The document discusses breaking the intergenerational cycle of substance abuse. It summarizes that unhealthy family patterns can be passed down through generations due to a lack of attachment between parents and children. This causes children to lack trust, have low self-esteem, and continue the cycle by selecting partners who also struggle with substance abuse issues. The document proposes interventions like building healthy relationships, teaching social and parenting skills, and establishing social support networks to help individuals break this cycle.
CHAPTER 1 SEMESTER V - ROLE OF PEADIATRIC NURSE.pdf
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1. Breaking the Intergenerational
Cycle of Substance Abuse
National Rx Drug Abuse Summit,Atlanta,GA,April 6th
2015
Robert L.Neri,LMHC,CAP - SeniorVice President,Chief Program / Service
Officer
WestCare Foundation,Inc.
13. Reasons for Having ChildrenReasons for Having Children
Planned/UnplannedPlanned/Unplanned
14. Stages of the WAR CycleStages of the WAR Cycle
ConceptionConception
15. Stages of the WAR CycleStages of the WAR Cycle
ConceptionConception
Wanted/Wanted/
UnwantedUnwanted
PregnancyPregnancy
16. Stages of the WAR CycleStages of the WAR Cycle
ConceptionConception
Wanted/Wanted/
UnwantedUnwanted
PregnancyPregnancy
UnrealisticUnrealistic
ExpectationsExpectations
23. Stages of the WAR CycleStages of the WAR Cycle
ConceptionConception
Wanted/Wanted/
UnwantedUnwanted
PregnancyPregnancy
UnrealisticUnrealistic
ExpectationsExpectations
Role ReversalRole Reversal
24. CChildren learn to behildren learn to be
stress absorbers –stress absorbers –
““Soaking up the worriesSoaking up the worries
of their parentsof their parents.”.”
25. Living in a constantLiving in a constant
environment of stressenvironment of stress
means thatmeans that
high-stress becomeshigh-stress becomes
my “Baseline”my “Baseline”
26. II will seek outwill seek out
Stress and CrisisStress and Crisis
as my “Comfort Zone”as my “Comfort Zone”
27. Stages of the WAR CycleStages of the WAR Cycle
ConceptionConception
Wanted/Wanted/
UnwantedUnwanted
PregnancyPregnancy
UnrealisticUnrealistic
ExpectationsExpectations
Role ReversalRole Reversal
ComplianceCompliance
28. Must be taughtMust be taught
Healthy Survival SkillsHealthy Survival Skills
29. COMPETENCY BASEDCOMPETENCY BASED
APPROACH TO LEARNINGAPPROACH TO LEARNING
Competency Mastery Requires:Competency Mastery Requires:
o Information knowledgeInformation knowledge
o Implementation knowledgeImplementation knowledge
30. Both areBoth are Internalization ProcessesInternalization Processes
needed to achieve Recoveryneeded to achieve Recovery
Internalization is checking forInternalization is checking for
UnderstandingUnderstanding
Taking ownership of newTaking ownership of new
KnowledgeKnowledge
31. InternalizationInternalization is about makingis about making
learning Relevantlearning Relevant
Making associations betweenMaking associations between
characters and situations thatcharacters and situations that
can shape their decisionscan shape their decisions
32. Stages of the WAR CycleStages of the WAR Cycle
ConceptionConception
Wanted/Wanted/
UnwantedUnwanted
PregnancyPregnancy
UnrealisticUnrealistic
ExpectationsExpectations
Role ReversalRole Reversal
ComplianceCompliance
IsolationIsolation
33. Adults who hadAdults who had predictable,predictable,
nurturingnurturing parents are comfortableparents are comfortable::
o Being close and aloneBeing close and alone
o Have a secure attachment styleHave a secure attachment style
34. Adults who hadAdults who had inconsistentinconsistent,,
emotionally unavailableemotionally unavailable parents:parents:
o Often have an anxious attachment style
o Crave closeness and fear abandonment
o Want and need less space and are
more smothering
35. Adults who had parents who wereAdults who had parents who were
rejectingrejecting often have an:often have an:
o Avoidance attachment style
o Resisting closeness
o Seeking space
o Fear of being hurt
36. ““Adults areAdults are unpredictableunpredictable People”People”
““ People turn on you ”People turn on you ”
““ Trust only myself ”Trust only myself ”
37. Stages of the WAR CycleStages of the WAR Cycle
ConceptionConception
Wanted/Wanted/
UnwantedUnwanted
PregnancyPregnancy
UnrealisticUnrealistic
ExpectationsExpectations
Role ReversalRole Reversal
ComplianceCompliance
IsolationIsolation
Trust NotTrust Not
LearnedLearned
38. Stages of the WAR CycleStages of the WAR Cycle
ConceptionConception
Wanted/Wanted/
UnwantedUnwanted
PregnancyPregnancy
