This document provides an overview of the game "Beat My Match" and discusses the concepts of personal responsibility and proactivity. It includes: 1) The rules of "Beat My Match", a card game played in pairs where the goal is to get the highest number by subtracting cards played. 2) An example of how the scoring works in one round. 3) A scenario where the rules for one team are changed to allow communication while the other team cannot communicate or look at each other. 4) A discussion of self-awareness, personal responsibility, and being proactive rather than reactive to situations outside one's control.