5. Stressor adalah sebahagian
kehidupan normal (Selye)
Eustress
Stress yang merangsang dan
memberi motivasi
Distress
Stress yang menyebabkan
kekeliruan, kurang tumpuan
dan kebimbangan
8. Melibatkan ramai orang
walaupun jarang berlaku
Semulajadi / alam
Banjir, taufan, kemarau,
gunung berapi
Angkara manusia
Peperangan, kebakaran,
kebocoran gas
9. War is a man made disaster – water and sanitation,
electricity, food stores, and food supply routes are destroyed
10. Perubahan besar dalam
kehidupan seseorang yang
membawa perubahan besar
dalam rutin seharian
Contohnya; mula bekerja,
bekeluarga, bertukar kerja,
berpindah, mendapat
penyakit yang serius dsb.
Becoming a parent
Getting married
11. Gangguan kecil yang
dihadapi dalam kehidupan
seharian
Contohnya; masalah
kesesakan lalulintas,
perbezaan gaya hidup
dengan rakan sebilik, kerja-
kerja tertunda dsb
12. Daily hassles are not necessarily encountered everyday
but represent disruptions of or annoyances to one's daily
routine
13. Setiap perubahan, baik atau buruk, memerlukan adaptasi
Terdapat perbezaan individu dalam persepsi sesuatu peristiwa
Konsep "life change unit" (LCU)
besar (e.g. Kematian isteri = 100 LCU)
kecil (e.g. Peperiksaan akhir = 20 LCU)
15. “Perceived control” membawa kpd
Hayat lebih panjang
Kajian atas pemain besbol (Seligman)
Kerjaya lebih berjaya
Kajian atas jurujual insurans (Seligman)
Berkait dengan
Optimism (melihat kehadapan)
Attribution (melihat kebelakang)
19. Emotion-based coping
Fokus kepada emosi yang terhasil akibat stress
Problem-based coping
Fokus kepada punca stress
Effektif: stress diatasi
Tidak effektif: stress berterusan
Pengambilan dadah/alkohol, pasif aggresif
20. Pessimistik
Tiada tindakan untuk atasi stress
Jika stressor berterusan keadaan stress berlanjutan
system exhaustion and fatigue penyakit
21.
22. Hurry sickness
Sentiasa mengejar masa, melakukan terlalu banyak
perkara dalam masa yang terlalu singkat
Quest for numbers
Sentiasa mahu jadi yang terbaik, terbanyak dsb
Insecurity of status
Sentiasa mahukan ukuran objektif untuk harga diri,
mengejar kejayaan untuk dikagumi orang lain
Aggression & hostility
Sentiasa bersaing dengan orang lain, mudah hilang
kesabaran, pemarah
23. Type A personality individual is preoccupied with
ratings, being better than others, earning more
money, etc.
24. Agresif
Mendesak, memandang rendah orang yang tidak bersetuju dsb
Pasif
Tidak boleh menyatakan kemahuan sebenar, selalu tunduk pada
kemahuan orang lain
Asertif (tegas)
Menyatakan isihati tanpa menyakiti orang lain
25. Untuk menjadi asertif (Albert & Emmons)
OK berkata tidak ... Tiada rasa bersalah
OK untuk ubah fikiran
OK untuk ambil masa berfikir sebelum
melakukan sesuatu
OK untuk minta dihormati
OK untuk melakukan kurang dari yang
terdaya
OK untuk menyatakan perasaan
OK untuk rasa gembira atas diri sendiri ...
Bila-bila ... Dimana-mana
28. Permintaan > keupayaan
/ sumber
Timbul dari pelbagai
punca:
Kesuntukan masa
Terlalu banyak
tanggungjawab
Kurang sokongan
Jangkaan yang terlalu
tinggi
29. Adakan rutin
(kelaziman)
Pastikan kehidupan teratur
Kerja / belajar
Makan
Tidur
Berehat
Teknik relaksasi
Tangguhkan
perubahan
Jika sudah terlalu banyak
perubahan (e.g. LCU > 300)
e.g. jangan berpindah
sekarang
e.g. jangan ubah gaya
kehidupan sekarang
30. Luahkan perasaan
Learn to delegate
Pengurusan masa
yang berkesan
Asertif
Periksa objektif diri
sendiri. Adakah
matlamat terlalu
tinggi?
32. Gariskan matlamat dan pelan tindakan
Jangka panjang - 1 to 10 years
Sederhana (plus plan) - 3 to 6 months
Pendek - Setiap minggu
Memberi keutamaan (prioritize)
Penting (important)– tak penting
Segere (urgent) – tak segera
Minta bantuan
Don't be a PERFECTIONIST on a little task
Pecahkan 1 tugasan besar kepada tugasan-tugasan
kecil
35. Air is taken in more
efficiently
Blood is better
oxygenated
Nerves are calmed
The body is more
rested
36. Lie on your back on a flat surface or in bed, with
your knees bent and your head supported. You can
use a pillow under your knees to support your legs.
