3. Teen Parents
Parents under the age of twenty
80% are unmarried
Historically, average age of mother was 19
Mothers were married living with father in more stable family
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4. Stressful Road to Teen Parenthood
Teens’ social backgrounds
Being a child of a teen mother, living in poverty, living in community with a
high level of poverty
Family relationships
Parents are less involved and less affectionate, and monitor less well – with
monitoring, teens headed in the direction of becoming teen parent, avoid
pregnancy
Personality characteristics
8-year-old girls who were described as aggressive or aggressive and
withdrawn were more likely to become teen mothers, also those young girls
who had school and conduct problems
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5. Stressful Road to Teen Parenthood
cont.
Early sexual maturation and high rates of sexual activity
Mothers had high rates of being sexually abused
Teen fathers have experienced many of same qualities as
mothers
From low income families in which parents have antisocial behaviors
Parents used ineffective disciplinary and monitoring strategies so in
early adolescents boys engaged in rule-breaking behaviors, had
school problems
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6. Teen Mothers’ Transition to Parenting
Many mothers had negative reactions when first learned of
pregnancy as did their mothers; later many would say child
saved their lives by forcing them to lead a healthier, more
organized lives in order to care for their child*
In study of African American mothers’ transitions to
motherhood, family members were often disappointed,
sometimes angry, sometimes overwhelmed with the idea of
another person to feed
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7. Teen Mothers’ Transition to Parenting
cont.
About half of teen fathers were positive about birth, 25%
negative, and 14% denied paternity
Teen mothers were negative about changes in appearance and
loss of freedom, and felt like old ladies
From positive family support, teen mothers got confidence and
also saw a model for giving support to child
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8. Mothers’ Relationships with Their
Mothers
After birth, mothers most often lived with their mothers
because of 1996 legislation requiring young mother to live with
parent or guardian
Three types of relationship with grandmothers
Grandmother replaced teen mother in child care
Assist teen mothers and supplement care
Assist teen mother and teach how to be good mothers – teen
mother became an apprentice
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9. Mothers’ Relationships with Their
Mothers
Two-year study following African American teen mothers and
their babies in three-generation households, found that
When grandmothers were direct and demanding in an atmosphere
of low conflict with teens, mothers were not harsh or controlling
with their babies
When grandmothers respected and granted autonomy to teens,
mothers were positive and nurturing with babies
Grandmothers had the tasks of encouraging growing initiative and
autonomy while also teaching and modeling role of caregiver
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10. Mothers’ Relationships with Their
Mothers cont.
When grandmothers take pride in their daughters’ growing
maturity, relationships are most effective
Grandmothers felt they were left out of intervention and say they
want more training in child development and groups to talk to
other grandmothers
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11. Transition to Parenting Seen in Study of
Latina Families
Prenatal stresses were financial stress of new baby, unplanned
nature of birth
Contrary to other groups, Latina teen mothers’ preparation for
parenthood predicted difficulties later rather than positive
behaviors
Conflict was lower and cohesion higher when Latina families
emphasized strong family values and obligations and traditional
gender beliefs and teens gained status and power in family by
becoming mothers
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12. Relationships with Babies’ Fathers
Parents are often romantically involved though not married and
fathers often stay involved – only 12% of African American
fathers have no contact with children compared to 30% of
European American fathers
Fathers see their main role as providers, but teen fathers have
little to give and parents have to work together to see that
limited means are spread to different families
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13. Teen Fathers
Fathers want to be providers to their children and being
involved with children made them more likely to be providers
Fathers need all the training that mothers need, especially with
relating to crying babies as they find infant crying very
distressing
Couples groups of the kinds the Cowans developed have been
helpful to unmarried couples
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14. Resilient Teen Parenting
Mothers’ cognitive readiness to have children predicts
children’s cognitive, academic and socioemotional competence
at age 10
Cognitive readiness is prebirth measure based on:
Mother’s knowledge about children and their development
Mother’s expectations of her children
Mother’s style of responding to children
Mother’s attitudes about being pregnant
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15. Resilient Teen Parenting
Post-birth instability based on three measures:
Number of residence changes
Number of school changes
Number of mothers’ partners
Post-birth Instability is negatively related to reading scores and
children’s behavioral problems
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16. Resilient Teen Parenting cont.
