How many times have you looked in the mirror and disliked what you saw? I can admit that it happens to MANY people every single day, including myself.

1. Love Yourself First
How many times have you looked in the mirror and disliked what you saw? I can admit
that it happens to MANY people every single day, including myself. Or how about when
failed at a task you were presented and beat yourself up for days, even weeks about it or
how about when a stranger compliments you and you are shocked at what they said “You
are so beautiful” – who me? NO WAY!
We get so used to our features that we often forget what others are seeing.
It’s time to let that go.
Let go of any self-limiting beliefs you have about not being good enough, smart enough
or attractive enough because the truth is you are all of those things.
Your self-limiting beliefs are lies that you’ve been told or inherited that keep you playing
small and fearful of stepping too far out of your comfort zone. Give up the belief that you
don’t matter. Know that you are special and have a unique gift that the world needs and
is waiting for.
Detox all areas of your life and remove anyone who makes you doubt your worth or ability,
requires you to dull your shine or makes you feel guilty for being your true authentic self.
Remember that no-one is entitled to your time, attention or energy so set and protect
your personal boundaries. In the words of Nikki Giovanni “Deal with yourself as a
individual, worthy of respect and make everyone else deal with you the same way.”
And finally, find and surround yourself with people who you can see your best self and
who reflect back to you. Ensure your life is overflowing with these people so that on the
days when your self-limiting mindset is trying to destroy you, you remember who you are
and the love you have for yourself keeps you moving forward and that you are living a life
you love – your best life.