Where to Meet Men - The Best Little-Known Places

The Best Little-Known
Places to Meet Single Men
by Bob Grant, L.P.C.
“The Relationship Doctor”

Places Where Single Women are Tremendously Outnumbered by Single Men by
10 to 1

If you're a single woman, I'm sure you've heard unsolicited advice from well-intentioned
people who insist on helping you find a man. They say: "You have to go out more" or
"Don't be so picky or you'll end up an old maid" or "I suggest you go to singles parties,
mixers and clubs," etc.

The problem is ... their run-of-the-mill advice never seems to do you any good, does it?

Well, you're not going to hear that same old advice from me. In fact, I'm going to tell
you just the opposite.

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1 Introduction
Are you looking in the right places?

You see, no matter how The other problem with going The key is to go to places
frequently you go out, if you to bars, clubs and other where other women don't
keep going to the usual singles places is that even if usually hang out -- places
places where single women there might be some guys where women are
go to meet men -- whether it worth meeting at those tremendously outnumbered
be bars, dance clubs, or places, the competition is by men. This special report
singles parties -- there's a fierce. Women who are contains some of the best
great probability that you're looking to meet men are also places I've found.
not going to meet the man of plentiful in those places. Is it
your dreams. That's the any wonder why a lot of
sobering truth. attractive women seldom
meet men -- even when they
I'm not saying you won't go out a lot?
meet men if you go to bars
and clubs. Men are plentiful
at those places. But more
often than not, you'll get
quantity but not quality. The
kind of man you are likely to
meet in such places is
usually looking for sexual
partners, not a woman with
whom to have a relationship.
That's those places are often
called "meat markets."

Now, if a sexual partner is all
you want, then by all means,
go to bars and clubs -- and
you probably won't have
much trouble finding men
who'd be interested in
hooking up with you. But if
you're looking to meet a man
with whom you could
possibly develop a
relationship -- or even marry
one day -- you're looking in
the wrong places.

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1. A woman named Stephanie, who's She was shocked when she entered the
ballroom where the seminar was held.
now happily married -- but who used to
There were hundreds of people in
be a single woman having great difficulty
attendance -- and 97% of them were
finding men -- gave me the secret place
men! Of course, not all of them were
where she met more eligible men than
single, but it appeared to her that
she could handle. She held this secret
between 50% and 60% of them were.
close to the vest and wouldn't tell other
women (not even her girlfriends) about it
She chose a seat that was in the middle of
-- but now that she's married, she doesn't
a row of chairs (as opposed to an aisle or
mind spilling the beans.
a seat on the outer perimeter) -- so she
was flanked on both right and left sides,
What is this secret place? It's the free
and front and back, by men. And because
seminars that are attended predominantly
it was not the kind of place where men
by men. You've seen these types of
felt at risk of being rejected, several men
seminars advertised on TV -- they offer
came up to her to engage in a
one-hour introductory seminars on
conversation -- both before the seminar
everything from small business start-up to
started and after it ended. The best part
real estate investing to stock investing.
was that the men she met were ambitious
go-getters who were motivated about
She discovered this by accident when she
business -- and were pretty much movers
attended a free seminar about how to
and shakers.
start an Internet business, which was held
at the LAX Hilton in Los Angeles. She
She felt as though she hit the jackpot!
attended not for the purpose of meeting
She met 5 interesting bachelors at that
men, but just because she was interested
first seminar, exchanged contact
in the subject of the seminar.
information with them, and had more
interesting conversations with them than
she's ever had with men she met in clubs
or bars. She eventually went out on a
date with 2 of the men to whom she was
very attracted.

She attended another free seminar about
real estate investing soon thereafter --
this time, for the sole purpose of meeting
men. The ratio of men to women was,
again, about 30 to 1. She came prepared
and even had business cards made.
Stephanie was a secretary by profession,

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The Best Places to meet Single Men
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but she made gift baskets on the side to 2. Another variation to the secret
earn extra money. So her business card
place successfully used by Stephanie
had the title, Gift Basket Consultant,
(above) is the one used by a family friend
underneath her name. She had also
of ours named Erica -- and that is this:
opened a small P.O. Box at her local post
Male-oriented classes or courses.
office, and that was the address she put
on the card (to keep her home address
There are quite a variety of male-oriented
private) -- and she, of course, included
classes you can take, ranging from
her phone number and e-mail address.
construction and home repair classes,
beer-tasting, automotive classes, to all
At that seminar, she met at least 20
kinds of sports-oriented classes. While
single men, and passed out her business
the attendees of these classes are not all
card freely under the guise that she was
men, they are predominantly male -- and
networking for business. To her
women are outnumbered by at least 10 to
amazement, she not only got 3 e-mails
1. Men who attend these classes are
and 2 phone calls from guys who were
often motivated doers and productive
interested in her romantically, but she got
achievers. Plus, because you'll be one of
2 orders for gift baskets to boot!
the few women -- if not the only woman -
- who will attend a class such as these,
Since there weren't always free seminars
you'll bring out the natural tendency of
advertised on TV, she looked in her local
men to want to help you, since you're the
Sunday newspaper, and she never failed
"weaker sex."
to find ads offering free seminars on a
variety of business subjects. On a whim,
The key is to pick out the classes that are
she attended a seminar given by a
closest to your interests or classes that
brokerage firm regarding tax-free bonds -
are populated by the kind of men you'd
- a subject that she wasn't even
like to meet. For example, if you like to
interested in. It turned out to be the
meet athletic men, you might want to
place where she met a wonderful man,
attend a sports-oriented class.
who later became her boyfriend -- and
eventually, her husband.
Erica happened to love beer. So she
attended beer-tasting classes and, as a
result, has been constantly surrounded by
men who love beer as much, if not more,
than she does. She eventually started
dating a guy she met in one of the beer-
tasting classes, and has enjoyed a long-
term, committed relationship with him.

