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2. 66:‫سورة‬‫التحريم‬
The limits ordained by Allah
are also incumbent when
there is love and trust
between spouses. The family
structure can remain strong if
it s based on taqwa.
One should be aware of the limits
set by Allah, when it comes to the
love for one`s wife.
Ayah 1-5
One should be concerned
regarding one self and
one`s wife and children.
Ayah 6-8
Put a stop to those aspects
which cause dispute and
discord in a family.
Ayah 9
Husband and wife
will receive their
own reward or
punishment
depending on
their individual
actions.
Ayah 10-12
‫-تزکیہ‬ ‫سورۃ‬‫التحریم‬
Even in the case of intense love, follow the
divine limits.
Concerns and efforts for tarbiyah
of your family.
Pure repentance: Sincere repentance
without hypocrisy.

4.  Cause of revelation ---- Rasolallah(SAW)’s swear not to use
honey any more.
 Allah is the only one who can make things Lawful & Unlawful.
 Advice for Muslims not to be careless in the matter of
guarding secrets.
 Wife is a guardian of all secrets of her husband.
 Event of Ella.
Ruku No 1:

5.  Six qualities of a pious wife ---- who truly submit to Allah,
are full of faith, obedient, disposed to repentance, and
given to worship & fasting

6.  A person's responsibility is not confined to making effort to save
himself from the punishment of God but it is also his responsibility
that he should so educate and train to the best of his ability
members of his family also to become Allah's favorite servants.
 Our concern should not only be that our children should lead a
happy and prosperous life in the world but; more than that, we
should be anxious to see that they do not become fuel of Hell in
the Hereafter.
 The Holy Prophet (upon whom be peace) said: "Each one of you
is a herdsman and is accountable with regard to his herd”

7.  ‫ا‬ً‫ح‬ ۡ‫و‬ُ‫ص‬َّ‫ن‬ ً‫ة‬َ‫ب‬ ۡ‫و‬َ‫ت‬ --- Sincere Repentance -- (1) Feel penitent for the wrong
you have done (2) carry out the duties you have ignored (3) restore
the rights that you have usurped (4) ask forgiveness of him whom
you have wronged (5) make a resolve not to repeat the sin again and
(6) consume yourself in obedience to Allah
 Light of Faith in Here after--- The bridge Sirat --- Supplication Ayah 8
‫ر‬ۡ‫ي‬ِ‫د‬َ‫ق‬ ٍ‫ء‬ ۡ َ‫َش‬ ِ‫ل‬ ُ‫ك‬ ‫ى‬‫ٰل‬َ‫ع‬ َ‫َّك‬‫ن‬ِ‫ا‬ ۚ ‫ا‬َ‫ن‬‫ـ‬َ‫ل‬ ۡ‫ر‬ِ‫ف‬ۡ‫غ‬‫ا‬َ‫و‬ َ‫َن‬َ‫ر‬ۡ‫ُو‬‫ن‬ ‫ا‬َ‫ن‬‫ـ‬َ‫ل‬ ۡ‫م‬ِ‫م‬ۡ‫ت‬ َ‫ا‬ ۤ‫ا‬َ‫ن‬َّ‫ب‬َ‫ر‬
Ruku No 2:

8.  Bad examples of Women --- Wives of Nuh and Lot -- Dishonesty
with husbands, affiliation with disbelievers.
 High ranks of Asiyah and Maryam.
 Supplication of Asiyah, Wife of Pharaoh ---- Ayah 11
 Role Model --- Embraced Islam, don’t pay much importance to
pleasure of this life, patiently faced the torture from her husband ---
Praying for a house in Paradise rather than this world.
 Maryam --- Role model ---- Who guarded her chastity, modest and
َ‫ن‬ۡ‫ي‬ِ‫ت‬ِ‫ن‬ٰ‫ق‬ۡ‫ال‬ , devout and obedient
ِ‫ة‬َّ‫ن‬‫ـ‬َ‫ج‬ۡ‫ل‬‫ا‬ ِ‫ِف‬ ‫ا‬ً‫ت‬ۡ‫ي‬َ‫ب‬ َ‫ك‬َ‫د‬ۡ‫ن‬ِ‫ع‬ ۡ ِ‫ِل‬ ِ‫ن‬ۡ‫ب‬‫ا‬ ِ‫ل‬‫ب‬َ‫ر‬
“The Messenger of Allah (SAW) drew four lines and said, ‘Do you know what these are?’
They said, ‘Allah and His Messenger know best.’ He said, ‘The best women of the
women of Jannah are Khadeejah bint Khuwaylid, Fatimah bint Muhammad, Maryam
bint Imran and Aasiyah bint Muzahim the wife of Pharaoh.’” [Ahmad]

9. 66:‫سورة‬‫التحريم‬
The limits ordained by Allah
are also incumbent when
there is love and trust
between spouses. The family
structure can remain strong if
it s based on taqwa.
One should be aware of the limits
set by Allah, when it comes to the
love for one`s wife.
Ayah 1-5
One should be concerned
regarding one self and
one`s wife and children.
Ayah 6-8
Put a stop to those aspects
which cause dispute and
discord in a family.
Ayah 9
Husband and wife
will receive their
own reward or
punishment
depending on
their individual
actions.
Ayah 10-12
‫-تزکیہ‬ ‫سورۃ‬‫التحریم‬
Even in the case of intense love, follow the
divine limits.
Concerns and efforts for tarbiyah
of your family.
Pure repentance: Sincere repentance
without hypocrisy.

10. Action Items Ruku 1-2
Save your family and yourself --- Strive to
escape the fire of hell
Pure Repentance --- Offer Pure Repentance and
Prayer for Heaven

11. Let's evaluate our selves
Am I sure? Yes No mostly
to some
extent
I protect my husband's secrets
I consciously try to save my family from
the fire of hell
I pray for the light of the Hereafter
I prefer the hereafter to the world