2. Positive Discipline Works
Because it addresses human needs that
are universal it is effective for typically
developing children, children with special
needs and children with traumatic histories.
It is an effective, responsive set of tools
that supports each individual in reaching
his/her potential.
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3. Why Positive Discipline?
Positive Discipline is grounded in what the adult does,
rather than on what the child did.
It requires adults to be intentional, knowledgeable, and
wise. Respect and teaching come from the heart.
It has the best and long term interest of the child in
mind.
It is proven effective.
It strengthens relationships and a sense of belonging
and significance.
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4. Five Criteria
Helps children feel a sense of connection. (Belonging and
significance)
Is mutually respectful and encouraging. (Kind and firm at the
same time.)
Is effective long - term. (Considers what the child is thinking,
feeling, learning, and deciding about himself and his world – and
what to do in the future to survive or to thrive.)
Teaches important social and life skills. (Respect, concern for
others, problem solving, and cooperation as well as the skills to
contribute to the home, school or larger community.)
Invites children to discover how capable they
are. (Encourages the constructive use of personal power and
autonomy.)
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5. Positive Discipline
Recognizes needs and goals and
avoids Re-traumatization
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Appreciates that many problem behaviors began as
understandable attempts to cope.
Strives to maximize choices for the child and give the
child control over the healing process.
Seeks to be culturally competent –respect is universal.
Understands each survivor in the context of life
experiences.
(Alvarez and Sloan, 2010)
6. We Can Influence Resilience
“Resiliency is the capability of individuals
to cope successfully in the face of
significant change, adversity, or risk. The
capacity changes over time and is
enhanced by protective factors in the
individual and environment.”
(Stewart et al.,1991 as cited by Greene and Conrad,
2002)
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7. Toxic Stress
That which is severe and prolonged in the absence of
the buffering protection of supportive relationships.
Sources can include things like physical or emotional
abuse, chronic neglect, severe maternal depression,
parental addiction, or family violence.
Toxic stress disrupts brain architecture and leads to
lifelong problems in learning, behavior, and both physical
and mental health.
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8. Toxic Stress
Child maltreatment is an act of commission (abuse) or
omission (neglect) by a caregiver that results in harm,
potential for harm, or the threat of harm to a child
Childhood trauma results from events or circumstances
experienced by a child as physically or emotionally
harmful or threatening and that has lasting effects on
functioning and well-being
Adverse Childhood Experiences (ACEs) are traumatic
stressors such as abuse, neglect, or dysfunction that
occur during childhood
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9. How much? How often? How
traumatic?
Dosage or Intensity
Frequency
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10. ACEs Categories
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Child Abuse
Neglect
Growing up in an
environment
where getting
needs met is a
daily challenge
• Physical Abuse and Harsh Punishment
• Sexual Abuse
• Emotional Abuse
• Emotional Neglect
• Physical Neglect
• Witnessing domestic violence
• Alcohol or other substance-abuse in
the household
• Mentally ill or suicidal person in the
home
• Loss of parent to death,
abandonment, or divorce
• Family member ever incarcerated
11. Take the ACE Test
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http://www.npr.org/sections/health-
shots/2015/03/02/387007941/take-the-ace-
quiz-and-learn-what-it-does-and-doesnt-
mean
12. ACE Study
Over 2/3 of adults reported at least 1 ACE 12.6% of adults
reported an ACE score > 4 Strong correlation between high
ACEs scores and
poor health outcomes People with 4 or more ACEs were…
• 2.2 times as likely to have ischemic heart disease
• 2.4 times as likely to have a stroke
• 1.9 times as likely to have cancer
• 1.6 times as likely to have diabetes
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13. It isn’t the trauma but the HPA axis (Stress
Response)
Hypothalamus triggers the release of CRH
Corticotropin Releasing Hormone
Pituitary Gland releases ACTH which is carried by the
blood to the
Adrenocorticotropic Hormone
Adrenal Gland which releases stress hormones
Cortisol/Adrenalin and Noradrenalin to assist the
body in dealing with the stress
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17. Progression of the Effects of Early Maltreatment
Early
Death
Disease,
Disability and
SocialProblems
Adoption of
Health-Risk
Behaviors
Social-Emotional and
Cognitive Impairment
Disrupted
Neurodevelopment
Adverse Childhood Experiences
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Conception
Death
19. Effects on behavior and
learning
Because the Stress Response directly effects the brain
and the development of memory, “Children who
experience adversity at an early age are more likely to
exhibit deficits in executive functioning, suggesting that
these capacities are vulnerable to disruption early in the
developmental process.
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21. Traumatic Life
When children have been exposed to
adverse childhood experiences, they have a
powerful, overwhelming sense of loss,
sorrow, sadness, fear, pain, and confusion.
This often looks like anger,
withdrawal, or defiance.
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22. Children’s Behavior is Like
an Iceberg.
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24. In response to life experiences children
develop reactive behaviors
Ineffective, but protective skills include:
Frequent Emotional Tsunamis
Lack of access to real emotions: only anger
Down Regulation
Frequent withdrawal
Argue about EVERYTHING
Inflexible and rigid
Literal
Hypervigilance
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26. What about learning?
60% available
Not interested!
Confused, hurt (angry), hyper-vigilant
Reactive
Doesn’t work well in classroom environments where
teachers are demanding, demeaning, discouraging and
disrespectful.
By the time we get these folks, they have lived a life time in
a world of sorrow and pain! Some remain in that world.
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27. Typical School “Discipline”
based on “Behaviorism” and
Zero Tolerance
Punitive Time-Out Withdrawal of Privileges
Withholding of “fun” activities Pull Cards
Threats Sent to Office
Detention Notes Sent Home
No Recess Removal From Group
Humiliation, Comparison Isolation
Extra Work Rejection
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28. Teachers Avoid
Acting Angrily
Placing Blame
Shaming and Humiliating
Punishment
Behavior based involvement
Behavior based relationships
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29. Student Success is About
Connecting
Every student needs to know they are welcome
Every student needs to know they are safe—
emotionally, physically, socially
Reach out with humor and acceptance
“Be Not Provoked”
Do NOT Provoke!
Patience and understanding combined with clear
expectations and support
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30. Every Student Needs
To know that someone cares
Someone to talk to
To feel safe
To make meaningful contributions
To feel successful
To make progress
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31. Why Positive Discipline?
Positive Discipline is grounded in what the adult does,
rather than on what the child did.
It requires adults to be intentional, knowledgeable, and
wise.
It has the best and long term interest of the child in
mind.
It is proven effective.
It strengthens relationships and a sense of belonging
and significance.
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