineers, Mangers and
should earn more money…
But nobody is preparing human beings ..
so
Prepare people with right Attitude…
Congratulation to G.F.G.C
Magadi
For creating Us
as beautiful HUMAN BEINGS
Video 3
Attitude
If you think, you can
You’re right
If you think you can’t
You’re again right.
Yes it’s all a matter of
ATTITUDE
Closed Minded
People
• No to
Feedback
• No to Change
• Fault Finders
Self Centered
People
• Self Growth
• Self Success
Open Minded
People
• Open to
Change
• Open to Help
• Open to
Feedback
How to confirm positive thinking .?
Besides the use of appreciate words
 The expression in the EYES
The gentle TOUCH
The sincere SMILING
The attentive LISTENING & NO EGO
That forms the real basis for
POSITIVE THINKING
Positive Thoughts
Positive Words
Positive Actions
Positive attitude includes
Words can change lives
Respect the power of words
choose them with care
Kind words can be short and easy
to speak but their Eco's are truly
endless
Choose The Attitude
 Your choice of attitude can decide the
out come of your life
 Negative thoughts have no power
unless you empower them
Video 4
Dale Carnigie
Attitude…
A matter of Choice
If you control your thoughts,
& choices, you will create a
brighter future…
CHANGE YOUR
ATTITUDE…!
CHANGE YOUR
LIFE…!
First & most likely responses
Donkey
Good for nothing
Useless
Lesser glamorous
Taken for granted animals
Seldom we get response
That the donkey is one of the
“hard working” animal and loyal
How is our attitude..?
We treat people & situations in the
same manner as we do with the
donkey
We discount the good in them
We look only at the negative side &
start reacting..
Isn’t it?
Act
Stop
Think
REACT
First we take ACTION
Then we STOP
Then we THINK and feel guilty about our
behavior
That is why others say..
Attitude problem
The 10-90 rule
10% is what happens
90% is how to react respond
to what happens and that’s
your attitude
90%ofthethingsin ourlivesare alwayscorrect
only10%maybewrong
Positive attitude people concentrates on 90%
which are right & Ignore 10% which are
wrong
How much do
U see the
Ice berg.?
The ice berg
10% is above the sea level
90% is below the sea
Similarly
 10% is our knowledge & skills
 90% attitude
Consequences of such reactions
B l a m e
C o m p l a i n
F r u s t r a t i o n
B r o k e n r e l a t i o n
E g o & h u r t
P a n i c & a n x i e t y
H i g h l e v e l o f s t r e e t s
Let’s ask this little question.?
Are some born positive..!
Is there choice I have..!
There is a need for a change
“Yes” Change In The
Way We
Think
Feel & Behave
How to make this choices..
Howtochanges thoughts ,feelings &
behavior
Step 1
Make a decision to CHANGE
Start with this first step today
o Decidetodaywithwhichperson, people,
situation, circumstances, tasks..
You will change your ATTITUDE
Step 2
Shift your FOCUS
• Focuson WHATIS RIGHT V/s WHAT IS WRONG
• Focuson WHATYOU DO HAVE V/s WHATYOUDON’T
• Focus on Solution, then on Problems
Step 3
Stop Blaming, Criticizing, Condemning
& Start Appreciating
Insteadofblaming& complaining.
Becuriousto askyourselfaquestion
Whyisthispersonorsituationlikethat..?
Whatcan Ichangeherein thissituationor
withthisperson
Do u believe in God..?
Step 4
Develop an Attitude of GRATITUDE
Joy,Love, Approaches, Happiness ,Excitement,
I was crying for I had no shoes until I saw
a person who had no legs
Find something appreciate in TOUGH
TIME, TOUGH PERSON, TOUGH SITUATION.
