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Managing Team
Corporate Training Wing

Asad Ur Rehman
Executive Director
Open Integrated Solutions (Pvt) Ltd
Bird eye view
2

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Managerial Skills
Good boss/bad boss
Natural temptation of Humans
o
o

o
o



Skills improve life-long
o
o



Caring / sincere
Respectful behavior
Encouragement
Delegate
Communicate effectively
Good Listener

Secrete to adopt these skills
Scenario – at restaurant
3







Mother and son enters into a
restaurant.
Mother order orange juice for
son
While drinking orange juice
son drops glass, fell on ground
and breaks.
What would you do if you were a manager/owner
Managing people
Needs practices, this can be learned
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Which team you like to lead . .
4

Energy in team ?
Motivated ?
Fight to win ?

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Managerial Skills

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Managerial Skills
6

Conceptual
or Intellectual

Technical

o Specific expertise:
- Engineering
- Finance
- Accounting
- Administration
- Computer Science

o
o
o
o
o
o
o
o

Planning
Organizing
Controlling
Coordination
Problem-solving &
Decision-making
Negotiation
Time management

Human
or Interpersonal
o
o
o
o
o
o

Communication
Delegation
Negotiation
Motivation
Team-building
Rewarding

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Significance of Managerial Skills
7

Top Mg’mt
Level

Middle Mg’mt
Level

Supervisory
Level

Conceptual

Conceptual

Conceptual

Human
Human

Human

Technical
Technical

Technical *

* Technical skills are not so important for the chief executives

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Good boss / bad boss

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Qualities/abilities they have . . .

?

9

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Qualities/abilities they have . . .

?

10

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11

you

Why would
follow somebody

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Who is good/ not-good
12

What is the difference?




It is not what they are it is what
makes them a good or bad boss.

they do

Good manager will do something different from
an ordinary manger so that people start

following them.
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Natural temptation of Humans
Natural temptation of Humans
14

 Caring

/ Sincere
 Respectful Behavior
 Encouragement (appreciating)
 Mastery on subject (technical skill)
 Delegating (expansion & growth)

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Caring / Sincere
15







I am NOT responsible for the growth of my
team members.

They work here and get

paid for their work.

Team want to improve their skills, do it in their
own time and resource; not company's time and
resource.
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Caring / Sincere
16








You care about your kids and family do the same
for your team
You should be really sincere not pretending
Give them right advice and guidance
Look for their growth in their career

Just increase your - domain - of caring
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Respectful Behavior
17







I complain about individual’s poor
performance with other team members.
My normal behavior is rude (bad-mannered)
I am always unhappy with my team.
I do not miss a opportunity to insult them.

Can I manage my team effectively ?

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Respectful Behavior
18

When you make someone feel important, you
gain their willingness to work for you

Work culture in which employees believe they are
respected is more productive and effective.

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Trust
19







Mutual trust is the basis for creating
healthy work environments.
Trust forms the foundation for retention,
and motivation.
Trust must be earned, and integrity must
be proven over time.
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What is Trust ?

Stephen Covey

20







Trust is confidence born of two dimensions character
and competence.
Character includes your integrity, motive, and intent
with people.
Competence includes your capabilities, skills, results,
and track record. Both dimensions are vital.

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Mastery on subject

(technical skill)

21

Leader is knowledgeable






Team does not follow a manager who has less
knowledge on the subject.
Manager must have excellent knowledge on their
area of specialization.
Manager need to make conscious efforts to be on top
of that subject.
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Encouragement
22



Make them feel proud of the job they are
doing.
 Praise

the person
 Provide guidance
 Let them know they are doing a good job


Learn what team want
 Individual

or team recognition
 Routine tasks or constant challenges
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Delegate (expansion & growth)
23

Delegation is mandatory for
expansions and career growth

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Managing Team

Delegate (expansion & growth)
24

Delegation is a requisite of good supervision.
It supports trust and confidence in those you supervise and
enables them to handle the tasks that will free you to do more
important work.
Successful LEADER gets things done through others.
• Do not fall into the pitfalls of being fearful of delegation.
• Unwillingness to delegate may be a psychological problem
involving in-security.

