Whatever we aim or do, should be to impress ourselves, to elevate ourselves, to keep moving forward despite the set backs. To prove us wrong. Not show anyone.
The Power of No: 12 Things to Say “No” To TodayJamesAltucher
Adapted from the book "The Power of No: Because One Little Word Can Bring Health, Abundance, and Happiness" by James Altucher and Claudia Azula Altucher
http://www.amazon.com/The-Power-No-Abundance-Happiness/dp/1401945872
James Altucher Podcast
https://itunes.apple.com/us/podcast/the-james-altucher-show/id794030859?mt=2
Very often, the greatest pleasure in life is doing what people say you cannot do. There are great joy and satisfaction to prove others wrong and build the life you want. And yes, at times, a person must travel many roads to find its true nature. But I dare you to show them that they are wrong about you.
The Power of No: 12 Things to Say “No” To TodayJamesAltucher
Adapted from the book "The Power of No: Because One Little Word Can Bring Health, Abundance, and Happiness" by James Altucher and Claudia Azula Altucher
http://www.amazon.com/The-Power-No-Abundance-Happiness/dp/1401945872
James Altucher Podcast
https://itunes.apple.com/us/podcast/the-james-altucher-show/id794030859?mt=2
Very often, the greatest pleasure in life is doing what people say you cannot do. There are great joy and satisfaction to prove others wrong and build the life you want. And yes, at times, a person must travel many roads to find its true nature. But I dare you to show them that they are wrong about you.
Believe, the true ‘you’ has power, love, serenity and gratitude deep within. Find it, hug it, keep it in front of your eyes all the time. That ‘you’ is who I care about.
Dealing with Manipulative People: How To Break Free From Their Manipulative C...Michael Lee
Dealing with manipulative people is tough. But by equipping yourself with the tips in this presentation, you'll be able to handle them without feeling frustrated or helpless.
This approach was not a question incoming, it was a statement from a courageous woman that I needed to hear more than she needed to say it. Perception is projection and learning how we can serve each other in how we communicate, learn and see the people around us can be helpful on so many levels. How people see you and how you see others can be your greatest motivator or your darkest destroyer. How do you choose and why?
Unveiling the Irresistible Charm: The Mystery Behind Instant AttractionFlavian Mwasi
Ever pondered the allure of those individuals who effortlessly capture attention and draw people toward them?
The secret to instant attraction lies beyond physical appearance, woven into a tapestry of qualities that create an irresistible charm. Let's explore the enchanting traits that make a person instantly more attractive.
1. Confidence:
Confidence is a silent force that sets individuals apart. It's not about being the loudest; rather, it's the quiet assurance that radiates from within, universally appealing and magnetically attractive.
2. Authenticity:
Authenticity creates an immediate connection. Embracing one's true self, flaws and all, resonates deeply with others, breaking down barriers and fostering genuine relationships.
3. Positive Energy:
A smiling face, a genuine laugh, and an optimistic outlook create an atmosphere of warmth. Positivity is an irresistible trait that not only makes individuals attractive but leaves a lasting impression.
4. Active Listening:
The art of active listening is a rare gem in a noisy world. Truly understanding, empathizing, and responding thoughtfully fosters an immediate bond, making people feel valued and heard.
5. Passion:
Passion sparks interest and fascination. Whether about work, hobbies, or life, individuals who exude passion become instantly compelling, igniting a spark that captivates those around them.
6. Body Language:
Words convey thoughts, but body language leaves a lasting impression. Maintaining good posture, making eye contact, and engaging in open gestures create an approachable aura, a silent language of attraction.
In essence, the mystery behind instant attraction lies in a harmonious blend of confidence, authenticity, positive energy, active listening, passion, and the subtle art of body language.
These qualities transcend physical appearance, creating a captivating presence that draws people in like a magnet. Embrace these traits, and witness the world becoming captivated by the magnetic force of your presence.
Narcissistic abuse recovery support: Let go of inferiority and take back your...Angela Atkinson
How does one develop an inferiority complex? What's the solution?
