Freshen up and dress appropriately for the occasion. Even if you are going out for a casual dinner, ...

1. How To Handle Yourself On The First Date
Freshen up and dress appropriately for the occasion. Even if you are going out for a casual dinner,
dress nicely. Do not wear sweats or yoga pants. Look your best by taking time to do your hair and
nails. Make sure your clothes fit comfortably. If your clothes are uncomfortable during the date, you
won't be able to focus on him or the conversation. So do not try to squeeze into jeans that are too
tight. Also, wear perfume. Scents can linger with a man's senses even after the date. Just don't go
overboard and wear too much, as some perfumes can be overpowering.
If you want to know her, it's vital that you begin with sharing information about yourself. Talk about
where you are from, your school, number of people in your family, college, your job, and share other
basic information. Talk about your friends and find out whether you have common friends or any
common long distant relatives. This will lead you to a conversation, which will bring out your
backgrounds and your history.
The obvious series of questions after knowing each
other in brevity, are the ones that talk about your likes
and dislikes. Questions such as 'what is your favorite
book?', 'what is your favorite cuisine?', and so on will
tell you about each other's likes in a bit more detail,
than just a one word answer. At this juncture, you
need to be an active listener and share your likes and
dislikes too, if you wish to get to know her better.
As you get talking about your likes and dislikes, it will lead to conversations about funny incidences,
anecdotes and discussions. The tactful thing to do here is, allow the other person to talk more, while
you play the role of an active listener, effectively. Discussions will bring forth her opinions and
judgments, which is an excellent way of knowing a person. Keep the bone of contention light, to
avoid heated arguments. Having fun is more important than winning a debate.

2. No. This does not mean you ask her what
is her plan after your date. Talk about
your jobs, your professions, career
ambitions and life goals. Ask her
questions about her dream job and how
does she plan to get it. No matter how
small dreams are, they define a person to
a large extent. So, share your dreams and
listen to what she has to say. If you both
share the same dream, there's no reason
why you wouldn't click!
Commenting on people around is an activity all of us love to indulge in! We all are a little judgmental
under our skin. So, take this opportunity and turn it into a topic on your first date. For fun sake,
observe people around you. Look at what they are wearing, what they are eating, who they are with,
and what they are doing and make improvisational stories around it. This activity is brilliant fun and
stretches your imagination to a whole new level. Try it out!

3. Strictly refrain any innuendos,
excessive flirting, baggage of past
relationships, and profanity. These
will totally put off a woman and you'll
lose your chance. Hope these
suggestions have helped you out
figure what to talk about on a first
date. Lastly, dress well and smell
good, because most of us do fall for
looks first.
What ever way you propose, always
insist that she should say 'yes' loud
and clear. Don't take it for granted her
gesture as 'yes'. It is also a good idea
to talk to her about your intention and
learn her thought. Don't forget your
line. There is no harm to keep a piece
of paper in which you have written
your lines. You can edit the famous
line of Romeo and Juliet or you may
create your own line. There is nothing
wrong in just saying 'I propose you to
be my wife'.
The fact is that the quiet single man
you want to meet might have met
many females before, different women
who portend different things to them.
However, they have not been serious
with any of them, which just tell you
that they are not ready to fall in love with them. They want to begin dating a particular brand of
woman who will not only ignite their sexual feelings, but also be a comfort and a fellow sojourner in
the rough edges of life. The single men must have had sexual intercourse with different women
before, so don't think you are the first one, or that you can coerce him using sex.