Spiraling Upward! The 5 Co-Creative Powers for Personal Transformational and Professional Success
1. Spiraling Upward!
The 5 Co-Creative Powers for Personal
Transformation and Professional Success
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The Athena Doctrine Study
FEMININE STRENGTHS
The new competitive advantage
Charts by
John Gerzema, BAV Consulting
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Feminine Leadership Strengths
ability to listen
attention to risk
flexibility
transparency
conversational turn taking
inquiry
motivational
collaborative
long-term and global perspective
credit distribution
networked thinking
empathy
inclusivity and win-win
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Horizontal Realm
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Competence
Masculine Strengths
Focus
Getting stuff done
Discipline
Rigor
Analysis
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Vertical Realm
VIP
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Consciousness
Feminine Strengths
Inclusiveness
Connection
Intuition
Compassion
Wisdom
VerticalRealm
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Not thriving.
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Inner Resume Exercise
R ec all an intens ely
c hallenging exper ienc e that
you s uc c ess fully overc ame.
1 ) W hat w as the adver s ity?
2) W hat s tr engths emer ged?
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The Spiral Up Path
Consciousness
Competence
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The 5 Co-Creative Powers that
Propel You to Rise
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When we are skillful with them
they enable us to:
• Take charge of our ENERGY
• Author our THOUGHTS
• Have emotional agility and access
the wisdom of our FEELINGS
• SPEAK our truths
• ACT intentionally
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Ar e you think ing about w hat you w ant
or ar e you think ing about the lac k of it?
Negative self-talk,
complaining, worrying
U n c o n s c i o u s
Follow your intuition,
question negative
thoughts, focus on what
you want.
D e l i b e r a t e
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S k i l l s
M i n d s e t
S t r u c t u r e s &
S u p p o r t
S e t Y o u r s e l f U p f o r S u c c e s s
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W h o i s t h e
a u t h o r o f y o u r
t h o u g h t s ?
F a l s e S e l f o r
T r u e S e l f
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Hurries you
Attacks you
Misleads you
Doubts you
Commands you
Criticizes you
Agitates you
Quiets you
Uplifts you
Guides you
Encourages you
Invites you
Assures you
Soothes you
Five Co-Creative Powers
F A L S E S E L F / e g o T R U E S E L F / e v o
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F a l s e S e l f T r u e S e l f
W hat does that “ SH OU LD ” voic e s ay to you?
W hat does your Fals e Self tell you that
s c ar es you or k eeps you s tuc k ?
W hat’s the next R IGH T thing for you?
W hat enc our agement or w is dom does your Tr ue
Self have for you?
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W hat’s the next “ r ight” thing for you!
Automatic, doing only what
is familiar and comfortable.
U n c o n s c i o u s
Take steps towards what
you really, really want, act
“as if”, provide what you
seek, give your gifts
D e l i b e r a t e
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M y 2 0 1 8 A c t i o n P l a n
A n t i c i p a t e d
O b s t a c l e s
S t r u c t u r e s &
S u p p o r t
S k i l l s A c t i o n S t e p
Personal Goal:
Professional Goal:
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C a l m D o w n t o P o w e r U p !
S t o p b e l i e v i n g n e g a t i v e t h o u g h t s a n d f o c u s o n t h e g o o d .
S a v o r y o u r a c h i e v e m e n t s t o i n t e r n a l i z e s u c c e s s .
L e t g o o f p a s t “ f a i l u r e s . ” M o v e o n .
B e o n t h e h u n t f o r y o u r b u d d y ’ s g i f t s a n d g r a n t e a c h o t h e r
B r a g g i n g R i g h t s !
S t o p d o i n g e v e r y t h i n g . J u s t d o t h e n e x t R I G H T t h i n g .
T a k e o n e s m a l l r i s k a d a y .
C o - C r e a t i v e P O W E R M O V E S
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M o r e W a y s t o S p i r a l U p !
1 : 1 E x e c u t i v e C o a c h i n g
F u l l S p e c t r u m L e a d e r s h i p P r o g r a m s
U n l o c k i n g Y o u r P o w e r & P o t e n t i a l ( W o m e n )
I n c l u s i v e L e a d e r s h i p ( M e n )
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W hat ar e you r adiating out w ith your mood or ener gy?
Reactive, moody,
lethargic
U n c o n s c i o u s
Present in the moment,
riveted by life.
D e l i b e r a t e
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Can you lis ten to your longings and let them inform
your c hoic es and dir ec tion?
Compulsive recycling of
negative emotion
U n c o n s c i o u s
Embrace your feelings, be
a witness, let them move
through you.
D e l i b e r a t e
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Speak Your Tr uth
Complaining, gossip,
disclaimers, speaking from
lack, belittling self or others
U n c o n s c i o u s
Articulate your value,
make powerful requests /
declines, self-appreciation,
voice boundaries to
protect personal time.
D e l i b e r a t e