1. Kattown: look I just want to state I sent you a message to your inbox I dont know how you feel
about things just read it please so you know where im comming from if you wish to discuss it cool
if not I understand
PvtCassyJ: Trust me Ryan, I want to talk about it. I understand you feel you've been lied to, as a
third person I can see two sides here, but I also know that you hurt the man I've come to love
deeply very badly, and I would like to know why you felt that it was necessary.
Kattown: Ive known JJ for over a year now. We were supposed to meet up this summer. When he
told me he couldnt leave Minnesota because he was on a 5 year probation for hacking homeland
security it raised an eyebrow. I build and fix PCs ive done it for 10 years now Im not licensed but
even i cant hack homeland security. plus thats felony time. One lie was like nothing but the lies
continued that I caught hi
Kattown: him in and one after the other compelled me to find out just who am I talking to.
Background checks are public records , Especially sex offenders so I did what I felt was right and
found out for myself and in turn before he could hurt someone like he did myself and tatt I made
sure he knew the pain that was done to me that he wasn't going to hurt another person by
keeping something like that bottl
Kattown: bottled up inside.
PvtCassyJ: I understand you feel he should have been able to tell you as a good friend, but why
blow it up? I don't know if you've told more than me and Hannah, but you have to know how much
a past like that has to hurt him.
PvtCassyJ: I can understand completely why he would not be fully willing to share it, sometimes
we just want our pasts to stay just that
Kattown: Basically I told anyone who had a personal connection with him. You're not the only
female hes had on the phone with him who felt abit of a connection between him and her.
Regardless of ones past had I known all this from the beginning I garuntee you things would have
turned out better however
Kattown: a sex offender cant have possesion of minor children and sexual misconduct at the age
of 17 and be charged 7 years later my family is law enforcement im not stupid. Again I felt lied to
he was charged Feburary9th 2008. I only did what I did as a choice and concern for others who I
do consider to be friends before he thought he could close up about it and brush it off
PvtCassyJ: But do you really think it's that important? Should it change who he is to us? Does the
fact that he had a past change who his now? The ret. marine that could have died serving his
country? The man that stays up until all hours of the night regardless of himself, to comfort us in
our own problems?
Kattown: You do know hannah and him dated right?
PvtCassyJ: Yes I know
Kattown: Now she was with him when all this stuff happened. You dont think she had a right to
know? Hello she was his girlfriend. Marine or not again this didnt happen 7 years ago first off he
couldnt join the service with a criminal record they do a fine tooth comb back ground check you
know this
Kattown: they waive certain things
Kattown: but not sexual misconduct
Kattown: he was a marine supposedly after this happened and they wait til 2008 to nab him come
on CJ you know better then that
PvtCassyJ: Your right, I do know better than that, the thought DID cross my mind about that
waiver
PvtCassyJ: But I can't pull it from within me for it to care.
PvtCassyJ: Because I have a lot of respect for the man that will listen and care the way he does.
PvtCassyJ: And because I feel for the hurt that I heard in him when he told me.
Kattown: Ask your recruiter and the answers will lay out in front of you dont let meinfluence you
Im here with the truth the facts and what I know I know you care for him look at it from this angle
though Hannah and I care about you as well as a human being we have no reason to lie to you
and we dont have personal feelings on a basis like that
PvtCassyJ: And I also know my own past, and the fact that I should care more than anyone else
about things like this, but I do not get the same feeling from him I got from the men who could
actually do the things they've done to children.

2. Kattown: Well only you can make your own choices you're a grown woman whos going into the
military I have nothing else to state you know where i'm comming from you know things don't add
up and you know how it feels to behurt and lied to exactly like what just happened to myself and
tatt today. I despise JJ personally thats my own choice he has to seriously regain my trust for
anything to ever be apart of m
Kattown: my life again my reasons have been stated it was my care and concern for you as a
friend and anyone else that again had associated with him through a personal level I felt they had
a right to know before they to got hurt.
PvtCassyJ: I understand your concerne for me, but it would take more than that to hurt me, or to
change my opinion of him.
PvtCassyJ: I'm just sorry that you feel differently.
Kattown: So where do we go from here I know you
PvtCassyJ: The two of you made really good friends, and I know how much he cared and worried
for you. I know how much he hurts over this himself.
Kattown: regoing to stand by JJ and I dont know if you still want to be in contact with myself and
tatt. Me personally I would like to but the choice is yours
Kattown: I wont bash JJ I wont even talk about him after today
PvtCassyJ: I hold nothing against you as a person Ryan, understand that. But I can't abide by the
fact that you hurt him as badly as you did, regardless of who was lied to or not.
PvtCassyJ: It's my belief that this whole situation could have been handled with a lot more tact.
PvtCassyJ: Such as asking HIM when things did not add up for you, rather than going behind the
back of someone you had said yourself to consider friend and brother.
Kattown: We and I have asked..he stuck with the same story several times.
Kattown: Take what you want though see it as you may someone that loves someone else will
always stand by that persons side regardless. I understand that you will also take the rational and
turn it irrational as long as it stands that HE was hurt and pity him. Again i understand that I came
forth honest with everything people will make there choices based on there feelings for someone
else.
PvtCassyJ: I did not claim that he was the ONLY one hurt did I? And pity is too much a useless
emotion. Right now, all I can say, is I REALLY wish I hadn't quit smoking quite yet, honestly. We
all have a lot of thinking to do. I'm just sorry that things ended the way they did between you.
Kattown: I do not regret a single choice I made. Fool me once shame on me. Fool me twice
you're fuckin done is where I stand and he's fooled me more then twice so I gave him the benefit
of the doubt with many a things. I am perfectly content with the way things ended between us and
I wont look back I only look forward while checking my surroundings.
Kattown: I do not rule the option out that him and I could become friends again in the future. I
want him to understand as of right now it's not possible but in time like with wounds all things
heal. A little trust can go along way. We will never be where we were before but I can learn to
forgive people for simply being human and making mistakes it will just take time.
PvtCassyJ: That's your personal stand and your entitled. I don't think it was your right do do the
background check, or tell everyone else, but I won't make a scene of it. As far as you, hannah,
and I are conserned, I can lay it down, your welcome as yet wherever I am, but if any of this ever
comes up again, especially in public, then I will have had enough.