UnrealisticUnrealistic
ExpectationsExpectations
Role Reversal
ComplianceCompliance
IsolationIsolation
Trust NotTrust Not
LearnedLearned
I’m No GoodI’m No Good
39. Stages of the WAR CycleStages of the WAR Cycle
ConceptionConception
Wanted/Wanted/
UnwantedUnwanted
PregnancyPregnancy
UnrealisticUnrealistic
ExpectationsExpectations
Role ReversalRole Reversal
ComplianceCompliance
IsolationIsolation
Trust NotTrust Not
LearnedLearned
I’m No GoodI’m No Good
Selection ofSelection of
FriendsFriends
40. Social Support DeficitSocial Support Deficit
Choosing relationships with people who have “like”Choosing relationships with people who have “like”
problemsproblems
41. Stages of the WAR CycleStages of the WAR Cycle
ConceptionConception
Wanted/Wanted/
UnwantedUnwanted
PregnancyPregnancy
UnrealisticUnrealistic
ExpectationsExpectations
Role ReversalRole Reversal
ComplianceCompliance
IsolationIsolation
Trust NotTrust Not
LearnedLearned
I’m No GoodI’m No Good
Selection ofSelection of
FriendsFriends
Select PartnerSelect Partner
43. Stages of the WAR CycleStages of the WAR Cycle
ConceptionConception
Wanted/Wanted/
UnwantedUnwanted
PregnancyPregnancy
UnrealisticUnrealistic
ExpectationsExpectations
Role ReversalRole Reversal
ComplianceCompliance
IsolationIsolation
Trust NotTrust Not
LearnedLearned
I’m No GoodI’m No Good
Selection ofSelection of
FriendsFriends
Select PartnerSelect Partner
RelationshipRelationship
FailsFails
44. Themes & Stages of the WAR CycleThemes & Stages of the WAR Cycle
ConceptionConception
PregnancyPregnancy
UnrealisticUnrealistic
ExpectationsExpectations
Role ReversalRole Reversal
ComplianceCompliance
IsolationIsolation
Trust NotTrust Not
LearnedLearned
I’m No GoodI’m No Good
Selection ofSelection of
FriendsFriends
Select PartnerSelect Partner
Relationship
Fails
Nurturance & Trust Support
Expectations &
Control
Relationships &
Self Esteem
46. WAR Cycle – Adults look backWAR Cycle – Adults look back
at what helped them:at what helped them:
o One-on-one time with a loving adultOne-on-one time with a loving adult
o Informal support from a neighbor,Informal support from a neighbor,
teacher, coach, ministerteacher, coach, minister
o Early insight – “It’s not about me” –Early insight – “It’s not about me” –
“These people are sad and angry.”“These people are sad and angry.”
47. A passion for reading, musicA passion for reading, music
A sense of humorA sense of humor
Love for the ArtsLove for the Arts
Physical activity – release from painPhysical activity – release from pain
50. Understand Role ReversalUnderstand Role Reversal
Facilitate PredictabilityFacilitate Predictability
Address childhood playAddress childhood play
through safe, socialthrough safe, social
activitiesactivities
51. Facilitate movement fromFacilitate movement from
compliance to internalizationcompliance to internalization
through gradual reduction ofthrough gradual reduction of
structure and insight workstructure and insight work
52. Create a treatment cultureCreate a treatment culture
that promotesthat promotes
“Mistakes are wonderful“Mistakes are wonderful
opportunities to learn.”opportunities to learn.”
53. Establish a therapeutic allianceEstablish a therapeutic alliance
and facilitateand facilitate
transfer of trusttransfer of trust
54. Victims of Emotional Manipulation
Disclose “way too fast”
No small talk which is “testing talk”
Each conversation goes a little deeper
(gradual)
58. Hearing their narrative (story) asHearing their narrative (story) as
a survivor –a survivor –
““Empowerment is Therapeutic”Empowerment is Therapeutic”
59. Teach social network mappingTeach social network mapping
and assist clients with buildingand assist clients with building
a social support networka social support network
60. Teach everything you can aboutTeach everything you can about
relationships including patterns,relationships including patterns,
boundaries, roles, etc.boundaries, roles, etc.
62. Competency Based ContinuumCompetency Based Continuum
Numbness ApathyNumbness Apathy Self HelpSelf Help
Learned HelplessnessLearned Helplessness Mutual HelpMutual Help
IndifferenceIndifference IndustriousIndustrious
Arrested DevelopmentArrested Development Social LearningSocial Learning
““No Learning” Learning fromNo Learning” Learning from
ExperienceExperience
64. Thank YouThank You
for Your Time andfor Your Time and
Attention!Attention!
Robert L. Neri, LMHC, CAPRobert L. Neri, LMHC, CAP
Senior Vice President,Senior Vice President,
Chief Program / Service OfficerChief Program / Service Officer
WestCare Foundation, Inc.WestCare Foundation, Inc.