IT professionals usually focus technology. Team Management is usually weak. This is 2 hours session for IT professionals about good behaviors that will motivate your team.
2. Bird eye view
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Managerial Skills
Good boss/bad boss
Natural temptation of Humans
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Skills improve life-long
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Caring / sincere
Respectful behavior
Encouragement
Delegate
Communicate effectively
Good Listener
Secrete to adopt these skills
3. Scenario – at restaurant
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Mother and son enters into
a restaurant.
Mother order orange juice
for son
While drinking orange juice
son drops glass, fell on
ground and breaks.
What would you do if you were a
manager/owner
Managing people
Needs practices, this can be
learned
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4. Which team you like to lead . .
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Energy in team ?
Motivated ?
Fight to win ?
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6. Managerial Skills
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Technical
o Specific expertise:
- Engineering
- Finance
- Accounting
- Administration
- Computer Science
Conceptual
or Intellectual
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o
o
o
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Planning
Organizing
Controlling
Coordination
Problem-solving &
Decision-making
Negotiation
Time management
Human
or Interpersonal
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o
o
o
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Communication
Delegation
Negotiation
Motivation
Team-building
Rewarding
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7. 7
Significance of Managerial
Skills
Top Mg’mt
Level
Middle Mg’mt
Level
Supervisory
Level
Conceptual
Conceptual
Conceptual
Human
Human
Human
Technical
Technical
Technical *
* Technical skills are not so important for the chief executives
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12. Who is good/ not-good
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What is the difference?
It is not what they are it is what
makes them a good or bad boss.
they do
Good manager will do something different
from an ordinary manger so that people
start following them.
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14. Natural temptation of Humans
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Caring
/ Sincere
Respectful Behavior
Encouragement (appreciating)
Mastery on subject (technical skill)
Delegating (expansion & growth)
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15. Managing Team
Caring / Sincere
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I am NOT responsible for the growth of my
team members.
They work here and get
work.
paid for their
Team want to improve their skills, do it in
their own time and resource; not
company's time and resource.
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16. Managing Team
Caring / Sincere
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You care about your kids and family do the
same for your team
You should be really sincere not pretending
Give them right advice and guidance
Look for their growth in their career
Just increase your - domain - of
caring
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17. Managing Team
Respectful Behavior
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I complain about individual’s poor
performance with other team
members.
My normal behavior is rude (badmannered)
I am always unhappy with my team.
I do not miss a opportunity to insult
them.
Can I manage my team effectively
?
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18. Managing Team
Respectful Behavior
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When you make someone feel important,
you gain their willingness to work for you
Work culture in which employees believe they
are respected is more productive and
effective.
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19. Managing Team
Trust
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Mutual trust is the basis for creating
healthy work environments.
Trust forms the foundation for
retention, and motivation.
Trust must be earned, and integrity
must be proven over time.
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20. Managing Team
What is Trust ?
Stephen Covey
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Trust is confidence born of two dimensions
character and competence.
Character includes your integrity, motive, and
intent with people.
Competence includes your capabilities, skills,
results, and track record. Both dimensions are
vital.
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21. Managing Team
Mastery on subject
(technical skill)
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Leader is knowledgeable
Team does not follow a manager who has less
knowledge on the subject.
Manager must have excellent knowledge on
their area of specialization.
Manager need to make conscious efforts to be
on top of that subject.
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22. Managing Team
Encouragement
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Make them feel proud of the job they
are doing.
Praise
the person
Provide guidance
Let them know they are doing a good job
Learn what team want
Individual
or team recognition
Routine tasks or constant challenges
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24. Managing Team
Delegate (expansion & growth)
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Delegation is a requisite of good supervision.
It supports trust and confidence in those you supervise
and enables them to handle the tasks that will free you to
do more important work.
Successful LEADER gets things done through others.
• Do not fall into the pitfalls of being fearful of
delegation.
• Unwillingness to delegate may be a psychological
problem involving in-security.
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25. Managing Team
Delegate (expansion & growth)
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Understand the purpose of delegating. Three basic
objectives:
1. Get the job done
2. Free yourself for other work
3. Have your team benefit by learning and experiencing what you
have been doing.