Process of resilient mothers and children is:
Mothers’ prebirth characteristics are positive with mothers’ ability to
learn, no history of abuse or substance abuse, support from father,
friends, and parents
Mothers’ pre-birth characteristics combined with infants’ characteristics
predicted effective parenting
Child’s relationship with mother was most important source of
support but three other factors offered support:
Relationship with father
Family’s religious involvement
Children’s participation in sports and community activities
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17. Factors Identified in Other Studies of
Effective Teen Parenting
Mothers were more child-centered
Mothers were more authoritative in parenting, praising children
and communicating rules in a positive way
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18. Risks of Teen Parenting
If stress is high and teens do not get more education and
support, their expectations of children are unrealistic, and as a
result their parenting is insensitive and unresponsive
Although babies of teen mothers are healthy and do well in
infancy, socioemotional difficulties are seen as 63% of babies in
one study have insecure attachments
In toddler years, children may have language problems and
cognitive delays at age 3
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19. Risks of Teen Parenting cont.
In one study, 72% had one area of delay at age 3; 44% had two
or more areas of delay, and language, cognitive, and social-
emotional problems continued in school and adolescence
When many risks are present in years of growing up, many girls
are likely to become teen mothers
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20. Programs for Teen Parents
Three kinds of programs
Preventing first teen pregnancy – providing other activities
and knowledge to prevent pregnancy
Helping teens cope with pregnancy, birth, and caregiving of
children
Helping teens negotiate transition to adulthood with jobs
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22. American Partner Relationships in
International Perspective *
Americans marry and cohabit sooner than couples in other Western
countries (Europe and Canada, New Zealand, and Australia)
Marriage and cohabiting relationships more fragile in US than
Western countries – both married and cohabiting couples less likely to
be together after 5 years
American children more likely to see parents’ relationships break-up
than children in other countries – about 40% of married parents and
75% of cohabiting parents will not be together when children are 15
compared to percentages in the 20s in other Western countries
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23. American Partner Relationships in
International Perspective cont.
Concern is that children’s lives are less stable in US whether
parents are married or cohabiting or single, and many changes
require adaptation that may divert energy from the process of
growth and development
With regard to births to unmarried mothers, our 40% rate is
about in the middle of western countries with Scandinavian
countries being higher and Spain, Italy, lower and Japan with
the lowest – about 2%**
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24. Characteristics of Unmarried,
Cohabiting, and Single Mothers
When women are single or cohabiting, resources available to
them and their children are more limited
Jason DeParle in an article, “Two Classes, Divided by ‘I Do,’” a
New York Times, July 15, 2012, A1 details how a father’s time
and financial contributions change the lives of family members
when mothers have similar jobs and incomes.
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25. Supports Are Essential to Deal with
Added Responsibilities and Stresses
The increased stresses come from many sources: poverty, lower
maternal education so jobs are low-paying, fathers’ inability to
help because of incarceration
Interestingly, the level of depression was about the same in all
three groups of mothers
When single mothers reported that they had a person who
could lend money, offer a place to stay, or provide emergency
child care, mothers reported less anxiety and children had fewer
worries
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26. Coparents for Single Mothers
Single African American mothers who reported they had a positive
coparenting figure, were warmer in their relationships with children,
more consistent in monitoring, and mothers reported children had
higher grades, and fewer social problems than when coparent
relationship had conflicts
Coparent figures were maternal grandmothers (31%), fathers (26%),
maternal aunts (11%), older sisters (11%), and others (21%)
Mothers who had good relationships with fathers prior to the dissolution,
get along better after dissolution
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27. Coparents for Single Mothers cont.
A major factor interfering with supportive relationships with
biological fathers is mothers’ distrust of men – 96% of mothers
in one study – 75% of women who did not form trusting
relationships had been abused as children whereas 31% of
those who formed trusting relationships reported abuse – those
who worked through feelings of mistrust were more likely to
form stable relationships in future
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28. Mothers’ Optimism
Mothers who have optimistic temperaments and focus on what
is positive in life are able to maintain warm relationships with
children, and manage their behaviors effectively so children
achieve in academically and enjoy school
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29. Children of Unmarried Parents
Children take many paths to adulthood and no one outcome
characterizes them all
Limited finances and many family changes create parental strain
that makes parenting difficult and that impacts children’s
behavior
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30. Young Children of Unmarried Parents
In early childhood, across all ethnic groups, partner changes,
that are greater in single parent families, predict increases in
children’s depressed and anxious moods and the greater the
number of partner changes, the more depressed, anxious the
moods
Living with unmarried parents, regardless of the level of
stability, was related to increases in aggressive behaviors
The stability of cohabiting parents minimized the development
of aggressive behaviors
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31. Older Children of Unmarried Parents
Both single and cohabiting parents report their children, ages 6
to 17, have
Greater number of school difficulties
More worries and anxieties
And in high school, more noncompliant and rule-breaking behavior
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32. Protective Factors for Children
Protective factors in child were positive sociability and
attentiveness
Protective factors in mother were effectiveness as parent and
low level of depression
Protective factors in parenting were positive parent-child
relationship and father involvement
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33. Protective Factors for Children cont.
