The Accidental Volunteer: How putting yourself out there can build a great c...
WITI 2016
1. JUNE 5 – 7, 2016
#spiralup #witisummit
@WendyWallbridge
www.spiralup.com
Spiraling Up for the
WITI Summit 2016
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Are you actually surprised at how much you’ve
achieved and how far you’ve come?
Are you much harder on yourself than you would ever
be to a friend?
Do you tend to not want to outshine others or cringe
when someone else “self-promotes”?
Do you find yourself dwelling on perceived “failures”
more than you celebrate your successes?
Do you think your work should speak for itself and
prefer not to have to talk about your achievements?
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Checking in
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The Apology Addiction
What does it say about us that some of the most
creative, successful women in the world still say
SORRY needlessly!
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Own Your Greatness
There is a vitality, a life force, an energy, a
quickening that is translated through you into
action, and because there is only one of you in all
of time, this expression is unique. And if you block
it, it will never exist through any other medium and
it will be lost.
– Martha Graham
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Reframe
It’s not self-promotion.
You are giving visibility to your
passion, ideas and
accomplishments.
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BUST A
MYTH
What you were told:
It’s not what you know; it’s who you know.
Version 2.0:
It’s not what you know or who you know,
it’s who knows what you know.
– Nora Denzel
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Reframe
Networking
• Don’t think of talking about your work as calling
attention to yourself but as ways to serve others
• When you take stock of the value you provide,
you’ll feel comfortable sharing accomplishments
• You are the custodian of your gifts and they are
meant to be shared
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Sharing Your
Achievements Serves Others
• Potential business partners discover that you could
be a solution to their problems
• You help reduce the learning curve of others who
might have similar challenges
• You change what’s normal for women in
our culture
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Why Are You Here?
To be inspired by great speakers
To play hooky and have fun
To make new friends and build your network
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The truth of you is the
best of you
“When we see this kind of power
shining through someone in all its
truth and certainty, it’s irresistible,
inspiring, elevating.”
– Oprah
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Authenticity REQUIRES vulnerability.
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If you really knew me you
would know…
One accomplishment that I’m
proud of is…
What I’d like to takeaway from
this conference is…
Practice being seen and known
Complete the following sentences.
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Permission to fully shine!!!
I grant you
Strut Your Stuff!
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Some ASSUMPTIONS to make
Every person here would benefit from meeting me.
When I extend myself with the intention to befriend and
share (not to get something) it is an act of generosity.
When I stand in my power and value it gives others
permission to do so.
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E N G A G E !
Make a commitment to ENGAGE with at least THREE PEOPLE at the
conference. Try this:
1. “We haven’t had the pleasure of meeting yet,
I’m (name) and I’m in charge of ______at (my company).”
2. “One thing I’m proud of (or passionate about) is ________”
3. “One thing I’d like to learn today is _____”
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Editor's Notes
But navigating our own road is more complex. And mine has certainly not been straight and narrow. I’m excited to talk with you today about how we can discover our own roadmap to wholehearted success.