Creating an inferiority complex requires a lot of effort. It's not easy to take a couple of perceived shortcomings and convince yourself that you're totally incapable and ineffective. But even though it might take effort and energy to develop an inferiority complex, as humans, we're quite capable of limiting ourselves in this way.
The good news is that you can reverse this process! But how? How do you overcome such an ingrained tendency to put yourself down?
Use these strategies to conquer your inferiority complex and feel your confidence soar! Today, you're going to take back your power! Learn more and get free narcissism and recovery support information, tools and support at http://queenbeeing.com.
Remember these things when life become roughMopelola8
Sooner or later, everyone one of us will have to experience rough times. When they come, how do we respond? Does it make break or make you a better person? Can one acquire skills that will make us master over life circumstances?
Introduction
They are all around us; we see them everyday, and we spoke to some of them today. They are also the people we ignore, the ones we look down on, the people we bully, the ones whose hearts we break; the people we disrespect. They are the mask wearers and till we understand them (and/or ourselves,) this deadly plague of hatred that's enveloping our planet, is only going to keep transforming us into hate-filled creatures in pursuit of illusions of love: illusions that leave us empty.
Why do people stare at me?
Staring is a complicated thing. One of the obvious reasons someone might not be able to look away from you is that they are attracted to you and want to catch your attention by making eye contact. Or maybe you are doing or wearing something to draw attention to yourself and, as expected, people aren’t able to ignore it.
Looking a person in the eye is almost as powerful as speaking to them, but there are people who don’t feel comfortable with prolonged eye contact. When we focus on others, a whopping 43% of the attention we give is dedicated to staring into their eyes. Those extended looks and the physical reactions to them can make the difference between appearing confident and coming across as weak.
Knowledge and education are nowadays widely available, often for free. But even if from a financial standpoint knowledge and education are accessible, it demands something maybe more challenging: Time and effort.
Setting boundaries is an important trait that will avoid many troubles and solve many troubles, both at personal and at professional level. And by no means should it be taken as rude or feel apologetic about it. It's a fine trait of personality and of character.
What will define us throughout life is not our possessions or achievements but a habitat that we'll create of internal habits and external conditions where we will gravitate most of the time.
They will forge our character
Things they don't teach at school.pptxAmaro Araujo
Schools teach you how to make a living, but not how to live a life. So, we learn it the hard way and life for many of us is a journey of struggle and suffering.
Having the basics right, will help you out to cope with what life may throw at you. And it's not against you, but often for you.
We rush throughout our lives, existing or making a living but few of us are actually living.
We need to slow down and check where we are, who we are, who we want to become. Bills and responsibilities can´t be the sole or main driver of our lives that in most cases are not aligned with our values and with our conception of life. Do we spend sufficient time with those we love? do we pay attention to the world around us? do we help and support those in need?
Believe, the true ‘you’ has power, love, serenity and gratitude deep within. Find it, hug it, keep it in front of your eyes all the time. That ‘you’ is who I care about.
Dealing with Manipulative People: How To Break Free From Their Manipulative C...Michael Lee
Dealing with manipulative people is tough. But by equipping yourself with the tips in this presentation, you'll be able to handle them without feeling frustrated or helpless.
This approach was not a question incoming, it was a statement from a courageous woman that I needed to hear more than she needed to say it. Perception is projection and learning how we can serve each other in how we communicate, learn and see the people around us can be helpful on so many levels. How people see you and how you see others can be your greatest motivator or your darkest destroyer. How do you choose and why?
Unveiling the Irresistible Charm: The Mystery Behind Instant AttractionFlavian Mwasi
Ever pondered the allure of those individuals who effortlessly capture attention and draw people toward them?
The secret to instant attraction lies beyond physical appearance, woven into a tapestry of qualities that create an irresistible charm. Let's explore the enchanting traits that make a person instantly more attractive.
1. Confidence:
Confidence is a silent force that sets individuals apart. It's not about being the loudest; rather, it's the quiet assurance that radiates from within, universally appealing and magnetically attractive.
2. Authenticity:
Authenticity creates an immediate connection. Embracing one's true self, flaws and all, resonates deeply with others, breaking down barriers and fostering genuine relationships.
