This document provides tips on how to get along anywhere by learning and unlearning behaviors. It discusses how change is difficult due to old rules and assumptions. Unlearning requires awareness of goals, curiosity, practical application of knowledge, reflection, and repetition. Information gathering is important and requires curiosity to look in new places, accept unknown answers, and realize past errors. Application of new knowledge requires willingness to adjust behaviors and deal with uncertainty. Reflection allows the brain to learn all is well through self-care.