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Delegate (expansion & growth)
25


Understand the purpose of delegating. Three basic objectives:
1.
2.

Get the job done
Free yourself for other work

3.

Have your team benefit by learning and experiencing what you have
been doing.



Decide specifically what you can delegate.
Generally delegate as much of your work as possible.



Do yourself only what no else can do.



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26

Skills improve life long

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Communicate Effectively
27

How do you behave/act if listen to bad news.
How would you inform your family members, a very
close person has died?
What if there is big-time failure in the project, what
will you do?

Managing Team
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Communicate Effectively
28

I need that report by 9:00 am tomorrow.
. . Do you understand

Can I have that report by 9:00 am tomorrow.
I have important meeting with CEO.
It is very important for me to show that report.

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Communicate Effectively
29





It matters not so much what
does how you say it.

you say as it

Your communication style is a SET of various
behaviors and methods of relaying
information that impact all facets of life.

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Communicate Effectively
30

Normally three styles of communications






Passive Communication
Aggressive Communication
Assertive Communication

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Passive Communication
31









Little risk involved – very safe.
Allowing our own rights to be violated by failing to
express our honest feelings.
The goal of being a passive communicator is to avoid
conflict no matter what.

Little eye contact, often defers to others’ opinions,
usually quiet tone, may suddenly explode after being
passive too long.
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Aggressive Communication
32









It is risky in terms of relationships. The goal of the aggressor is
to win at all costs; to be right.
Protecting one’s own rights at the expense of others’ rights –
no exceptions.
Does not consider actions a risk because this person thinks they
will always get their way.
Eye contact is angry and intimidating; lots of energy; loud
and belittling; never defers to others, or at least does not
admit to; manipulative and controlling.
Managing Team
Managing Team

Assertive Communication
33





Protecting your own rights without violating the
rights of others.
The goal of the assertive person is to
communicate with respect and to understand
each other; to find a solution to the problem.




Takes a risk with others in the short run, but in
the long run relationships are much stronger.
Eye contact maintained; listens and validates
others; confident and strong, yet also flexible;
objective and un-emotional; presents wishes
clearly and respectfully.
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Communicate Effectively
34

Controlling Emotions/anger








If I am time pressured (multiple task incomplete)
Had argument with wife
Boss is not appreciating my hard work
Customer shouted at me
Somebody gave me bad remark;
How would you control your anger ?

Managing Team
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Communicate Effectively
35

How to handle situation when somebody is angry


Allow the caller to vent



Remain calm and courteous, do not argue



Do not interrupt



?

Apologize when appropriate

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Good Listener

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Good Listener

(Effective Communication)

Stephen Covey

37

People do not like to talking to walls





You need to understand others (by listening) before
being understood by other.
Listening involves patience, openness, and the
desire to understand.

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Good Listener

(Effective Communication)

38



Good listening is key to diagnose a problem.



Listening is tool to increase knowledge.



Ask good questions and take notes.



Do not judge what the other person is saying.



Repeat back to the other person what they just said
but in your own words.

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39

Secrete

to adopt these

skills
Believe in yourself
40

How many of you know swimming?







What was the first time. I cannot do that and after
some practice you can swim.
Same is the case with driving bi-cycle or a car

You can do job only if you
do that.

believe that you can
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Self Assessment & adaptation
41







I have done PMP, ITIL, CBAP or any other
certification. I have the knowledge and certification
of these things.
But still my performance does not get better. Why?

