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How its help me in my work? the road to success
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2. DefinitionsDefinitions
Self-concept: Picture or perception ofSelf-concept: Picture or perception of
ourselvesourselves
Self Esteem: Feelings we have aboutSelf Esteem: Feelings we have about
ourselvesourselves
Self-ideal: The way we would like to beSelf-ideal: The way we would like to be
3. How much do you believe in your self? On aHow much do you believe in your self? On a
piece of paper write down the percentage of howpiece of paper write down the percentage of how
much you believe in yourself. 100%? 75%?much you believe in yourself. 100%? 75%?
50%?50%?
What are you achieving with that percentage?What are you achieving with that percentage?
What would happen if you believed in yourselfWhat would happen if you believed in yourself
25% more?25% more?
Dreams and self belief are free. You can take allDreams and self belief are free. You can take all
you want and walk away.you want and walk away.
4. How is self-concept build &How is self-concept build &
destroyeddestroyed
BuildingBuilding
Find a good role modelFind a good role model
Praise & complimentsPraise & compliments
Focus on the positiveFocus on the positive
Keep criticism to aKeep criticism to a
minimumminimum
Set & achieve goalsSet & achieve goals
DestroyedDestroyed
Comparing yourself toComparing yourself to
othersothers
Putting yourself downPutting yourself down
Drug abuseDrug abuse
??
5. Tips for building Self EsteemTips for building Self Esteem
1.1. Identify with people, books, videos, television shows, etc., that build your self-Identify with people, books, videos, television shows, etc., that build your self-
esteemesteem
2.2. Build others – give sincere compliments oftenBuild others – give sincere compliments often
3.3. Think positivelyThink positively
4.4. Set and achieve goalsSet and achieve goals
5.5. Do something challenging each dayDo something challenging each day
6.6. Look your bestLook your best
7.7. Eat correctlyEat correctly
8.8. Do something for someone elseDo something for someone else
9.9. Learn a new skillLearn a new skill
10.10. ““Act as if” you possess traits you would like to haveAct as if” you possess traits you would like to have
11.11. Observe self-concept peopleObserve self-concept people
12.12. Handle things one at a timeHandle things one at a time
13.13. Use criticism constructivelyUse criticism constructively
14.14. Ask for help – take advantage of learning opportunitiesAsk for help – take advantage of learning opportunities
15.15. Improve your personal living spaceImprove your personal living space
16.16. Allow personal growth time each dayAllow personal growth time each day
17.17. Post self-improvement reminders in obvious placesPost self-improvement reminders in obvious places
18.18. Do not say negative things about yourselfDo not say negative things about yourself
19.19. Reward yourself oftenReward yourself often
20.20. List your accomplishments each eveningList your accomplishments each evening
21.21. Volunteer to share your skills with othersVolunteer to share your skills with others
6. How do values and morals fit intoHow do values and morals fit into
feeling good about yourself?feeling good about yourself?
Knowing yourself is a prerequisite to aKnowing yourself is a prerequisite to a
good self esteemgood self esteem
Discover your values – a value isDiscover your values – a value is
something you strongly believe insomething you strongly believe in
Live by what you value – the closer yourLive by what you value – the closer your
values come to your actions the happiervalues come to your actions the happier
you will be.you will be.
9. Who hasWho has
contributed to yourcontributed to your
self esteem?self esteem?
(play clip from lion King)(play clip from lion King)
10. Self-Concept Circle
1. The person I
think I am.
2. The person others
think I am.
3. The person others think
I think I am.
As I See
Myself
Other’s Reactions
to Me
As Others
See Me
My Actions
11. No one can
Make you feel
inferior Without
your Consent.
Eleanor Roosevelt
13. Accept yourself: Stop worrying about theAccept yourself: Stop worrying about the
things you can’t change. Be morethings you can’t change. Be more
accepting of others and the things theyaccepting of others and the things they
can’t change.can’t change.
Try not to compare with others. It’s unfair.Try not to compare with others. It’s unfair.
You may compare their strengths with yourYou may compare their strengths with your
weaknesses. Judge yourself in terms ofweaknesses. Judge yourself in terms of
your own growthyour own growth
14. Have Realistic Expectations –Have Realistic Expectations –
We expect to much fromWe expect to much from
ourselves. Perfection is notourselves. Perfection is not
possible but bettering our-selfpossible but bettering our-self
should be a lifetime goal. Weshould be a lifetime goal. We
grow with models who appeargrow with models who appear
to be perfect at everything.to be perfect at everything.
Hero’s are good to look at butHero’s are good to look at but
they have their problems too.they have their problems too.
15. Emphasize your strengths.Emphasize your strengths.
Change what can be changed. SomeChange what can be changed. Some
things fast, others gradual, and othersthings fast, others gradual, and others
never. There are things we inherit but wenever. There are things we inherit but we
can change our attitude about it. Try newcan change our attitude about it. Try new
experiences.experiences.
16. Best FriendsBest Friends
Would you take better care of yourself?Would you take better care of yourself?
Would you be kinder to yourself?Would you be kinder to yourself?
Would you be more forgiving of your humanWould you be more forgiving of your human
imperfections?imperfections?
If you realized your best friend was yourself?If you realized your best friend was yourself?
Who is always with you everywhere?Who is always with you everywhere?
Who is on your side when others are unfair?Who is on your side when others are unfair?
And tell me, who will never let you down in any situation?And tell me, who will never let you down in any situation?
Who will always see you get your share?Who will always see you get your share?
And that’s why I’m a best friend to myself.And that’s why I’m a best friend to myself.
And I take me out whenever I feel low.And I take me out whenever I feel low.
And I make my life as happy as a best friend wouldAnd I make my life as happy as a best friend would
I’m as nice to me as anyone I know!I’m as nice to me as anyone I know!
17. Practice thinking positive and accept compliments. JustPractice thinking positive and accept compliments. Just
say “thank you”. Give compliments to others. It makessay “thank you”. Give compliments to others. It makes
you feel good.you feel good.
Activity:Activity:
Face & look at the person next to you. One is “A” andFace & look at the person next to you. One is “A” and
the other is “the other is “BB”.”.
““AA” says to “” says to “BB”: “you are absolutely, undeniably a”: “you are absolutely, undeniably a
remarkable person/student/etc”.remarkable person/student/etc”. “B”“B” responds withresponds with
“thank you”.“thank you”.
Reverse it: But “B” puts on a attitude with it and says:Reverse it: But “B” puts on a attitude with it and says:
“you are absolutely, undeniably a remarkable person,“you are absolutely, undeniably a remarkable person,
etc.”. “A” responds with: “you got that right honey”.etc.”. “A” responds with: “you got that right honey”.
18. There are two different people in theThere are two different people in the
world. One that says “I wish I had” andworld. One that says “I wish I had” and
the one that says “I’m glad I did”.the one that says “I’m glad I did”.
Remember you can have anything in thisRemember you can have anything in this
world if you just believe in yourself.world if you just believe in yourself.
19. ““Commercial of Me”Commercial of Me”
Emphasizing the positive characteristics andEmphasizing the positive characteristics and
capabilities of you, develop ancapabilities of you, develop an
advertisement or commercial toadvertisement or commercial to
““sell oneself”.sell oneself”.
It may be a radio or television ad, billboard,It may be a radio or television ad, billboard,
sweepstakes, etc.sweepstakes, etc.
Due next class period.Due next class period.