Teasing
    and
Name-calling
Have you heard anyone saying
something mean to someone else
   at school in the last month?
You don’t know what’s going on in
          people’s lives.
                                             My grandad is
      My parents have
                                            dying of cancer.
       just split up.
                                   My mum gets
                                  drunk and yells
                                      at me.

                                             My uncle abused
   My dad got                                  me. I’m too
   arrested for                               scared to tell.
    hitting my
                  I’m hungry. I
      mum.
                  haven’t had
                  breakfast or
                     lunch.
What seems little to you,
could be big for someone else.


  It was just
     a joke.
Instead of going out of your way to make people’s day
   worse, it’s easier to make someone’s day better.




        What have you done today to make
             someone’s day better?
My name is Damen. I am 12. I
can’t sit down and
concentrate on my work for
long so I get myself in
trouble, and sometimes I
have trouble controlling my
emotions. I hate it when
people call me retarded -
they don’t know that I’m
actually smart at lots of
things and I can pick up stuff
that other people can’t.
My name is Adam and I live with
my mum. I don’t know my dad
because he left when I was a
baby. My mum doesn’t cope and
she’s on the sickness benefit. I
don’t have cool clothes or
toys, and we can’t pay for trips
and stuff at school. What really
hurts is when kids make jokes
about my mum, and about why
my dad must have left her. I just
wish I had a normal family.
My name is Minh and my family
used all their money to come to New
Zealand for a better life and an
education. I am working really hard
to learn to speak English and to do
well at school so I can make friends
and help my family when I am
older, but it’s hard. Some people say
I should go back to my own country.
That really hurts because I love it
here and I want to be a kiwi.
My name is Aidan and I am in Year
7. I am not very good at making
friends because of the way I
talk, and I don’t always know
when I am annoying people.
Sometimes the noise and the
people in the classroom get too
much for me and I spin out. Some
kids purposely tease me to see
how quickly I will lose my temper.
People think I am being
naughty, but I really can’t help it.
My name is Raina and I am 11
years old. I know I am smart at
lots of things, but I have
problems with reading and
writing because I can’t make
sense of words and
letters, and people tease me
for being dumb. One boy
always teases me and gets
other kids to laugh at me. I
just wish they would leave me
alone because I really am
trying my best.
Some famous people who have been
        bullied, teased or called names:




                   David Beckham
                                                Bill Gates




Albert Einstein

                                   Tom Cruise
Madonna




"In high school I wasn't a hippie or a stoner, so I ended up being the weirdo. I was
interested in classical ballet and music, so the kids were quite mean if you were
different. I was one of those people that people were mean to."
Robert Pattinson




  "I got beaten up by a lot of people when I was younger," Pattinson said. What
  made him a target, was the same thing that made him a famous: acting. "I liked
  to behave like an actor, or how I thought an actor was supposed to be, and that
  apparently provoked a lot of people into hitting me."
Taylor Lautner




"I was never extremely confident," Lautner said. "Because I was an actor, when I was
in school there was a little bullying going on. Not physical bullying but people making
fun of what I do ... I just had to tell myself I can't let this get to me. This is what I love
to do. And I'm going to continue to do it."
Winona Ryder




As a kid, Winona’s unique style made her a social outcast. "I was wearing an old
Salvation Army shop boy's suit. I heard people saying, 'Hey, f----t.' They slammed my
head into a locker. I fell to the ground..."
"Years later, I went to a coffee shop and I ran into one of the girls who'd kicked
me, and she said, 'Winona, Winona, can I have your autograph?' And I said, 'Do you
remember me? Remember in seventh grade you beat up that kid?' And she
said, 'Kind of'. And I said, 'That was me. Go f*** yourself.'"
Eminem




As a scrawny 9-year-old, Marshall Mathers was so viciously bullied, his mum sued
the school system. One boy in primary school split his lip and knocked him out.
Another time he came home beaten and bruised, after an encounter with his bully
in a bathroom. The result was the song "Brain Damage" on his chart-topping
album, which publicly called out his childhood nemesis.
Christine Aguilera




As an aspiring teen pop star, Christina was the object of ridicule among her
classmates. A few tormenters would slash her tires to prevent her from getting
to gigs on time and mess with her microphone to embarrass her on the stage.
"There was a lot of resentment and I think there was a bit of jealousy
involved," Aguilera revealed. "There were threats that were made on me and
my mum.
Mila Kunis




"I was always the smallest in my class," Kunis said. "I grew into my face. I had a
very funny looking face when I was little. I had like big eyes, big lips, big ears. But
when I was little I was constantly being made fun of for having big eyes and that
was awful.
Lady Gaga




 Gaga remembers her high school days not-so-fondly, as the era she was "teased
 for being ugly, having a big nose, being annoying." Her classmates also made fun
 of the way she dressed and wore makeup, because they totally knew better when
 it came to fashion. Yeah, right.
Jessica Alba




Jessica’s family didn’t have as much money as others in her class, she had a
Texan accent, and buck teeth. She was uncool, and was often attacked for being
different. She spent her lunches in the nurses’ office to keep safe, and her dad
had to walk her to school so that she wouldn’t be provoked. Lessons at drama
school “changed everything” and sparked a lifelong love of acting.
Have you heard anyone saying
something mean to someone else at
school in the last month?

What did you do?
You have a choice.
Speak
                            out
 Stand up
for others
               Make
             someone’s
             day better.