I attended Time Management workshop but it does
not improve my time management. Why?
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Adopting these skills
42

Practice
. . and more practice
and more practice . .

until it become
your behavior
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43

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Managing team 3 sep

  • 1. Managing Team Corporate Training Wing Asad Ur Rehman Executive Director Open Integrated Solutions (Pvt) Ltd
  • 2. Bird eye view 2    Managerial Skills Good boss/bad boss Natural temptation of Humans o o o o  Skills improve life-long o o  Caring / sincere Respectful behavior Encouragement Delegate Communicate effectively Good Listener Secrete to adopt these skills
  • 3. Scenario – at restaurant 3    Mother and son enters into a restaurant. Mother order orange juice for son While drinking orange juice son drops glass, fell on ground and breaks. What would you do if you were a manager/owner Managing people Needs practices, this can be learned Managing Team
  • 4. Which team you like to lead . . 4 Energy in team ? Motivated ? Fight to win ? Managing Team
  • 6. Managerial Skills 6 Conceptual or Intellectual Technical o Specific expertise: - Engineering - Finance - Accounting - Administration - Computer Science o o o o o o o o Planning Organizing Controlling Coordination Problem-solving & Decision-making Negotiation Time management Human or Interpersonal o o o o o o Communication Delegation Negotiation Motivation Team-building Rewarding Managing Team
  • 7. Significance of Managerial Skills 7 Top Mg’mt Level Middle Mg’mt Level Supervisory Level Conceptual Conceptual Conceptual Human Human Human Technical Technical Technical * * Technical skills are not so important for the chief executives Managing Team
  • 8. 8 Good boss / bad boss Managing Team
  • 9. Qualities/abilities they have . . . ? 9 Managing Team
  • 10. Qualities/abilities they have . . . ? 10 Managing Team
  • 12. Who is good/ not-good 12 What is the difference?   It is not what they are it is what makes them a good or bad boss. they do Good manager will do something different from an ordinary manger so that people start following them. Managing Team
  • 14. Natural temptation of Humans 14  Caring / Sincere  Respectful Behavior  Encouragement (appreciating)  Mastery on subject (technical skill)  Delegating (expansion & growth) Managing Team
  • 15. Managing Team Caring / Sincere 15    I am NOT responsible for the growth of my team members. They work here and get paid for their work. Team want to improve their skills, do it in their own time and resource; not company's time and resource. Managing Team
  • 16. Managing Team Caring / Sincere 16     You care about your kids and family do the same for your team You should be really sincere not pretending Give them right advice and guidance Look for their growth in their career Just increase your - domain - of caring Managing Team
  • 17. Managing Team Respectful Behavior 17     I complain about individual’s poor performance with other team members. My normal behavior is rude (bad-mannered) I am always unhappy with my team. I do not miss a opportunity to insult them. Can I manage my team effectively ? Managing Team
  • 18. Managing Team Respectful Behavior 18 When you make someone feel important, you gain their willingness to work for you Work culture in which employees believe they are respected is more productive and effective. Managing Team
  • 19. Managing Team Trust 19    Mutual trust is the basis for creating healthy work environments. Trust forms the foundation for retention, and motivation. Trust must be earned, and integrity must be proven over time. Managing Team
  • 20. Managing Team What is Trust ? Stephen Covey 20    Trust is confidence born of two dimensions character and competence. Character includes your integrity, motive, and intent with people. Competence includes your capabilities, skills, results, and track record. Both dimensions are vital. Managing Team
  • 21. Managing Team Mastery on subject (technical skill) 21 Leader is knowledgeable    Team does not follow a manager who has less knowledge on the subject. Manager must have excellent knowledge on their area of specialization. Manager need to make conscious efforts to be on top of that subject. Managing Team
  • 22. Managing Team Encouragement 22  Make them feel proud of the job they are doing.  Praise the person  Provide guidance  Let them know they are doing a good job  Learn what team want  Individual or team recognition  Routine tasks or constant challenges Managing Team
  • 23. Managing Team Delegate (expansion & growth) 23 Delegation is mandatory for expansions and career growth Managing Team
