This textual analysis examines David Sedaris' memoir "Us and Them." The analysis focuses on a key passage where young David reflects on his childhood views of the poorer Tomkey family that lived nearby. David used to pity the Tomkeys and feel superior to them, but an incident where his mother calls him out for being selfish makes him reevaluate his perspective. He realizes he was the one in the wrong for judging the Tomkeys and putting himself above them. The analysis concludes the memoir was valuable in encouraging self-reflection on one's own biases and judgments of others.