Whenever you feel down depressed
frustrated see what can be acknowledge
Step 5
Decidenotto beperfectallthetime
• Stop finding faults in others
• Stop having high expectation from
yourself and others
• When expectation do not match that
is the beginning of negatives
Step 6
Believe in yourself
Self esteem
This is not an inflated EGO but when you think & feel
good about yourself.
Then you are able to see the same in others too
Whatever you Believe You Achieve
Step 7
Take action.. Now with lot of
courtesy , culture
• You can’t just stand before the mirror & shout
Positive attitude
• Stop procrastination & start now
• Write down for the next 7 days An action plan
With BAD attitude you can never have
a POSITIVE day
With a POSITIVE attitude you can never
have a BAD day
Choice Is Yours
Video 5
Attitude Is Everything
Attitude Of
Gratitude
Learn the right attitude using
the Magic Words
Express Thank you for everything
Expression of sympathy
Thinking of you ( take care, come soon)
Congratulations
Accepting mistakes, asking for apology
Wishing some one well
Resolving conflict
Empathy for hard times
Remembrance of friendship
– Presented By:
AVINASH GOWDA
3RD Sem M. Com
G.F.G.C_Magadi

Attitude_For_Success

  • 2.
    Welcome To Orientation program forM.Com students on Attitude For Success
  • 3.
    3 P’s ofSuccess
  • 4.
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    PRARTHANA Oh! My GodWe Love You, Make Us Good Student, And Help Us To Study Well Oh! My God Bless My Parents Bless My Teachers And Every One Oh! My Good Save Our County And Our College From The Hands Off Enemies And Give Peace To The World Oh! My God Help Me To Love Our Country.
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    IF YOU WANTTO LOOK BEAUTIFUL BE HAPPY BE HAPPY BE HAPPY
  • 8.
    IF YOU WANTTO be happy make others to BE HAPPY BE HAPPY BE HAPPY
  • 10.
    There are 3kind of people in this world  People who watch the things happen  People who make the things happen  People who wonder what happened.? Which category do you fall into.?
  • 11.
    There is verylittle difference in people, But that little difference makes a big difference ! The little difference is ATTITUDE The big difference is whether it is Positive Or Negative.
  • 12.
    We all growolder and older, Growing older is not important Growing upper is important That’s is intellectual growth
  • 13.
    Some pe opleadd y e ars t o li fe Some pe ople add li fe t o y e ars Age less body Time less mind Attitude Happiness is good medicine to look YOUNGER
  • 14.
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    Negative Attitude People •Theyalways look at negative side •They are fault finders and pessimists •They spend most of their time in complaining, condemning and criticizing others •Turn out the lights to see how dark it is •Count their troubles forget their blessing •Can not enjoy their health because they think they may be sick tomorrow
  • 16.
    Crazy people createHistory Wise people normally read History
  • 17.
    Video 2 Start YourDay With Winning Attitude
  • 18.
    Teaching is theProfession, that teaches and prepares all other professions.
  • 19.
    Every Educational Institution,colleges, We teachers, parents, are all preparing Doctors, Engineers, Managers, Business People. Parents are expecting their children should become Doctors, Engineers, Mangers and should earn more money… But nobody is preparing human beings .. so Prepare people with right Attitude…
  • 20.
    Congratulation to G.F.G.C Magadi Forcreating Us as beautiful HUMAN BEINGS
  • 21.
  • 22.
    If you think,you can You’re right If you think you can’t You’re again right. Yes it’s all a matter of ATTITUDE
  • 23.
    Closed Minded People • Noto Feedback • No to Change • Fault Finders Self Centered People • Self Growth • Self Success Open Minded People • Open to Change • Open to Help • Open to Feedback
  • 24.
    How to confirmpositive thinking .? Besides the use of appreciate words  The expression in the EYES The gentle TOUCH The sincere SMILING The attentive LISTENING & NO EGO That forms the real basis for POSITIVE THINKING
  • 25.
    Positive Thoughts Positive Words PositiveActions Positive attitude includes
  • 26.
