The author argues that it is important and necessary to teach LGBTQ issues in the rural south through both personal support and by incorporating them into the curriculum. She tells the story of one of her students, Joseph, who struggled with being gay in his rural, conservative community. By openly discussing LGBTQ topics in class and creating a supportive environment, the author was able to help Joseph feel accepted and valued, saying it "saved his life." The author's purpose is to convince other teachers that merely expressing personal support is not enough - LGBTQ issues must be actively addressed through the lessons, discussions, and perspectives presented in the classroom curriculum to truly help students and sensitize other learners.