3. Positive Energy:
A smiling face, a genuine laugh, and an optimistic outlook create an atmosphere of warmth. Positivity is an irresistible trait that not only makes individuals attractive but leaves a lasting impression.
4. Active Listening:
The art of active listening is a rare gem in a noisy world. Truly understanding, empathizing, and responding thoughtfully fosters an immediate bond, making people feel valued and heard.
5. Passion:
Passion sparks interest and fascination. Whether about work, hobbies, or life, individuals who exude passion become instantly compelling, igniting a spark that captivates those around them.
6. Body Language:
Words convey thoughts, but body language leaves a lasting impression. Maintaining good posture, making eye contact, and engaging in open gestures create an approachable aura, a silent language of attraction.
In essence, the mystery behind instant attraction lies in a harmonious blend of confidence, authenticity, positive energy, active listening, passion, and the subtle art of body language.
These qualities transcend physical appearance, creating a captivating presence that draws people in like a magnet. Embrace these traits, and witness the world becoming captivated by the magnetic force of your presence.
Narcissistic abuse recovery support: Let go of inferiority and take back your...Angela Atkinson
How does one develop an inferiority complex? What's the solution?
Creating an inferiority complex requires a lot of effort. It's not easy to take a couple of perceived shortcomings and convince yourself that you're totally incapable and ineffective. But even though it might take effort and energy to develop an inferiority complex, as humans, we're quite capable of limiting ourselves in this way.
The good news is that you can reverse this process! But how? How do you overcome such an ingrained tendency to put yourself down?
Use these strategies to conquer your inferiority complex and feel your confidence soar! Today, you're going to take back your power! Learn more and get free narcissism and recovery support information, tools and support at http://queenbeeing.com.
Remember these things when life become roughMopelola8
Sooner or later, everyone one of us will have to experience rough times. When they come, how do we respond? Does it make break or make you a better person? Can one acquire skills that will make us master over life circumstances?
Introduction
They are all around us; we see them everyday, and we spoke to some of them today. They are also the people we ignore, the ones we look down on, the people we bully, the ones whose hearts we break; the people we disrespect. They are the mask wearers and till we understand them (and/or ourselves,) this deadly plague of hatred that's enveloping our planet, is only going to keep transforming us into hate-filled creatures in pursuit of illusions of love: illusions that leave us empty.
Why do people stare at me?
Staring is a complicated thing. One of the obvious reasons someone might not be able to look away from you is that they are attracted to you and want to catch your attention by making eye contact. Or maybe you are doing or wearing something to draw attention to yourself and, as expected, people aren’t able to ignore it.
Looking a person in the eye is almost as powerful as speaking to them, but there are people who don’t feel comfortable with prolonged eye contact. When we focus on others, a whopping 43% of the attention we give is dedicated to staring into their eyes. Those extended looks and the physical reactions to them can make the difference between appearing confident and coming across as weak.
Knowledge and education are nowadays widely available, often for free. But even if from a financial standpoint knowledge and education are accessible, it demands something maybe more challenging: Time and effort.
Setting boundaries is an important trait that will avoid many troubles and solve many troubles, both at personal and at professional level. And by no means should it be taken as rude or feel apologetic about it. It's a fine trait of personality and of character.
What will define us throughout life is not our possessions or achievements but a habitat that we'll create of internal habits and external conditions where we will gravitate most of the time.
They will forge our character
Things they don't teach at school.pptxAmaro Araujo
Schools teach you how to make a living, but not how to live a life. So, we learn it the hard way and life for many of us is a journey of struggle and suffering.
Having the basics right, will help you out to cope with what life may throw at you. And it's not against you, but often for you.
We rush throughout our lives, existing or making a living but few of us are actually living.
We need to slow down and check where we are, who we are, who we want to become. Bills and responsibilities can´t be the sole or main driver of our lives that in most cases are not aligned with our values and with our conception of life. Do we spend sufficient time with those we love? do we pay attention to the world around us? do we help and support those in need?
