Universal & Unconditional love . Why does love fail and how to fix it ..

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UNIVERSAL & UNCONDITIONAL LOVE
WHY DOES LOVE FAIL AND HOW TO FIX IT?
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3. Tip NO : 68
1 . UNIVERSAL LOVE
Unfortunately we use love in different contexts
with quite different meanings. "I love chicken"
does not mean that she/he is a bird lover.
There are many misconceptions about love and Universal
Love.
Some think love is universal if it embraces a large
group - like all old people, all indians, all dogs, etc.
But what about the rest of life? True love responds to
all of life. So if you have decided to restrict your love
to a particular category, that is not the real spirit of
unconditional universal love.

4. Some people think that universal love is social policy.
But passionate humanity service doesn't always reflect in
them. For example, imagine the head of a large save-
the-old age project. She's dedicated to the old people, but
when her lover walks into her office she ignores him. She
finds the excuse that he is very close to her heart. A true
universal lover wouldn't fail to love those close to her as
well.

5. Some think love is unconditional if it is impersonal (as in:
"I love everyone, but no one in particular"). But is it
possible to love everyone if you won't love anyone? No, it's
just a concept - Real love sees, feels, and cares for the
beloved.
And that takes courage. It requires that we open our hearts,
transcend our egos, trust, serve, be vulnerable. The
preference for impersonal love comes from fear and
resistance to deeper loving and giving, seeing and being
seen. An unconditional lover would love each one with real
feeling, care, and consideration.
Love without personal passion and feeling is a bird with
tied wings. Feeling strengthens love and makes it
effective; universal love is no exception. Universal love is
not mediocre or impersonal. All real love is passionate,
invested, committed. Anyone who gives and lives real love
is on fire with that love, and thoroughly implicated by it.
real, intense, nurturing — by no means boring or
unemotional. That's unconditional universal love.
Love is surrender without ego
If you can't love yourself you will not love anybody in the
world
A world full of ideas is not same as the world full of love

6. Tip NO : 69
2 . Unconditional love
How to love unconditionally?
We may have various views on this topic accepting or
rejecting the whole idea.
It's not forgiving everything because you love someone.
It is rather focusing on what keeps you together
Both deserve happiness
Here is few tips on how to do it:
One need not sacrifice her/ his happiness for the other to
be in unconditional love

7. Be together during hard times
While you have to fight for overcoming obstacles believe
that your love is worth fighting for
Embrace every moment together
Stay together for each other, both happy and hard times.
There are ups and downs in love also
Understand and accept each other
Imperfections are common in every human. Don't give up

8. It's very tricky to be in a balanced state
Relationship and love involves give and take. Respect
privacy of each other
Have mutual respect

9. Tip NO : 70
3 . Why does love fail
and how to fix it?
Few reasons and tips.
Every relationship has its ups and downs. Making a
relationship work isn’t as easy as it seems. It takes a lot of
effort.
Unwanted Ego
You have to kill your Ego for the intimate relationships to
work.
Faithlessness
Accept your partner for who they are and have faith in their
love.
Lack of confidence
Being too needy for approval is another reason that drives
people away. So be confident of who you are and that will
reflect in the success of your relationship.
Faithlessness

10. Not knowing that your happiness depends on you first
If you’re a self-reliant and a happy person, your
partner will see you as a self-dependent person
and not someone they have to take care of all
the time
Losing yourself along the way
Remember that your partner love you
for who you are and not who they want
you to be. Adapt and adjust as
required but keep your identity strong.
Not taking initiatives
Your partner shouldn’t always be the one who solves the
issues. Take a step ahead and be the one who shows interest
in the relationship.
Communication gap
Communication is the key to a happy
relationship, no matter what the basis
of the relationship is. Remember, no one
can read the other person’s mind. So
even if you are someone who is
uncomfortable in talking about the
feelings then write them down in a note
and pass on. But always share.

11. Jealousy
Being possessive on some levels is acceptable because when
you’re in love you expect that person to devote their time to
you. But if your jealousy starts to take over your daily life
with every conversation starting and ending on the same
note then your relationship can be seen as dying a slow
death. A healthy relationship is one where there is trust
and comfort.
Over Dependency
It is a common belief that in relationships, your lives have
to be inter-dependent. You end up being too clin󿵋 and
depend on them. This is usually one of the biggest reasons
to make someone want to get away for their ‘breathing
space'.

12. "All about me" syndrome
In a relationship, if either of you is the kind who only
focuses on themselves then you should know that the
relationship is gloomy right from the beginning, and will
die a fast death. Keeping love intact takes a lot of sharing
which always involves more of giving than taking. If you
start focusing only on yourself and your needs and neglect
your partner then your relationship will never work.

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