  • 24. Managing Team Delegate (expansion & growth) 24 Delegation is a requisite of good supervision. It supports trust and confidence in those you supervise and enables them to handle the tasks that will free you to do more important work. Successful LEADER gets things done through others. • Do not fall into the pitfalls of being fearful of delegation. • Unwillingness to delegate may be a psychological problem involving in-security. Managing Team
  • 25. Managing Team Delegate (expansion & growth) 25  Understand the purpose of delegating. Three basic objectives: 1. 2. Get the job done Free yourself for other work 3. Have your team benefit by learning and experiencing what you have been doing.  Decide specifically what you can delegate. Generally delegate as much of your work as possible.  Do yourself only what no else can do.  Managing Team
  • 26. 26 Skills improve life long Managing Team
  • 27. Managing Team Communicate Effectively 27 How do you behave/act if listen to bad news. How would you inform your family members, a very close person has died? What if there is big-time failure in the project, what will you do? Managing Team
  • 28. Managing Team Communicate Effectively 28 I need that report by 9:00 am tomorrow. . . Do you understand Can I have that report by 9:00 am tomorrow. I have important meeting with CEO. It is very important for me to show that report. Managing Team
  • 29. Managing Team Communicate Effectively 29   It matters not so much what does how you say it. you say as it Your communication style is a SET of various behaviors and methods of relaying information that impact all facets of life. Managing Team
  • 30. Managing Team Communicate Effectively 30 Normally three styles of communications    Passive Communication Aggressive Communication Assertive Communication Managing Team
  • 31. Managing Team Passive Communication 31     Little risk involved – very safe. Allowing our own rights to be violated by failing to express our honest feelings. The goal of being a passive communicator is to avoid conflict no matter what. Little eye contact, often defers to others’ opinions, usually quiet tone, may suddenly explode after being passive too long. Managing Team
  • 32. Managing Team Aggressive Communication 32     It is risky in terms of relationships. The goal of the aggressor is to win at all costs; to be right. Protecting one’s own rights at the expense of others’ rights – no exceptions. Does not consider actions a risk because this person thinks they will always get their way. Eye contact is angry and intimidating; lots of energy; loud and belittling; never defers to others, or at least does not admit to; manipulative and controlling. Managing Team
  • 33. Managing Team Assertive Communication 33   Protecting your own rights without violating the rights of others. The goal of the assertive person is to communicate with respect and to understand each other; to find a solution to the problem.   Takes a risk with others in the short run, but in the long run relationships are much stronger. Eye contact maintained; listens and validates others; confident and strong, yet also flexible; objective and un-emotional; presents wishes clearly and respectfully. Managing Team
  • 34. Managing Team Communicate Effectively 34 Controlling Emotions/anger      If I am time pressured (multiple task incomplete) Had argument with wife Boss is not appreciating my hard work Customer shouted at me Somebody gave me bad remark; How would you control your anger ? Managing Team
  • 35. Managing Team Communicate Effectively 35 How to handle situation when somebody is angry  Allow the caller to vent  Remain calm and courteous, do not argue  Do not interrupt  ? Apologize when appropriate Managing Team
  • 37. Managing Team Good Listener (Effective Communication) Stephen Covey 37 People do not like to talking to walls   You need to understand others (by listening) before being understood by other. Listening involves patience, openness, and the desire to understand. Managing Team
  • 38. Managing Team Good Listener (Effective Communication) 38  Good listening is key to diagnose a problem.  Listening is tool to increase knowledge.  Ask good questions and take notes.  Do not judge what the other person is saying.  Repeat back to the other person what they just said but in your own words. Managing Team
  • 40. Believe in yourself 40 How many of you know swimming?    What was the first time. I cannot do that and after some practice you can swim. Same is the case with driving bi-cycle or a car You can do job only if you do that. believe that you can Managing Team
  • 41. Self Assessment & adaptation 41    I have done PMP, ITIL, CBAP or any other certification. I have the knowledge and certification of these things. But still my performance does not get better. Why? I attended Time Management workshop but it does not improve my time management. Why? Managing Team
  • 42. Adopting these skills 42 Practice . . and more practice and more practice . . until it become your behavior Managing Team