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3. Another place where men You could volunteer for anything from
animal rescues, environmentally-conscious
significantly outnumber women is at your
endeavors, raising funds for a hospice, or
local home improvement store or hardware
any number of other events.
store. The next time you're at Lowe's or
any other similar store, head for the
The kind of men you're likely to meet are
section that carries either lumber or screws
those who tend to be altruistic, who care
-- and that's where you'll find the most
about certain causes, and who are not
men. (Women usually gravitate to the
likely to be shallow or self-absorbed.
paint department.) These types of stores
You're also likely to meet a man with
are yet another example of places where
whom you share a common passion.
males tend to be helpful toward women,
and therefore, present a great natural
Fundraising activities are also present a
opportunity to initiate a casual
less awkward social situation for meeting
conversation concerning anything from
men because initiating conversation is
what kind of wood to use for a deck to how
usually necessary and not at all contrived.
to connect 3-way switches or how to
Furthermore, they afford opportunities to
remove a stuck and broken light bulb.
get to know someone through repeated
encounters.
An acquaintance of mine told me of a
woman who approached him while he was
A woman, who has since gone on the write
shopping at a home improvement store.
a book about how to marry a rich man,
She asked him if he knew the best way to
met a wealthy man who later became her
fix broken ceramic floor tiles in a
husband when she volunteered for a
bathroom. My friend was happy to tell her
political fundraiser in which her husband
how it was done, what supplies to buy, etc.
was a contributor. Political fundraisers are
He then asked her to join him for coffee at
customarily teeming with wealthy single
the Starbucks next door, and she agreed.
men, and volunteering to help out gives
They eventually started dating, and he
you free access without having to shell out
even ended up replacing all the floor tiles
the money for thousand-dollar-per-plate
in her bathroom for her.
dinners.

4. An often overlooked opportunity to There are countless volunteer options.
meet single men is by volunteering in There are even some that are male-
fundraising events. There is an endless oriented, such as those having to do with
array of fundraising organizations to science and energy. You can search for
choose from, depending again on your volunteer fundraising opportunities online.
interests or the type of men you want to Local newspapers often list volunteer
meet. opportunities on a weekly basis as well.

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5. I heard of a clever single woman She charged $12 for each class (or $60
for the 5-week course). She took on 10
named Jenny, who cooked up an idea to
to 15 students in each class, and grossed
surround herself with 10 or more single
$600 to $900 for the 5 weeks (teaching
men at a time. She got the idea while
only one night a week). When she
shopping at a store that sells kitchen
deducted the cost of the food ingredients
supplies and food items. The store was
and the modest fee she paid the local
offering a "Men Only Cooking Class."
adult school, where she held her classes,
When she inquired about the cooking
she cleared $300 to $600 -- while doing
class, she was told that it was very
something she loved -- cooking! Best of
popular, especially among single men who
all, she was surrounded by 10 to 15
lived alone, wanted to eat more than just
bachelors every single week! Because she
TV dinners and prepared food, but didn't
was the only woman, the men competed
have a clue how to cook. They were
for her attention and kept asking her out -
scared to death of cooking and didn't have
- and as a result, she was never without
the patience to follow a recipe book or
dates on a Friday or Saturday night.
tune in to a cooking show on TV. They
wanted to be led by the hand and shown
The important thing to note is this: It
how to cook the simplest dishes -- all the
didn't matter that Jenny wasn't a cooking
way down to the proper way to peel an
pro. She just knew how to cook a few
onion.
dishes well, and her students were none
the wiser! And, of course, you already
A light bulb went on in Jenny's head. She
know the old wives' tale that "the best
thought about offering a similar hands-on
way to a man's heart is through his
cooking class so that she could meet
stomach!"
single men. She wasn't an expert cook,
by any means, but she did know how to
This "teaching a class for single men" idea
cook a few good meals very well, such as
has many variations that are limited only
a perfect meat loaf, Roast Fillet of Beef,
by your imagination. Think about your
Fettuccini Alfredo, Chicken a la King,
specific knowledge and skill set -- and
Shrimp Scampi and delicious fall-off-the-
figure out what men would want to learn
bone ribs and the like. So she put the
from you. It could run the gamut from
following ad in the local newspaper:
teaching time management, dancing, real
estate, singing, public speaking, massage,
Cooking Class for Single Men
a foreign language, organizational skills --
Learn the easy way to cook delicious
or you could offer wardrobe or image
homemade meals in a 5-week hands-on
consulting, gift-buying, etc. The sky's the
class -- and eat the finished dishes!
limit.
Call Jenny at _________________

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Conclusion
Last But Not Least!

Now that you learnt about the best little- Recommended Reading
known places to meet single men, you will
greatly increase your chances of meeting the
man of your dreams.

Most of the places presented in this report
are virtually unknown to most women,
making them perfect places where you can
meet hundreds of eligible men without any
competition. Go forth and use this knowledge
to your advantage!

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