For those who aspire to improve their Personality

1. Build Your Personality
By M Saravanan MA M Phil
English Teacher

2. Admiration and Your Identity
 Who is your hero in life?
 You imitate what your hero does / says / and follows his words blindly
 What do you like to do often?
 You do it even if your parents/friends dislike it
 Who is your favourite cricketer/ writer/ leader?
 You talk about him very often (you defend him when someone speaks ill of him)
 What is your opinion of life?
 You advocate (impose) your opinion about life to others
 What are your hobbies?
 You may take pride in your hobbies

3. Way of life
 Your hero may fade away from your heart or may not
 You convince others or you are convinced by others
 Your view is objective
 You learn to accept others’ views
 They become part of your life

4. Assess your personality (I)
 Are you sociable?
 Are you concerned about others?
 Do you listen to others?
 Are you informative?
 Are you polite?
 Are you trust-worthy?
 And so on…….

5. Assess your personality (II)
 Are you progressing towards your goal?
 Are you aware of your political scenario?
 Do you love your job?
 Would you like to collaborate your work with others?
 Are you receptive to new ideas?
 How many books have you read so far in this year?
 How many times do you visit your college library in a day?

6. Build your Personality
 Say hello to every one with a smile
 Be duty conscious
 Talk high of others
 Be courteous
 Tell jokes (keep it short)
 Forge a healthy relationship with your colleagues
 Be diplomatic
 Show your gratitude

7. Social Quotient
 Man is a social animal
 He has to live as a group (society)
 Therefore, one has to be sociable despite differences
 Solve problems amicably
 If one has to express one’s disappointment/anger (strong emotions) do it tactfully