Protective factors in the larger social context were social
support and few difficult life experiences
All the protective factors predicted children’s cognitive and
social competence in preschool years except father’s
involvement
Only child’s qualities and positive parent-child relationship
predicted school readiness with absence of harsh discipline
being most important predictor of later well-being
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34. Factors Predicting Adult Outcome for
Children
Children in stable living conditions got more education and were
economically self-sufficient and independent in adult life
Stability could be achieved in many ways:
Being adopted by two parents
Living in stable single parent family
Living in a three-generational family with parent and grandparent
Living with grandparents without parent did not predict adult stability
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35. Programs to Promote Parents’ and
Children’s Effectiveness
Many interventions have been employed to intervene with parents
Increasing mothers’ economic resources by collecting child support
from fathers but many do not have income
Encouraging marriage between unmarried parents but in the absence of
skills for solving conflicts and dealing with substance abuse and
psychological difficulties, that has not been successful
Focus of interventions has shifted to improving parents’ relationships by
developing emotional coping skills and problem-solving strategies so
whether they stay together or separate, they can work together to
parent children
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36. Programs to Promote Parents’ and
Children’s Effectiveness cont.
A second group of interventions has focused on providing more
services directly to the families – health care, food stamps, job
skills training for parents
Third group of interventions focuses on providing services for
children’s development with home visiting programs, high-
quality preschool programs
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37. Support of Single Motherhood
In a forthcoming book, In Praise of Messy Lives, journalism
professor Katie Roiphe, a single mother with two children by
two fathers, says unmarried parenthood is not the threat to
American society, it is an economy that does not generate
enough jobs so young men can work and contribute to the
families they have created, even if they do not live in them
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38. Single Mothers by Choice
This is a small advantaged group of women who have made
conscious choice to have child alone, well educated group,
often with good incomes, and many make choices that support
parenting – moving close to family who can provide support
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39. Children of Single Mothers by Choice
Carefully controlled study compared children of single parents and
married couples where samples were matched on income, education,
residence, and gender of child
In preschool years, single mothers reported more stress from working
longer hours, and were more worried about finances than mothers in
married families – Most important difference was that single mothers
had fewer social and emotional supports
In preschool mothers, observations of mother-child interactions
revealed few differences in two groups except that single mothers
were observed to have a harder time managing sons who were more
noncompliant
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40. Children of Single Mothers by Choice
cont.
In preschool, teachers, however, described children of single mothers
as less socially competent, less successful academically, and more
problematic in behavior
Stressful life events affected children directly by upsetting them and
indirectly by affecting mothers’ patience and positive approach – both
teachers and mothers described school-aged children in high stress
single parent homes as having most difficulties
When children lived in single parent home low in stress, their behavior
was similar to that of children in two-parent families
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41. Fathers’ Contributions to Children’s
Development
Fathers’ presence and psychological contributions are
important no matter what the family structure and fathers’
absence is more important than what caused it
Children gain by seeing a model of two parents who cooperate,
negotiate, and compromise and present a consistent authority
to children that helps children accept and internalize rules
Parents need not be married to do this but they must be stable
figures who put children’s welfare first
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42. Fathers’ Contributions to Children’s
Development cont.
When parents are not together, fathers must be psychological
presence who nurtures children – if he remains a fun figure who
does not take an active parenting role, his presence is less
important
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43. Unmarried Nonresident Fathers
Are more likely to stay highly involved if they have positive
relationship with mothers
When romantic relationship with mother ends, father is less
involved parent, and becomes more involved if romance is
rekindled
Extended families promote ongoing involvement of fathers
when they positively support both parents
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44. Unmarried Nonresident Fathers
Because often parents do attachments to each other but are
thought to lack skills in maintaining relationships, interventions
have focused on increasing parents’ relationship skills and even
if tie between parents does not continue, they can use these
skills to coparent
Unmarried fathers who contribute to children’s care or live with
mother and children make constructive life changes and
become more stable and mature
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45. Social Fathers
Social fathers who live with mothers though not biological
fathers can have positive impact in children’s lives, reducing
aggressive behaviors in children and increasing health
Social fathers did not diminish relationship with biological
fathers but complimented it
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46. Encouraging Father Participation
James Levine says he has learned three lessons about fathers
They want to be involved and can be effective parents with
preparation and help
Single fathers need a support network that guides their behavior
Women play a key role in supporting men as fathers
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