Decide specifically what you can delegate.
Generally delegate as much of your work as possible.
Do yourself only what no else can do.
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27. Managing Team
Communicate Effectively
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How do you behave/act if listen to bad news.
How would you inform your family members, a
very close person has died?
What if there is big-time failure in the project,
what will you do?
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28. Managing Team
Communicate Effectively
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I need that report by 9:00 am
tomorrow.
. . Do you understand
Can I have that report by 9:00 am tomorrow.
I have important meeting with CEO.
It is very important for me to show that report.
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29. Managing Team
Communicate Effectively
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It matters not so much what
it does how you say it.
you say as
Your communication style is a SET of
various behaviors and methods of
relaying information that impact all facets
of life.
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31. Managing Team
Passive Communication
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Little risk involved – very safe.
Allowing our own rights to be violated by failing
to express our honest feelings.
The goal of being a passive communicator is to
avoid conflict no matter what.
Little eye contact, often defers to others’
opinions, usually quiet tone, may suddenly
explode after being passive too long.
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32. Managing Team
Aggressive Communication
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It is risky in terms of relationships. The goal of the
aggressor is to win at all costs; to be right.
Protecting one’s own rights at the expense of others’
rights – no exceptions.
Does not consider actions a risk because this person
thinks they will always get their way.
Eye contact is angry and intimidating; lots of energy;
loud and belittling; never defers to others, or at least
does not admit to; manipulative and controlling.
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33. Managing Team
Assertive Communication
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Protecting your own rights without violating
the rights of others.
The goal of the assertive person is to
communicate with respect and to
understand each other; to find a solution to
the problem.
Takes a risk with others in the short run,
but in the long run relationships are much
stronger.
Eye contact maintained; listens and
validates others; confident and strong, yet
also flexible; objective and un-emotional; Team
Managing
35. Managing Team
Communicate Effectively
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How to handle situation when somebody is
angry
Allow the caller to vent
Remain calm and courteous, do not
argue
Do not interrupt
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Apologize when appropriate
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37. Managing Team
Good Listener
(Effective Communication) Covey
Stephen
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People do not like to talking to walls
You need to understand others (by listening)
before being understood by other.
Listening involves patience, openness, and
the desire to understand.
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38. Managing Team
Good Listener
(Effective Communication)
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Good listening is key to diagnose a problem.
Listening is tool to increase knowledge.
Ask good questions and take notes.
Do not judge what the other person is saying.
Repeat back to the other person what they just
said but in your own words.
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40. Believe in yourself
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How many of you know swimming?
What was the first time. I cannot do that and
after some practice you can swim.
Same is the case with driving bi-cycle or a car
You can do job only if you
can do that.
believe that you
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41. Self Assessment & adaptation
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I have done PMP, ITIL, CBAP or any other
certification. I have the knowledge and
certification of these things.
But still my performance does not get better.
Why?
I attended Time Management workshop but it
does not improve my time management. Why?
