MARGINALIZATION (Different learners in Marginalized Group
Planning for end of life
1. Your values, your wishes, your dignity
Donna Clare RN MN
Nurse Practitioner,
Faculty, Athabasca University
February 2014
2. We will discuss:
•Why planning is important
•What you need to consider
•How to plan for end of life care decisions
•Who to include in the discussion and how
3. Why bother?
•Often there are choices to be made
•Family members often disagree
•Treatments have consequences
•Prolonging life vs prolonging dying
•Control over your own life
4. Two basic choices:
•What you want
•What you don’t want
Based on:
•Belief systems (life, death, purpose)
•Personal values (preferences, dignity)
•Character traits (coping, feelings)
•Personal limits (pain, suffering, change)
5. •What is legal and illegal?
•How much (pain, loss, indignity, treatment) is okay/not
okay?
•How do I prefer to die?
•In what circumstances are tubes, machines and
resuscitation okay and not okay?
•Who will speak for me when I cannot?
6. •Active Euthanasia is not legal in Canada
•Assisted suicide is not legal in Canada
•Allowing normal processes to proceed
without intervention is legal
•Withdrawing earlier interventions is tricky
but not illegal
7. •How do I want to live?
•What is worth going through to continue
to live? Will it prolong my life in a
meaningful way?
•How much ________is okay/not okay?
8. •How do I want to die?
•When does prolonging life
become prolonging dying? (Does
this concept have any real meaning
to me?)
•Where do I want to die?
9. •In what circumstances
are tubes, machines and resuscitation
okay and not okay?
What about organ donation?
10. Who will speak for me when I cannot?
Health Care Proxy
Substitute Decision-maker
Medical Power of Attorney
Health Care agent
Durable power of attorney for health
How can I direct them regarding my wishes?
Who should know my wishes?
11. Power of Attorney – financial/legal
Will – written instructions about your
estate and sometimes burial details.
Health Care Proxy – health care decisions
Living Will/ Advanced Directive – written
instructions for catastrophic or end of life
decision-making
12. Should have knowledge about your wishes
and the type of person you are
Should direct care the way YOU would if you
could - sometimes that means someone who
can make these decisions and fight for you
Should listen carefully, ask questions and
consider your wishes when making decisions.
Should act in YOUR best interest.
13. It provides guidance to family, health care
personnel and your proxy when a decision must
be made. It may decrease family tensions.
Address non-medical ideas, too: what are your
fears (alone, pain, losing control, abandoned,….)
A living will should ideally be made when the
person is healthy and of sound mind.
And it should, ideally, be signed, dated and
witnessed by 2 people
14. •Your health care proxy
•Family members
•Your lawyer
•Your physician or Nurse Practitioner
•A health care facility
•You should name your health care proxy
and an alternative in writing; in this or a
separate document, signed dated and
witnessed.
15. If I, as proxy, stop or refuse treatment I will be
“giving up” on them.
What will others think of me if I decide to stop
aggressive treatment?
If I have a will or living will, I will bring death on.
If I have a living will, they will let me go sooner.
Does stopping treatment mean stopping care?
Dying from lack of food and fluids is painful
What if I make the wrong decision?
16. •Express your feeling of helplessness
should something happen
•Express your need to honour their wishes
but you need to know what they are
•Bring up an experience and explore their
perspectives
•Small bites versus the big talk