4. Logical: Confidence
Self Ownership
Acceptance
temporary circumstances
career, relationships, physical
dependency on the opinion of others/be depending on others to tell you who you are/labels
love who you are, what you do, and what you look like
always comparing themselves to others; compare puts them at the weak end. ignore that is great and pick one thing they lack
emphasize your good qualities, addressing your flaws, and improving your appearance to show that your looks matter to you
Be positive
Trust Yourself
belief that you can handle a certain situation correctly
think that doing wrong making mistakes/Accept mistakes without criticizing or labeling yourself
develop belief in your opinions and ideas
judge yourself without referring to others but face reality. know yourself better than someone who's only known you for few months and so your opinion about yourself will probably be the most
relevant
have a solid knowledge of your abilities and who you are
write your strengths and weaknesses. editing this. read it daily until you are really sure that what you wrote down are your real abilities and skills.
heroes journey
simplified
"I am the hero"
5. Logical: Confidence
Conviction
unshakeable belief in self
have conviction to gain respect
Power begins in the mind. If you feel confident and powerful, others feel it
don't be arrogant, don't be timid or scared
Knowledge
knowing you don't lack any skills in order to successfully complete a task
mastery over something will change the way you feel about and carry yourself
Expertise, marks you as someone with resources, and with enough perseverance to plunge to depths of a subject.
know the benefit of something that you do regularly, you will be much more confident talking about it and doing it than if you were just doing it out of
habit
why are you doing the things you do?
what you say is important
show that you're curious too while appearing confident
Don't critique, focus on the things you love, which will engage people and make them want to be around you
Speak at a relaxed pace and speak clearly
Vary your tone, rhythm, volume, and pitch to emphasize your most important words and to keep your speech interesting.
develop public speaking skills, to speak clearly and confidently
6. Logical: Confidence
Conviction
Be self-assured in every scenario
you don't share doubts that plague people.
Act as if you know where you are going, even if you aren't 100% sure
fake it, 'till you make it
being okay with what you do and who you are, no matter what that means
People like confident individuals, even if their other qualities are less attractive
Pursuit of something higher than yourself
live with purpose
Pick a cause, a goal, a vision and live it
People long for something to believe in
believe in it so strongly for that it animates your gesture
you're alive to do something
7. Logical: Confidence
Confidence Bank
Something you build up, like a point system
"success build on successes"
using your strengths more, set and achieve small goals, develop the
knowledge and skills to do your job effectively.
lack of confidence is associated with negative self talk. Stop negative
words and phrases and replace them with positive ones will increase your
confidence
list all the good things
8. Logical: Confidence
Exude confidence
Project Confidence
have purpose, passion and self-confidence. stand tall, sit up straight and have excellent posture in
general. speak more slowly and slightly lower your tone. Speak clearly and with conviction. This will
make you come across as more authoritative.
put others at ease and inspire faith in your abilities
Self-assurance gives you an irresistible aura that draws people in and makes them want to get to
know you better
Flexibility
understanding, but firm
don't contradict, to push belief
Be the host
everywhere
what do you do when you have people over your house?
make them feel comfortable in your home