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I am not an HR-Expert. I am in IT for 24-years.I am here to share my experience of handling 50-60 people team. I share what has worked for me. Participants has the right to disagreeMy assumption = Technical People normally put their efforts in learning technology.Their entire focus on learning technology.Their people handling is generally weak - only few exceptions. Technical people face challenges managing peopleFor changing your actions you first have change your believe. I will discuss that during presentation, where you need to change your believe Anybody know Yvonne Ridley (reverted 2003) Smoke, drink-alcohol, eat-pork
These contents will 4-5 hours to cover. I have reduced it to cover in 90-minutes. Theme of this session is realize, think about our actions. We already know theses things. So what is the issue / problem ? ? Team Management means managing people’s behavior, mood and emotions Behavior are different – whyI need to act according to their personality Focus of today’s session is on Human Skills onlyLast agenda item is problem for people like me – How to adopt We start our session by a scenario - -
Lesson = Handling ego and Emotions of mother & sonWill enable you have more salesNo problem -pls sit on other table so that kid does not get hurtand order another juice (control your anger) Mother will come next time for sureMother will tell friends – how good is the behavior of the restaurant staffyou need to learn and practice any tool to become a good programmer Leadership can be learned and practiced
Consistent in performance Producing desired resultsPerformance depends upon Satisfaction (feelings) Motivation (enjoy) Skills / experience
We will discuss some basics of Managerial skills to develop a basic concepts of discussion We will briefly discuss Three-Skill Approach given by Robert Katz, 1955Robert Katz has discussed three - but our focus is limited to Human Skill only
Broadly three categories of skillsMentioned in HR courses/ literature Our session will discuss only Interpersonal part – third part only I am sure you heard of Technical Manager and Project Managers Here technical means Functional expertIf you are an IT head, you must have good knowledge of IT, for sureBut you need to learn few things to control or manage people or HumansCustomer are human, team consist of humanIf I cannot manage humans- it is difficult to grow in my career
How many are from middle – management?This training focuses on Middle Management. And their Human/interpersonal skills This slide us based on research. What is your opinion about this slide (Correct) First few slides are to understand why – Why we need to learn people’s management.Do you need Technical knowledge and equally Human skills ?What we have established so far?Handling people can be learnedOther than functional knowledge I need . . .Not establused but discussed - For actions we need to change our belive
I would like participants to realize few facts before we move forward.I will show some pictures and would like to know your opinion.Disclaimer: no intention to insult somebody or humiliate anybody Since I don’t know your colleques. I cannot generalize things for each individual. I mean who is good and not good People develop opinions or perceptions Are these perceptions important in our relationship?
I do not want to insult anybodyWhat qualities that comes to your mind ? ? Write on papers and display Trust worthy, Honest Sincere with people You have some perceptions about these peopleWe see some more pictures in next slide - - -
What qualities they have?Hamdarad, Pakistan, Ali-Garh, 10-times world championWrite on papers and display - Trust worthy - Honest, hard wokring- Sincere with people Commitment It is not who they areIt is what they DO
What type of people would you follow?First type or the second type?This training is more about realization of personal weakness in Handling people.As team member why would you follow somebody . . . What inspire you ?Perhaps people have qualities that inspire usThat is the reason we follow them. Listen to them, trust them
What different they do, we will see that in next few slides.Do you somebody in your family or neighborhood or in officeYou label them as GOOD, honest and sincere and caring Why do you do that?We will see some actions that create enemies and some create good relationships.
Participants already know these.It is to review and to establish a fact that human like certain behaviors. We will see few techniques to manage team effectively Rule of the GAME - You need to challenge these – all are wrong What is our natural behavior of humans? [Enter]Watching these pictures makes you SMILEIf someone is behaving badly – my behavior would be negativeRemember the restaurant scenarioMother & son want orange juice
This is no secretAs human being we like those behavior We need to have each of these skillsPractice it repeated time to make it habitThat is only way you can take benefit from these skills if they become your habit
This is real example from my experienceAny guess - What is the believe of this type of boss? ?Would team members be motivated and appreciate it?Does anybody face staff loyalty in jobs? . . . If I train them they will leave me.Real example from my work Ever seen a kid or brother leave you? . . . They are loyal to you whyBecause of caring behavior . . . Yes/No
Zaid bin Haris was a slave. Muhammad (saw) freed him and gave him the choice to go with his father, who had come, to take him, but he refused to go with his father and preferred to stay with the Prophet. Ex: I am a training company but NOT provide training to my own team. I assume that team will learn and leave company.I am a in-secure person. I should not impart every knowledge with my team.Does the owner of Co will says that I will not educate my kids they will become independent they will leave me?Normally we have 2 sets of rules - Official rules and Family rules
Does it really matter to you that someone gives you respect or notPerformance is not satisfactory - but insult will not bring desired result.What you should DO? What if your son failed in one subject. Insult will further de-moralize him.You have to provide help in that subject.Similarly if somebody does the mistake you need to identify his mistake politely and guide him/her
Example: BA is developed SRS, you discuss mistakes in SRS and give advice . . do not say you do know how to write SRS What will be your reaction . . . if somebody treat you nicely.Never insult anybody . . . should be your habit.