Place one hand on your upper chest and the other
just below your rib cage. This will allow you to feel
your diaphragm move as you breathe.
37. Breathe in slowly through your nose so that your
stomach moves out against your hand.
The hand on your chest should remain as still
as possible.
38. Tighten your stomach muscles, letting them fall
inward as you exhale.
The hand on your upper chest must remain as
still as possible.
39. 1. Sit comfortably left hand on
abdomen, right hand against it
2. Imagine a hollow pouch under your
hand ... breathe in so as to fill the
pouch - right to the top (initially 3
sec. inspiration, later 5 sec.) ...
"look" at the air going in
3. Hold your breath and imagine
being calm
4. Slowly exhale until the pouch is
empty
40. Berlatihlah 10-15 kali sehari.
Lazimkan waktu pagi, tengahari, malam
dan waktu anda rasa stress.
Langkah 1 dan 2 hanya untuk peringkat
latihan
Latihan yang konsisten dapat
mengurangkan stress
41. Duduk atau berbaring dengan mata tertutup
Pernafasan diaphragmatic
Tumpukan kepada pernafasan
Bilang kadar nadi semasa hembus nafas biasa
Biasanya 5-10
Berlatih untuk tarik nafas, tahan nafas dan
hembus nafas dengan bilangan nadi yang
sama
42.
43. Perlukan lebih masa, tumpuan dan komitmen
Bila sudah menguasai teknik ini, maka anda boleh memilih
turutan yang paling bermanfaat dan memenuhi keperluan
semasa
Prinsip
Associative learning
Reciprocal inhibition
44. Meningkatkan tumpuan
Persekitaran
Bunyi bising, gangguan rakan, telefon, TV dsb
Badan anda
Posisi yang relaks, pakaian yang selesa
45. Dorsiflexion pergelangan kaki
Bend up the feet ... pull hard ... harder! And
let go
Plantar flexion pergelangan kaki
Push the feet down as far as you can ... push
harder! And slacken the muscles completely
46. Selaraskan dengan pernafasan
Tumpukan perhatian pada perbezaan rasa otot yang relaks
dan otot yang regang (tense)
Jangan fikirkan perkara yang merisaukan
47. Extension of knee and hip.
Straighten the knees as much as possible ...
Now press the leg down into the mat ...
Hard ... harder! Now relax ...
48. Extensor muscles of the spine
Push the chest forward until you have
hollowed the back strongly ... lift a little more!
And let go ...
Abdominal muscles
Pull the abdominal muscle until they are
quite flat ... pull a little bit more! And rest ...
49. Finger and wrist extension
Straighten the fingers and pull back the
wrists ... Pull hard
Repeat 5 times
50. Fingers and wrist flexion
Clench your fists and curl your wrists inward
51. Adduction of shoulder joints
Straighten the arm against your sides ... press tightly
52. Shoulder shrug
Shrug your
shoulder high ...
higher ... touch
your ears
53. Rotation.
Shut the eyes ... now
roll the head slowly
forward, then slowly
back ... roll the head
to the right, then
slowly to the left ...
it’s heavy ... and it’s
rolling easily – front
to back, side to side
...
Now stop, with the
face turned forward,
and rest ...
54. Senaman muka
Clench the teeth
together.
Now draw up the
facial muscles very
tightly ... tighter!
And relax ...
57. Senaman melibatkan ego
Competitive golf, tennis etc
Bermatlamat menewaskan
pesaing
Kriegel, 1984: Pertandingan
menghasilkan lebih stress
dari yang dihilangkan
DeGues et al, 1993:
senaman dengan “hateful
thoughts” tingkatkan
nadi dan tekanan darah
58. Self
awareness
Social
awareness
Self
management
Social skills
• Working within a
diverse environment
• Working in group
• Understanding our
attitude and
personality
• Communicating
effectively
• Etiquette
• Networking
• Communicating
verbally and non-
verbally
• Dealing with conflict
• Understanding our
attitude and
personality
• Working within union
• Decision making in
group
• Negotiation skills
• Communicating
effectively, verbally and
in writing
• Understanding non-
verbal communication
• Ability to handle change
• Motivating myself
• Being an effective leader
• Making good ethical
choice
• Continuous learning
• Time management
• Self esteem
• Understanding
personal motivation
• Stress management
• Goal setting
SELF / SOCIAL
REGULATION/RECOGNITION
59.
60. There should
always be a
timeframe
attached to a
specific goal.
Most
individuals
will have
longer-term
and shorter-
term goals.
TIME-
ORIENTED
The goal that
is set must be
something you
are willing
and able to
work toward
The goal
cannot be
someone else’s
goal.
REALISTIC
Is the goal
reasonable
enough to be
accomplished?
Make sure the
goal is not out
of reach or
below
standard
performance
ATTAINABLE
From and to
Can you track
the progress
and measure
the outcome
MEASURABLE
Who, What,
Where, When,
Why, Which
Define the
goal as much
as possible,
with no
ambiguous
language
SPECIFIC