    Words can changelives Respect the power of words choose them with care Kind words can be short and easy to speak but their Eco's are truly endless
  • 27.
    Choose The Attitude Your choice of attitude can decide the out come of your life  Negative thoughts have no power unless you empower them
  • 28.
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  • 30.
    If you controlyour thoughts, & choices, you will create a brighter future…
  • 31.
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    First & mostlikely responses Donkey Good for nothing Useless Lesser glamorous Taken for granted animals Seldom we get response That the donkey is one of the “hard working” animal and loyal
  • 33.
    How is ourattitude..? We treat people & situations in the same manner as we do with the donkey We discount the good in them We look only at the negative side & start reacting.. Isn’t it?
  • 34.
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    REACT First we takeACTION Then we STOP Then we THINK and feel guilty about our behavior That is why others say.. Attitude problem
  • 37.
    The 10-90 rule 10%is what happens 90% is how to react respond to what happens and that’s your attitude
  • 38.
    90%ofthethingsin ourlivesare alwayscorrect only10%maybewrong Positiveattitude people concentrates on 90% which are right & Ignore 10% which are wrong
  • 39.
    How much do Usee the Ice berg.?
  • 40.
    The ice berg 10%is above the sea level 90% is below the sea Similarly  10% is our knowledge & skills  90% attitude
  • 41.
    Consequences of suchreactions B l a m e C o m p l a i n F r u s t r a t i o n B r o k e n r e l a t i o n E g o & h u r t P a n i c & a n x i e t y H i g h l e v e l o f s t r e e t s
  • 42.
    Let’s ask thislittle question.? Are some born positive..! Is there choice I have..!
  • 43.
    There is aneed for a change “Yes” Change In The Way We Think Feel & Behave
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    How to makethis choices.. Howtochanges thoughts ,feelings & behavior
  • 46.
    Step 1 Make adecision to CHANGE Start with this first step today o Decidetodaywithwhichperson, people, situation, circumstances, tasks.. You will change your ATTITUDE
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    Step 2 Shift yourFOCUS • Focuson WHATIS RIGHT V/s WHAT IS WRONG • Focuson WHATYOU DO HAVE V/s WHATYOUDON’T • Focus on Solution, then on Problems
  • 48.
    Step 3 Stop Blaming,Criticizing, Condemning & Start Appreciating Insteadofblaming& complaining. Becuriousto askyourselfaquestion Whyisthispersonorsituationlikethat..? Whatcan Ichangeherein thissituationor withthisperson
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    Do u believein God..?
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    Step 4 Develop anAttitude of GRATITUDE Joy,Love, Approaches, Happiness ,Excitement, I was crying for I had no shoes until I saw a person who had no legs Find something appreciate in TOUGH TIME, TOUGH PERSON, TOUGH SITUATION. Whenever you feel down depressed frustrated see what can be acknowledge
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    Step 5 Decidenotto beperfectallthetime •Stop finding faults in others • Stop having high expectation from yourself and others • When expectation do not match that is the beginning of negatives
  • 52.
    Step 6 Believe inyourself Self esteem This is not an inflated EGO but when you think & feel good about yourself. Then you are able to see the same in others too Whatever you Believe You Achieve
  • 53.
    Step 7 Take action..Now with lot of courtesy , culture • You can’t just stand before the mirror & shout Positive attitude • Stop procrastination & start now • Write down for the next 7 days An action plan
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    With BAD attitudeyou can never have a POSITIVE day With a POSITIVE attitude you can never have a BAD day Choice Is Yours
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    Learn the rightattitude using the Magic Words Express Thank you for everything Expression of sympathy Thinking of you ( take care, come soon) Congratulations Accepting mistakes, asking for apology Wishing some one well Resolving conflict Empathy for hard times Remembrance of friendship
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    – Presented By: AVINASHGOWDA 3RD Sem M. Com G.F.G.C_Magadi