Teasing and name calling

  • 1.
    Teasing and Name-calling
  • 2.
    Have you heardanyone saying something mean to someone else at school in the last month?
  • 3.
    You don’t knowwhat’s going on in people’s lives. My grandad is My parents have dying of cancer. just split up. My mum gets drunk and yells at me. My uncle abused My dad got me. I’m too arrested for scared to tell. hitting my I’m hungry. I mum. haven’t had breakfast or lunch.
  • 4.
    What seems littleto you, could be big for someone else. It was just a joke.
  • 5.
    Instead of goingout of your way to make people’s day worse, it’s easier to make someone’s day better. What have you done today to make someone’s day better?
  • 6.
    My name isDamen. I am 12. I can’t sit down and concentrate on my work for long so I get myself in trouble, and sometimes I have trouble controlling my emotions. I hate it when people call me retarded - they don’t know that I’m actually smart at lots of things and I can pick up stuff that other people can’t.
  • 7.
    My name isAdam and I live with my mum. I don’t know my dad because he left when I was a baby. My mum doesn’t cope and she’s on the sickness benefit. I don’t have cool clothes or toys, and we can’t pay for trips and stuff at school. What really hurts is when kids make jokes about my mum, and about why my dad must have left her. I just wish I had a normal family.
  • 8.
    My name isMinh and my family used all their money to come to New Zealand for a better life and an education. I am working really hard to learn to speak English and to do well at school so I can make friends and help my family when I am older, but it’s hard. Some people say I should go back to my own country. That really hurts because I love it here and I want to be a kiwi.
  • 9.
    My name isAidan and I am in Year 7. I am not very good at making friends because of the way I talk, and I don’t always know when I am annoying people. Sometimes the noise and the people in the classroom get too much for me and I spin out. Some kids purposely tease me to see how quickly I will lose my temper. People think I am being naughty, but I really can’t help it.
  • 10.
    My name isRaina and I am 11 years old. I know I am smart at lots of things, but I have problems with reading and writing because I can’t make sense of words and letters, and people tease me for being dumb. One boy always teases me and gets other kids to laugh at me. I just wish they would leave me alone because I really am trying my best.
  • 11.
    Some famous peoplewho have been bullied, teased or called names: David Beckham Bill Gates Albert Einstein Tom Cruise
  • 12.
    Madonna "In high schoolI wasn't a hippie or a stoner, so I ended up being the weirdo. I was interested in classical ballet and music, so the kids were quite mean if you were different. I was one of those people that people were mean to."
  • 13.
    Robert Pattinson "I got beaten up by a lot of people when I was younger," Pattinson said. What made him a target, was the same thing that made him a famous: acting. "I liked to behave like an actor, or how I thought an actor was supposed to be, and that apparently provoked a lot of people into hitting me."
  • 14.
    Taylor Lautner "I wasnever extremely confident," Lautner said. "Because I was an actor, when I was in school there was a little bullying going on. Not physical bullying but people making fun of what I do ... I just had to tell myself I can't let this get to me. This is what I love to do. And I'm going to continue to do it."
  • 15.
    Winona Ryder As akid, Winona’s unique style made her a social outcast. "I was wearing an old Salvation Army shop boy's suit. I heard people saying, 'Hey, f----t.' They slammed my head into a locker. I fell to the ground..." "Years later, I went to a coffee shop and I ran into one of the girls who'd kicked me, and she said, 'Winona, Winona, can I have your autograph?' And I said, 'Do you remember me? Remember in seventh grade you beat up that kid?' And she said, 'Kind of'. And I said, 'That was me. Go f*** yourself.'"
  • 16.
    Eminem As a scrawny9-year-old, Marshall Mathers was so viciously bullied, his mum sued the school system. One boy in primary school split his lip and knocked him out. Another time he came home beaten and bruised, after an encounter with his bully in a bathroom. The result was the song "Brain Damage" on his chart-topping album, which publicly called out his childhood nemesis.
  • 17.
    Christine Aguilera As anaspiring teen pop star, Christina was the object of ridicule among her classmates. A few tormenters would slash her tires to prevent her from getting to gigs on time and mess with her microphone to embarrass her on the stage. "There was a lot of resentment and I think there was a bit of jealousy involved," Aguilera revealed. "There were threats that were made on me and my mum.
  • 18.
    Mila Kunis "I wasalways the smallest in my class," Kunis said. "I grew into my face. I had a very funny looking face when I was little. I had like big eyes, big lips, big ears. But when I was little I was constantly being made fun of for having big eyes and that was awful.
  • 19.
    Lady Gaga Gagaremembers her high school days not-so-fondly, as the era she was "teased for being ugly, having a big nose, being annoying." Her classmates also made fun of the way she dressed and wore makeup, because they totally knew better when it came to fashion. Yeah, right.
  • 20.
    Jessica Alba Jessica’s familydidn’t have as much money as others in her class, she had a Texan accent, and buck teeth. She was uncool, and was often attacked for being different. She spent her lunches in the nurses’ office to keep safe, and her dad had to walk her to school so that she wouldn’t be provoked. Lessons at drama school “changed everything” and sparked a lifelong love of acting.
  • 21.
    Have you heardanyone saying something mean to someone else at school in the last month? What did you do? You have a choice.
  • 22.
    Speak out Stand up for others Make someone’s day better.