The Resilient
  Leader
Linda K. Bidlack, MA, ACC, CLPC
 All rights reserved, Linda K. Bidlack Coaching & Consulting, 2012
                (301)874-4608; www.lindakbidlack.com
The Resilient Leader
     Types of adversity
     Definition of resilience
     The leader’s role
     The problem in your brain
     Two solutions in your brain




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Types of
Adversity




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What is Resilience?
       The ability to...
              Struggle well
              Be engaged with the world but not troubled by it
              Learn and draw meaning from adversity




We cannot control the wind but we can adjust our sails.                             Elizabeth Edwards
                                                    .
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The Resilient Leader’s Role

  ‘…The demanding task of mobilizing people to confront
their predicament and solve their most pressing problems.’
                             Dean Williams, Real Leadership
                        Harvard Kennedy School of Government




                   Adaptive vs Technical Challenges
      Ambiguity
      Risk
      Challenging conversations
      Use of self as instrument
      Style required in one situation can be disastrous in another

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Resilient Behavior
1.   Stay calm under pressure
2.   Delay impulsive emotional reactions
3.   Accurately identify the cause of adversity
4.   Believe you can solve the problem at hand
5.   Stay positive yet realistic in outlook
6.   Read other’s non-verbal clues
7.   Take on new challenges after recovering from a
     setback
                                                          The Resilience Factor, Reivich & Shatte




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Staying calm under pressure
Presence
• Sympathetic Nervous System (SNS)
    •   Fires up the edgy, vigilant, irritable self
    •   Intended to last just 5-60 minutes
• The Para-Sympathetic Nervous System (PNS)
    •    Puts out the fire




 All rights reserved, Linda K. Bidlack Coaching & Consulting, lindakbidlack@gmail.com.
The Resilient Leader
              It’s not the hours you work
                that determine the value
                        you create.
                  Tony Schwartz, The Energy Project




  All rights reserved, Linda K. Bidlack Coaching & Consulting, lindakbidlack@gmail.com

The Resilient Leader

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    The Resilient Leader Linda K. Bidlack, MA, ACC, CLPC All rights reserved, Linda K. Bidlack Coaching & Consulting, 2012 (301)874-4608; www.lindakbidlack.com
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    The Resilient Leader  Types of adversity  Definition of resilience  The leader’s role  The problem in your brain  Two solutions in your brain All rights reserved, Linda K. Bidlack Coaching & Consulting, lindakbidlack@gmail.com, 2012.
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    Types of Adversity Allrights reserved, Linda K. Bidlack Coaching & Consulting, lindakbidlack@gmail.com, 2012.
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    What is Resilience? The ability to...  Struggle well  Be engaged with the world but not troubled by it  Learn and draw meaning from adversity We cannot control the wind but we can adjust our sails. Elizabeth Edwards . All rights reserved, Linda K. Bidlack Coaching & Consulting, lindakbidlack@gmail.com, 2012.
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    The Resilient Leader’sRole ‘…The demanding task of mobilizing people to confront their predicament and solve their most pressing problems.’ Dean Williams, Real Leadership Harvard Kennedy School of Government Adaptive vs Technical Challenges  Ambiguity  Risk  Challenging conversations  Use of self as instrument  Style required in one situation can be disastrous in another All rights reserved, Linda K. Bidlack Coaching & Consulting, lindakbidlack@gmail.com
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    Resilient Behavior 1. Stay calm under pressure 2. Delay impulsive emotional reactions 3. Accurately identify the cause of adversity 4. Believe you can solve the problem at hand 5. Stay positive yet realistic in outlook 6. Read other’s non-verbal clues 7. Take on new challenges after recovering from a setback The Resilience Factor, Reivich & Shatte All rights reserved, Linda K. Bidlack Coaching & Consulting, lindakbidlack@gmail.com
  • 7.
    Staying calm underpressure Presence • Sympathetic Nervous System (SNS) • Fires up the edgy, vigilant, irritable self • Intended to last just 5-60 minutes • The Para-Sympathetic Nervous System (PNS) • Puts out the fire All rights reserved, Linda K. Bidlack Coaching & Consulting, lindakbidlack@gmail.com.
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    The Resilient Leader It’s not the hours you work that determine the value you create. Tony Schwartz, The Energy Project All rights reserved, Linda K. Bidlack Coaching & Consulting, lindakbidlack@gmail.com