This document discusses bullying from multiple perspectives. It defines bullying and explores the different roles people can play, including the bully, victim, and bystander. It provides advice for what to do if you are being bullied, witness bullying, or have engaged in bullying behavior yourself. The key messages are that bullying hurts victims, bystanders should get help to stop it, and bullies need to make a commitment to change their behavior and treat others with respect.

1. By Vicki Dabrowka
Third Grade Teacher, Eagle Cove School http://www.eaglecoveschool.org/
Author: The Green Team Gazette http://greenteamgazette.blogspot.com/

2. What’s wrong with these picture??

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So… what is bullying?

5. Ask yourself….
What does
bullying
sound like?
What does
bullying
feel like?

6. Kids move in & out of these different roles…
often time kids who bully are being bullied
themselves by someone else (sometimes in their
own home).
Bullying behavior Being an Ally
Being a Bystander Being a target
or victim
The 4 Sides of Bullying

7. “Bully Dance:” The Video Check out:
http://www.bullfrogfilms.com/catalog/bully.html

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9. What should you do if you are being bullied?
(You = Victim)

10. What should you do if you are being bullied?
(You = Victim)

11. What should you do if you are being bullied?
(You = Victim)

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13. What should you do if you see someone
bullying someone else?
(You = bystander)
Interrupt it. Stand next to or speak up
to the person being bullied
Help the person
being bullied by
giving friendship.
Don’t go along with
the bullying.

14. What should you do if you see someone
bullying someone else?
(You = bystander)
Walk away
from your
friend who is
being a bully
to show them
you don’t care
for that
behavior.
Let the bully know
he/she is being a bully.
Ask an adult to step in
and stop it.
Help the person who is bullying see what the
victim might feel like.

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16. What if you have been a bully and you want to
change? What can you do?
(You = Bully)
Know that if you are
saying putdowns to
someone else, you are
doing it to make
yourself feel bigger,
better, & more
important—which is
hurtful.
Think before
you speak.
If you start to
bully, walk away
and find something
else to do.

17. What if you have been a bully and you want
to change? What can you do?
(You = Bully)
Ask a friend to
help you stop
your bully behavior.
Make a commitment
to change.
Apologize to kids you have bullied.

18. How “Bullying,” “Put Downs,” &
“Mutual Respect” Are All Related.
RESPECT
•everyone
•yourself
•your friends
•your family
•people you like
•people you don’t like
•people you know
•people you don’t know
•EVERYONE!

19. When you see it: Say “NO” to Bullying.
No one deserves to be bullied!!

20. Resources

21. More Resources
& Picture References