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INTEREST-BASED APPROACH to Problem Solving &  Decision-making CCSC Thursday, April 19, 2007
Intro/Overview ,[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object]
Learning Outcomes  ,[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object]
How is IBA different from  positional bargaining? ,[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object]
Point One Separate People from Problem ,[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object]
Point Two Focus on Interests not Positions ,[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object]
More About Interests vs. Positions  Feelings, emotions:  hurt, anger, sadness;  Needs:  respect, consideration (NVC bridge) Things you say you will/ will not do:  I won’t call you until you call me to apologize Aspirations, future hopes, standards:  professional quality, aesthetics, meaningful contribution Terms & Conditions I will not submit this report until I think it is ready Needs, values, concerns: health, safety, on time to school, responsibility Demands:  Clean up your room right now! Underlying motivations:  organic, locally grown, good wine, open late, ambiance Things you say you want: I want to go to Avanti for dinner tonight!  Interests  (why) Positions  (what)
Story  (choose one)   ,[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object]
Interactive Exercise:  Guess the Interests! Palestine: viable political state Israel: land & water No more settlements in the West Bank! International Mom/Dad: health Kids: fun! I want krispy kremes for dinner Family Buyer: Financial well being Seller: Financial well being I refuse to pay > 10 % commission Business Water District: water supply Fish advocates: sustainable fishery Put more water in this stream!  Environment Employees: incentives Management: $ certainty We want bonuses of $1K each quarter Labor Interests Position Context
Point Three: Generating Options ,[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object]
Point Four:  Develop Objective Criteria ,[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object]
Point Five  Evaluation & Decision Making ,[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object]
Behaviors that Support Consensus ,[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object]
Strategies for Success: Key Review Points ,[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object]
How is IBA different from positional bargaining or problem solving ? ,[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object]
Mini-Negotiation:  “Conference w/a Professor”   (40 min) ,[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object]
Readings & Resources ,[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object]

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  • 1. INTEREST-BASED APPROACH to Problem Solving & Decision-making CCSC Thursday, April 19, 2007
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  • 7. More About Interests vs. Positions Feelings, emotions: hurt, anger, sadness; Needs: respect, consideration (NVC bridge) Things you say you will/ will not do: I won’t call you until you call me to apologize Aspirations, future hopes, standards: professional quality, aesthetics, meaningful contribution Terms & Conditions I will not submit this report until I think it is ready Needs, values, concerns: health, safety, on time to school, responsibility Demands: Clean up your room right now! Underlying motivations: organic, locally grown, good wine, open late, ambiance Things you say you want: I want to go to Avanti for dinner tonight! Interests (why) Positions (what)
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  • 9. Interactive Exercise: Guess the Interests! Palestine: viable political state Israel: land & water No more settlements in the West Bank! International Mom/Dad: health Kids: fun! I want krispy kremes for dinner Family Buyer: Financial well being Seller: Financial well being I refuse to pay > 10 % commission Business Water District: water supply Fish advocates: sustainable fishery Put more water in this stream! Environment Employees: incentives Management: $ certainty We want bonuses of $1K each quarter Labor Interests Position Context
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