Warren Buffet= Honesty is very expensive gift. Do not expect it from cheap people.Boss should have faith and trust in people who work for himI am sure you know what one should do to earn Trust?Trustworthiness leads to TrustStory from Stephen Covey – mother went to doctor and ask doctor to tell my son to stop eating sugar
Stephen Covey writes the same thing in different words , normally we focus on character side of trust. Think a person is sincere and honest, but you will not trust that person fully if he or she does has expertise and skills A person might have great skills and talents and a good track record, but if he or she is not honest, you are not going to trust that person either.Will see in next slide, you must knowledge
I hope you all agree with that statement.Have you ever had a manager who was not knowledgeable. People do not follow somebody - who is NOT knowledgeable than them. If I watch TV for 2 hours daily; then I have to reduce that to half and start reading my subject to increase my knowledge
When hard work goes un-noticed, Team would not inclined to repeat the hard-work What if your kid draw a drawing and show that you?Kids needs what - encouragement & guidance A quick email or few words of praise will go a long way in boosting the morale of team.Everybody need encouragement for learning new things – RIGHT? What if trainer/couch says “you stupid, you cannot lean swimming”How would you feel. Same way if you say something similar to you team
My observation is we do not delegate because of our insecurityWe believe that rizk is due to my talent, knowledge and experienceWe believe that cannot move forward if we are honest and helpful bossDelegation is an important management skill.You run one shop. Wish to run 2 or 3 shops What will you do?Example of Hakim Saeed – develop HAMDARD How can you move upward in your career?Delegating is major factor, whether you can handle more responsibility or not
This is mandatory for growth.We do it with our son, but not with salaried employees. Recognize that subordinates will make mistakes. Make sure they understand what they are to do. Ready to take blame for mistakes that may be made by subordinates.
There are few skills we should improve throughout our lives.Not old enough to learn these skillsThese skills are needed at every age.
We all know importance of effective communicationBut what mistake we do?You react based on your natural style- My niece say Gracious when I give her gift. Spanish word – Gracious- does not mean anything for me.Emotions play a strong role in your communication.Do you control your emotions?It is difficult to learn this.
You are a boss and you - Command and you can request Same instructions can be conveyed in two different wayYou will act in your natural style
Example of Passive CommunicationI am defensive “I don’t know.”“Whatever you think.”“You have more experience than I. You decide.”“I’ll go with whatever the group decides.”
Often uses violence or verbal abuse.Example of Aggresive“I don’t know why you can’t see that this is the right way to do it.”“It’s going to be my way or not at all.”“You’re just stupid if you think that will work.”“ “Who cares what you feel. We’re talking about making things work here.”
“So what you’re saying is. . . .”“I can see that this is important to you, and it is also important to me. Perhaps we can talk more respectfully and try to solve the problem.”“I think. . . I feel. . . I believe that. . . .”“I would appreciate it if you. . .”Let me understand your thoughts on this…
With any of these situation – I will tend to behave negatively ?Quote example of Stephen Covey Daughter drop coffee on father’s shirtHow he controlled his emotions
Ask / suggest solutions that you can both agreeExplain clearly do not make unrealistic promises.
What is so important to be good listener?I am manager/leader more knowledgeableWhy should I listen to them. I should only give instructions.
You need to input and process the information somebody is giving you You need to understand what is he sayingIf you DO not listen . . .People will put a label Useless to talk to him Boss impose decisions on us. He does not listenYou make the same decision, but listen to them and convince with logic
A basket-ball coach said With open mouth – you do not learn You transfer information with open mouth You learn only when you listen Repeat back to make sure you understand correctly.I do when I teach in class. Understand the question first before giving any reply
Who can take some benefit from this session?
Believe that - I can do that. I can do that.There are certain habits which are not easy to adopt Controlling your anger Explain 3-4 times when he does not understand you Handling people in a emotional disagreement How to handle failure If you do NOT, you can never do thatEx: Sauda give up on accouting
You know something but you do not adopt it by practicing it meaning it is not your habit. You do not apply in you daily life that is why you do not see any benefits of that knowledge.
Adaptation of team management skills will take time, require efforts. It is life long journey. Keep adopting and make your habits one by one and gradually improve your team handling skills. Mastering a skill will need practice.