1. Couples & Sex
Introduction
First things rst. Sex was created by God to take place between a man and a woman, but not just any man and
any woman. It was created to take place between a man and his wife. is union creates what we call a “soul
tie” and that’s why it should only be between man and wife. Secondly, it should be used in love and not as a
weapon. Lastly, sex is more than just a physical thing. Once both parties understand their roles, sex will be like
having your cake and eating it too!
Spiritual Background
esiastes 9:10
1 Corinthians 7:3-5
e husband must ful ll his duty to his wife, and likewise also the wife to her husband. e wife’s body does
not belong to her alone but also to her husband. In the same way, the husband’s body does not belong to him
alone but also to his wife. Do not deprive each other except by mutual consent and for a time, so that you may
devote yourselves to prayer. en come together again so that Satan will not tempt you because of your lack of
self-control.
Proverbs 5: 15-19
Drink waters out of thine own cistern, and running waters out of thine own well. Let thy fountains be dispersed
abroad, and rivers of waters in the streets. Let them be only thine own, and not strangers’ with thee. Let thy
fountain be blessed: and rejoice with the wife of thy youth. Let her be as the loving hind and pleasant roe; let
her breasts satisfy thee at all times; and be thou ravished always with her love.
Hebrews 13:4
Marriage is honourable in all, and the bed unde led: but whoremongers and adulterers God will judge.
Challenge
e name of this game is “If I would’ve waited”. Each person starts the phrase “If I would’ve waited ….” And
the completion of the phrase can be from personal experience or others that you have heard of or witnessed.
Scoring will be based upon the ability to string together events that were cause from not waiting. For example
“If I would waited I wouldn’t have had a baby by a woman I didn’t love, have a child out of wedlock, and have
to see my son on weekends” would be 3 pts for the 3 events that were triggered for not waiting. e rst person
to 50 wins. is activity can be adjusted to t your personal life’s decisions but ultimately, the goal is to identify
the negative aspects of engaging in sex before waiting for marriage.
(M.Brown, T. Daniel, C.Dhountal, C. Solomon)
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