We pass most of the day thinking and wondering about the past or the future, and very little time attentive and fully living what we are doing on the moment, on the present. It's extraordinary how in general we're looking back or forth but, when the only real moment is the one we're living in the present.
Urgent patience is a key trait of any good leader, although not widely spread or even applied. Under stress and pressure from markets, board of directors, business results or others, leaders tend to shout and scream for quick actions and results. But fail to run a quick critical thinking analysis and tend to misunderstand movement with action.
Our mind is one of our greatest assets but can also be the source of our suffering. Being attentive to our thoughts and thought habits is crucial to "educate" it and to set an habit of looking at the glass half full, not half empty
Negative feelings shouldn't be ignored or hidden just because we shouldn't feel that way - at least that's what the "positive mindset" torrent throws at us. Though, negative feelings are a very important yellow light to let us know there is unfinished business between our mind and our hearts
We tend to be on a never ending goose chase, always in the lookout for the next big thing that will bring is peace, joy and happiness. And in that process we tend to forget all that we have accomplished and all that we have become. More appreciation for what is and who we are, will make the journey to the next big thing much easier and pleasurable
we're often too attached to the past. Belongings, possession, memories, achievements, titles. And yes they are part of our construction, and we can revisit them once in a while, but we rather not live in permanent on a museum. Let go of the old in order to embrace the new
Your delusional image of yourself.pptxAmaro Araujo
We tend to think and believe that our image is sacred, that everyone sees us exactly the same way, the way we see ourselves. This is far from true. Every single person, as a different perception of us, even our closest ones. Our partner sees us differently than our kids.
In the era of multitasking we often take it as a weakness if we turn down tasks or activities. we're afraid to come across a negative person or without skills and ambition to do more. But reality is, time is limited and we have a limited energy to spend and when we embrace more than we reasonably should, we may end up super tired, unease and even stressed out by lack of sufficient quality time.
Road rumble strips aren't there to annoy us, neither to stop us from proceeding to our journey. They are there no wake us up, to get us back on track, to align our course and to do it on a safely manner
The past doesn't have to be a powerful judge and punisher. It can and should be our ally to help us expand and evolve. But most of the times we're stuck, and we let ourselves drag on this feeling of being enchained with such past
Excluded any sort of interest, external opinions tend to be much more factual based and with clear analytics as it doesn't involve the opinion giver emotions and direct involvement, which tends to diminish the involved person views and analytical thinking
When we have no one bossing us or parents telling us what to do, we tend to lose discipline and accountability to do the things we know we should so but fail to do
Success is the result of many components and in most cases time is one of them. Long time. and what we see, is not - in most cases - a lucky strike, but the seed of many actions, determination, persistence, hard-work, resilience and even sacrifice
We go through life like the world depend on us. And yes we may have responsibilities we can't shake off. But if and when we're gone, the world will keep turning, indifferent to our passage or departure.
Welcome to the Program Your Destiny course. In this course, we will be learning the technology of personal transformation, neuroassociative conditioning (NAC) as pioneered by Tony Robbins. NAC is used to deprogram negative neuroassociations that are causing approach avoidance and instead reprogram yourself with positive neuroassociations that lead to being approach automatic. In doing so, you change your destiny, moving towards unlocking the hypersocial self within, the true self free from fear and operating from a place of personal power and love.
1. There's only one person you should say that to: To yourself.
Stop that frenzy of wild goose energy of "one day I'll show them."
Don't drive your life on them, their approval, on their recognition.
You have nothing to prove to anyone and nothing to impress anyone.
You have nothing to defend, claim or seek admiration for, outwardly.
But do it inwardly. Look at the mirror and tell yourself, "one day, I'll show you.“
Commit to yourself, be accountable to yourself, and engage yourself.
Don't fail yourself. Don't fail to explore the potential or dreams you have.
Eventually, out there "they" will see it too. If not, too bad for them.
You have no idea what you're capable of, if you're manage to get that
commitment through honest and open self-talk.
Like looking yourself in the eye on a mirror, and tell yourself “one day I´ll show
you…”
One day I´ll show you…
http://amaroaraujo.com
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